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writes:Had a row with my boyfriend he went to the ex flat stayed the night says nothing happened should i believe him ? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2012): what exactly drove him there? people do things like that when they desperately need someone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2012): That's upto you really isn't it? We can't decide your thoughts! Lol.
It all depends on how much you trust him. I guess, for me personally, I would probably think the worst, and if you don't trust someone anymore, then that = relationship over.
I'm surprised he admitted it thought to be honest? Unless he either, wants out and is saying it so you dump him? Or he's lying to just wind you up? (I'm assuming HE told you, and he could've lied n said he went to a mates...? Would you have ever found out otherwise??)
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (1 February 2012):
 Right, I'm sure his ex made him a cup of tea, they sat there talking all night about your row, and she gave him a blanket to sleep on the couch with.
Let's get real here when one goes running to their ex, not for a shoulder to cry on, it's to get even with their current girlfriend-boyfriend.
I wouldn't believe him.
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reader, AuntyEm +, writes (31 January 2012):
 No way of knowing but why did he go directly to the ex? Did he not have a mate or a relative to go to?
I would be suspicious of a man who 'involves' his ex into a row.
How long have you been together and why is the ex, the ex?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2012): If he had intentions of making things right; in wisdom, he should have gone elsewhere and not to an Ex.
I say its deliberate and shows poor judgement and how do you trust someone so unwise and careless?
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reader, thinkb4  +, writes (31 January 2012):
There is nothing anyone can say to make you believe or not believe him. That is something your own mind will do for you based on his account of it. I don`t think you will ever really know unless he owned up. It seems you don`t really believe him and that is quite understandable. I mean why did he have to go to his ex? Was there nowhere else he could go?
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