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Archived questions from: 22 January, 2012 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Yes My Mom Loves me, but besides that I''m depressed..(just broke up with Bf) How do you cope when you're completely alone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

22 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need advice... I'm 22 years old. My boyfriend of two years and I just broke up about two weeks ago. A few days ago, my best friend and I had a huge fall-out. We've been friends for years, and I can say that this was an argument we probably will not sure we'll recov... (414 words)

I have a Major Crush on this 18 year old girl. Should I try to move on and forget these feelings or keep persisting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

22 January 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm almost 17. I fell in love with a girl who played in the opening band for my band a while back. I thought I was in love the first time I saw her. It felt like a movie scene for the night that I was with her. I found out a few days after talking to her that she was 18 and ... (247 words)

I thought I knew my sexual orientation. So how come this married guy with same illness as me is pushing all the right buttons with me? Still just friends.only. He's married.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4686 days ago

22 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I thought I was 100% lesbian am totally happy with that and have been since I was younger - now almost 23! But recently I moved jobs and I now work next to a guy, let's call him bob. Bob started coming to talk to me and we hit it off as mates from the beginning, we are alik... (305 words)

I'm not 'out' yet but I want to tell him I like him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4686 days ago

22 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a crush on this guy but I don't know if he is gay. Me and him sit by each other in class and we mess with each other all the time and I started to like him. Over the weekend I went to his Facebook page and I wanted to see his pictures so I looked at his info and he had ... (191 words)

Spots on my vagina

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4686 days ago

22 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Since from as a long as I can remember I've always had spots on my vagina, at first I thought it was simply just a shaving rash, but they don't seem to disapear, and before people say anything, I can say for a fact its not a STI or anything of that sort, but I was just ... (77 words)

Was this a just a fling on a cruise or is there something more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

22 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I went on a cruise with an ex boyfriend and his friends. It was a couples thing and I guess his initial plan was to get me back during this vacation but he failed. He was being a complete jerk towards me the whole time and he kept starting petty arguments. I kept running into ... (349 words)

Is my penpal flirting with me or is it just my imagination?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

22 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a penpal and yesterday we were talking (we talk 6 hours everyday) and i am starting to fall in love with him but i am not so sure if he feels the same way about me (we will see each other in a couple of weeks in NYC). Yesterday, he told me i was pretty.. and he ... (96 words)

How can I make our night of passion more romantic ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

22 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hey :) Me and my boyfriend are planning to spend a romantic night on the beach for our ten month anniversary. We will be spending the night in a tent on the stones under the blanket together...we have had sex many times before :) he was my first and i really love my man. But... (84 words)

Chlamydia Question

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4686 days ago

22 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Two years ago I was raped by my boyfriend. I got cystitis afterwards; I got anti biotics and didn't think much more about it. I read about the symptoms of Chlamydia recently and it says you get cystitis symptoms (which I still have, but no infection) and a difference in ... (93 words)

Is it unhealthy or selfish to desire a companion?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

22 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have lurked on this site for a little while, and I was wondering whether I might make a post myself. I apologize in advance for its length. So I am another one of those people who is 21 and has never been in a relationship, never hugged or kissed anyone in a roma... (959 words)

Taunts from people about my appearance are upsetting me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4686 days ago

22 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Aunts, this isn't really a relationship question as such but I was hoping that you could give me some advice about dealing with people who make nasty comments. I would have been described as a Tomboy when I was younger as I always played football (soccer to you Americans... (223 words)

How can I stop cum leaking out after sex?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4647 days ago

22 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now, but there is this thing thats been annoying me for some time now... Whenever my boyfriend cums in me after sex, it never like stays in me? whenever I stand up I can feel it leak out, especially down my leg, its an embarress... (73 words)

Can I wear black to a wedding?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

22 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - HELP NEEDED!!! I know this has nothing to do with relationships but all input wanted!! My cousin gets married in April...and from my direct family (mum, dad, brother) im the one who has to attend the whole day (as in ceremony at church and party afterwards) (this will be my... (142 words)

My trust in him is crushed after hearing this rumour!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

22 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hey guys...i am here again for your advice and help.i heard a rumour about my boyfriend of a month.we;ve known each other since we was kids bt we only met last month because we moved to different places.anyway.i heard he had sex with some gal when he visited his hometown during ... (89 words)

I want her, but I want to take it slow. any suggestion?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4686 days ago

