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Is it wrong to date a guy older than you?

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Question - (16 April 2012) 4 Answers - (Newest, 17 April 2012)
A female United States age 30-35, *enaP writes:

Is it "wrong" for you to be with a guy that's older than you?? Like five years? I just wanted to know your guys input. So if youre wondering yea im dating an older guy. We both love each other alot and its not just about sex. We havent even had it yet. And he doesnt want to do something that will make me do something i dont want to do. If u want more info im a virgin and hes not.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2012):

i can't tell you what's right or wrong. i just share my opinion.

most girls like older guys and most guys like younger girls. that's natural so I don't see anything wrong with it. 5 years is not too much unless you look younger than you are or he looks older than he is. in that case, people won't keep their mouths shut and they will manage to hurt you.

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A male reader, N91 United Kingdom +, writes (16 April 2012):

N91 agony auntI'm not sure of the legal age 100% in the USA, but I think it's 18? In that respect, yes it is wrong.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2012):

Generally I would say no it's not wrong, but at your age yes it is wrong. You are underage, so anything sexual can end up with him in jail and having a record as a sex offender for the rest of his life.

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (16 April 2012):

Danielepew agony auntSince you're underage, the answer is yes.

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