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writes:I think my Gf is been cheating on me. I have some clues that mightLead me to beleave that she is cheating. Although I have confronted her.. Cause that's the way I am... Anyhow the latest would be rug burns.. She brought it to my attention. There for I know to keep my suspicions down.. Never the less. It started an argument.. And when I mention a work associate she went bulistic.. As she always does. When I ask who she is texting or talking to. And she accused me of infidelity. I not perfect, but not a cheat... Nor abuser of any kind... Also she disrespects foul language.. A lot. Maybe someone can give me advise it's hurts.. I would feel better if the truth was said.. She also sneaks around like she hissing something...
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (13 April 2012):
 The fact that she don't go on the defensive when you ask her who she is texting but she goes on the offense is one of the "typical" cheater behaviors.
I wonder why you don't just end it? You don't need CONCRETE proof of cheating to dump your GF. IF you feel like you can't TALK to her without her jumping down to throat or you can trust her, what DO you have with her?
I'm guessing you feel like she owes you a bit of explanation for her behavior or some closure before ending it. So my best advice would be to sit her down and talk to her. And don't open up with I think you are cheating. Ask her how she feels your relationship is going. Ask her if she wants out. If she says it's fine and no, she wants to "stay" in the relationship, then bring up the rug burn, the aggressiveness around the texting and so forth. Be honest. Tell her you have a hard time trusting her.
Either the two of you can work it out or you can't. Either way you will HAVE to put an effort into TRYING. Not just guesswork and overactive imagination.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2012): I say its time to end it. If you don't trust her at all and you both are fighting and its a toxic cycle of arguing and mistrust- it's not working and void of love.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThe last saentence should be hideing something... Like a extra cell phone
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