22 January 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear Pal, I want to ask a question. There was a girl, she came to my ICT centre to do something on the internet.Whenever she came, I will help her because she don't know anything on the computer. I like her and she like me too. We exchanged number. After that, I started sending ... (307 words)

I want my bf to show more affection.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4686 days ago

22 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so i need help big time. I've been dating this guy for about four months now. We've spent almost every day together and i honestly feel like i have totally fallen in love with this man. There is a huge age difference but i've never dated someone my age. I'm 22 and he's ... (266 words)

Is there any hope for a second chance with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4686 days ago

22 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Long story short, I told one of my best friends that I really like her. What I didn't tell her was that I was practically in love with her ever since we met, I was just afraid to tell her because she was, and still is, the only girl I have ever truly loved. When I did tell her, ... (184 words)

How can I tell him that I like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4686 days ago

22 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - There is this guy I like at school and me and him (I wouldn't call it all flirting) but we have been picking with each. I was picking because I started to really like him but I didn't know if he was gay. Well over the weekend I was bored and on Facebook and I looked at his ... (356 words)

Feeling the pressure to "settle down" what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4686 days ago

22 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi dearcupid. I am 26 year old single woman, have never been in a long term relationship. I am the only single person within my group of friends, in fact these days I seem to be the only single person wherever I go, work, university. This never bothered me before, I always... (397 words)

Should I go to Paris alone?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4686 days ago

22 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My parents have offered me an amazing deal, but i'm not sure if I should do it.. They asked if I wanted to go to paris for the weekend by myself, as an independent experience and to see Paris as i've always talked about. Sure it'd be incredible and I've heard about paris bein... (159 words)

Could she have recorded me? If this video got out it would ruin my life! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

22 January 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello there, I really need help. I am a guy and I have a girlfriend who I really love. Some time ago (about a year ago) we had a bad period and in this period I started chatting. In a chatbox I met a girl and we talked on msn for a while. Now after some months chatting w... (406 words)

He is wary about moving beyond a FWB with me. How do I help him see he doesn't have to be scared ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4686 days ago

22 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone my fwb and me were talking last night he said he would like a relationship with me but he is scared of starting over again as he came out of a long term relationship nearly two year ago we both agreed we would be good together as we are both very laidback about ... (77 words)

I need ways to get over my best friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4686 days ago

22 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so here's my problem; Basically I think I may be in love with one of my best friends. He's a really lovely guy, hence we are great friends, but there's always been just a little something inside of me that wants more. I told him that I thought I liked him last year on a ... (174 words)

I want to help my friend but I'm not sure what to do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4686 days ago

22 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi,um well i am about to be 17 this girl that i don't really know what to do anymore because its like im trying to help her get away from her past to get into the good with society like she wants to not get into how before when she was dateing way to many guys and like dated ... (289 words)

Is there any hope when your new bf loves his ex and is still "grieving" her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4686 days ago

22 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - For the last month and a half I've spent almost every night with my new boyfriend. He seemed to like this level of closeness and it's easy for us to kick it. We both have terribly difficult pasts, but are successful people and have a lot of fun together. However, we went dan... (476 words)

Do I give up on me orgasming so he can? My Boyfriend says I Squeeze too Much, too Early during Sex :(

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4686 days ago

22 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - OK, so here's my problem. My boyfriend says I squeeze my vagina too much too early during sex. All I'm doing is involuntarily starting to have a orgasm, which happens multiple times during sex IF i'm enjoying it. But he won't let me! He told me afterwards, the othe... (181 words)

He's a decent guy. Do his actions suggest he is interested? Should I just be more patient for him to make a move?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4686 days ago

22 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been on a date with this guy and we have kissed and stuff. He's been in touch and we text sometimes and he's a bit touchy feely when we meet in uni. Recently we have been messaging on Facebook and talked about the weekend. I said it would be nice to meet up at one point! ... (172 words)

I can't imagine having sex with someone. Am I asexual?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4686 days ago

22 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I am a sixteen year old female and wondering if you think I am asexual. My personal opinion is that I don't think so but there are some things that are making me wonder, but I can't tell. Ok. So I consider myself bisexual; I have no sexual preferences because for me emotional... (220 words)

I can't orgasm during sex. Will this problem go away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4686 days ago

22 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! This is sorta a personal issue, but please help me ): sorry if its tmi! I'm an 18 year old female who had sex for the first time last month. I've read and understand that some women don't orgasm the first five or six times they have intercourse, but i'm still a b... (249 words)

