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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: Hello DC,So I have something that I've been thinking about a lot recently. So at the moment I'm a single 20 year old guy. Not bothered by being single as at sometimes I'm glad of it, others not.But I recently became a little fearful at the thought of cheating in a relationship, as in, if I did get a partner, I don't think I'd be able to resist the urge to cheat, IF I was presented with a chance i.e drunk on a night out or something similar, I'm not saying I'd go out of my way to do it. Just would find it hard to turn down if it could happen and I'm getting a little worried about it.Has anybody else had this feeling before?? Thanks for reading...
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (13 April 2012):
Then stay single, my friend.
Date girls but don't get into a relationship til you met "that" one girl who makes you forget all about cheating.
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reader, C. Grant +, writes (13 April 2012):
You're thinking too much.
If you find the right girl you're not going to cheat.
If you're with the wrong girl, you'll be open to someone else.
Clear as mud, no?
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reader, Foot-In-My-Mouth +, writes (13 April 2012):
I've had that feeling too. That's why every time I'm in a relationship, I put myself on a tight leash and avoid situations where I might be tempted. I also try to think how I'd feel if my partner did the same...and that helps keep temptation in check.
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reader, DanceInTheDark +, writes (13 April 2012):
Yes i've had that before.
If you really think it'd be that hard, and you want to be faithful then go out of your way to not be in situations like that.
Don't get drunk on a night out, don't be alone with women ect ect.
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