A
male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: See I always thought of myself a deeper guy. I think about abstract things, issues, etc. And like everyone else, I alwasy say what I want in a mate is that she is kind, trustworthy, loyal, sweet, etc. etc. etc. I don't put in that I want her to be good looking. That would be too superficial.BUT...the truth is, I do favor pretty women! I treat them better, I think they are more special, they can wrap me around their fingers, etc. And I am more eager to continue to date a pretty girl than a homely one even if the homely one has a better character!SO..I guess I AM superficial after all! Am I right in this? I guess I am like every other bloke.I dont wanna be like this if its true. Pretty is only skin deep in the end. I know that in my head, but how can I know that in my heart? Am I just an animal who is attracted to beautiful creatures? If so, what can I do about it?Thanks Reply to this Question Share |
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female
reader, person12345 +, writes (12 April 2012):
Everyone is at least somewhat superficial. There's nothing wrong with needing to be physically attracted to your partner to date her.
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