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writes: Is it "wrong" for you to be with a guy that's older than you?? Like five years? I just wanted to know your guys input. So if youre wondering yea im dating an older guy. We both love each other alot and its not just about sex. We havent even had it yet. And he doesnt want to do something that will make me do something i dont want to do. If u want more info im a virgin and hes not. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2012): i can't tell you what's right or wrong. i just share my opinion.
most girls like older guys and most guys like younger girls. that's natural so I don't see anything wrong with it. 5 years is not too much unless you look younger than you are or he looks older than he is. in that case, people won't keep their mouths shut and they will manage to hurt you.
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reader, N91 +, writes (16 April 2012):
I'm not sure of the legal age 100% in the USA, but I think it's 18? In that respect, yes it is wrong.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2012): Generally I would say no it's not wrong, but at your age yes it is wrong. You are underage, so anything sexual can end up with him in jail and having a record as a sex offender for the rest of his life.
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (16 April 2012):
Since you're underage, the answer is yes.
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