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writes:Hi everyone, I’m just wanting to get a bit of perspective on something, it's not an issue per say, I just wanna make sure I’m not weird in my behaviour.Ok so basically my girlfriend and me have just started living together and she has brought with her quite a few sex toys (vibrators, dildos etc), which she uses during sex quite a lot. We have sex most days and although the sex toys aren't always involved, when they are it results in very long 'sessions' and quite a few orgasms for my girlfriend. Ok that's the background now for my actual question... Is it weird for me to be absolutely and massively turned on when she does use her sex toys, now I’ve read a few issues before where people are turned off or intimidated by their partners sex toys, and I just wondered is it weird for me to be so turned on when my other half uses her various devices???
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2012): Hi everyone OP here, thank you all for your replies, glad to know i'm not a complete weirdo for enjoying this. Thanks again to you all for taking the time to reply to my query. Hope you all have a great day.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2012): Its not weird at all. Toys are supposed to bring a little extra fun and excitement to the bedroom. Thats what they are for! The people that have a problem with them are probably insecure. You are fine.
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reader, TrancedRhythmEar  +, writes (12 April 2012):
 nah man not weird... try them on yourself... i kid u not.. itll drive her wild maybe in a fantasy sense :D
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (12 April 2012):
Nope, not at all. And you're not the only one.
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reader, Abella  +, writes (12 April 2012):
 In a loving mutually enjoyed relationship where you and your girlfriend delight in each other's company, then how can it be wrong to get turned on by seeing how exuberant and excited your girl friend is?
It is not weird at all.
When she sees you get turned on it would make her happy to see that the two of would send her libido up a notch. Dony
She is relaxed enough to be herself. She trusts you enough to show you what really turns her on. She is having fun and being pleasured.
You are seeing her at her most sexy
And you are secure and comfortable about your own sexuality to not be threatened by her toys.
All power to both of you as you sound well matched.
She must regard you as a joy.
Hope you both have many more hours days years decades ahead together and much happiness together.
You and her are on the same page.
If you were freaking out or threatened by her preferences then it may be that shw would never have revealed the jo. Well done on your part
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reader, Replacement  +, writes (12 April 2012):
 Doesn't sound weird to me. Watching your S.O. get off is very erotic.
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reader, Dataluke +, writes (12 April 2012):
 You are aroused by the pleasure that they give your girl friend, how is that weird? That is brilliant and I'm sure your girlfriend loves that as well.
All the best, Dataluke
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reader, person12345 +, writes (12 April 2012):
 No, it's not weird at all. If it makes you both happy, there's no problem.
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reader, jinxx +, writes (12 April 2012):
 It's not weird at all! So don't you worry!
You're turned on by your girlfriend's pleasure, what could possibly be wrong with that? I think that's fantastic. Some people like toys, some people don't. Count yourself as someone that does, and keep on enjoying the great sex you two have.
Seriously, there's nothing wrong with that!
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