How do I handle this relationship? He's 22 and I'm 15. My parents do not know about him yet

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

22 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I've got a situation.. I'm a 15 year old girl that's in love with a 22 year old man. I met him when I had just turned 15 one month before and he had been 21 for about 7 months. We started talking and when we hung out for the first time it was like we had known each other fore... (169 words)

Not sure yet. Have I just not met the right person? How can I know my sexual orientation without experience?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4686 days ago

22 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I'm 20 years old, I have had many crushes on guys since I was young. and I've had 2 boyfriends. the first (when I was 15 - 16) I thought I loved until his exessive pressuring, made me feel really uncomfertable. The second was a nice guy but due to very different ve... (226 words)

My self esteem is low. I have a huge crush on this guy. So how do I get over all my worries that he's seeing other girls?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4686 days ago

22 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I've had a thing with a guy for about two years, he's asked me to be his girlfriend, but I said no because he was leaving for college in another place soon. Also, I'm not good enough for him and I just don't want him to be stuck with me. It took him over a year to a... (296 words)

My wife says I should be satisfied with sex once a week or less. I'm not happy. what can I do about this?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

22 January 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife only wants sex once a week or less this has made me so mad angry and upset most of the time I cant handle this lifestyle she has a low sex drive. I'm very sexed up every day I masturbate and need sex... Wife says she will never change once a week is enough...this up... (112 words)

Hide and seek games? Was he being polite or is he playing hard to get now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

22 January 2012 (?) age 41-50 - He told me we might meet at the weekend ( this was via FB chat) and then nearing the time he didn't call or text AT ALL? On chat, he told me it was fun we got together the other day :) Was he being polite or is he playing hard to get now? I still like him although it'... (170 words)

Has he hidden his profile or is something going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

22 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay this is complicated. I've been dating a guy I met on RSVP. We actually met for the first time yesterday and it was great! the day ended with a hug and a kiss!! and he made so many hints about seeing each other again. about me going to visit him and yada yada. That same ... (169 words)

He broke my heart and then turns up at work when he is not working? What's that? Is he trying to mess with my head?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

22 January 2012 (F) age 30-35 - me and my ex were together for two years, he broke up with me. i blocked him on facebook broke off all contact for my benefit. 3 months later now. we work together so i occasionaly have had to bump into him not biggy i have kept my cool and behaved professionally. ... (312 words)

To me he's perfect. But: Dealing with the pain of rejection, and jealousy from being insecure as a result. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

22 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - This guy I met liked me. I wanted to get to know him better before jumping into things, so I tried to give him the hint. He misunderstood and thought I was rejecting him. He proceeded to flirt with other girls. I was really hurt and I confessed. He said he didn't know I liked ... (517 words)

I want her and I love her, I would just really appreciate some tips please to reduce all the negativity in our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

22 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I really would appreciate some help please. I’ve been in a relationship with X for 11months. Bit of background in as brief as possible… Everything was amazing, I felt that happiest and safest ever until her parent found out about our relationship 6 months in, having... (836 words)

He has a medical issue. We work together. And I like him. Can I convince him that we can make it work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4687 days ago

22 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - this guy says he is madly attracted to me. There is nothing i can do can make him not like me. At the same time he says he doesn't want to be involved because he will loose his independence, and he will be responsible for my happiness and cannot bear to see me hurt. we had ... (373 words)

Is she playing me? Should I completely ignore her or what?

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22 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone I have a problem. I am a long time reader of this blog and occasionally come for help. Here I am again. I am a friend of the girl who got introduced to me in Feb when I came to USA through immigration. When I came here my girlfriend of 4 years back home dumped... (628 words)

Three years together. We are happy to remain celibate. But How do I deal with my apprehension about sex in the future?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

22 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My guy and I have been together for 3 years now and we've been pretty close to having sex a couple of times now and I know I want him to be my first and he's sure he wants me to be his first but I am just so scared for the first time so I always stop him before we get to that ... (73 words)

I miss him a lot. But 4 year age gap. Is he into me? Should I tell him? And if I so could it make a difference?

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22 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I've added this guy on my facebook a few years ago out of boredom but never talked to him because he lives in another country. So a few months ago he planned a visit to my country so we met up and I showed him around and we got along well. After a month I visited his co... (732 words)