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*naptrans
writes:ok my fiance is 31 and his sex drive has gone. how can this happen???
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reader, JustHelpinAgain  +, writes (19 April 2012):
OP, we need more info to give any useful advice. Is he as loving and kind as always but doesn't initiate sex? Does he have erection problems? Is there problems at work?
He should be your best friend, find a relaxed moment to talk gently about your feelings. If you are still confused come back to us :)
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reader, Yos  +, writes (16 April 2012):
 Stress. Depression. Porn. Boredom (with you). Having an affair. Drugs. Medical problems. Unhappy with his life. So many possibilities. Talk to him about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2012): Has he increased his exercise load or built up his muscle size? I dated a guy once and he had no sex drive because of the use of protein powders and steroids.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2012): Dear God.
Umpteen reasons. Stress at work. Depression. Feeling under the weather. Problems in the relationship. All of the above and plenty of others besides.
None of us know. Why don't you ask him about it? He's your fiance, you should be able to talk about this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2012): Too many different ways to list OP. The first thing I always advise people in situations of severe change in behaviour or their body is to go see a doctor. It could be stress, it could be illness, it could be that the honeymoon period has ended and this is his normal sex drive, it could be fatigue, I hate to say this but you could have put on a tonne of weight (I know that shouldn't be a factor but for some guys it is) or a hormone imbalance it could be so many things.
First try and figure out whether this is actually his normal sexdrive if it's not then look at his life in general, what's changed? Is there any additional stress in his life, more hours at work, lack of sleep, family drama etc?
If you can't figure out something from that then he needs to go see his doctor.
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