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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Ok so first off, I Really like this Girl, (We'll refer her tas Girl 1) But, I dont know if she likes me, she says she loves texting me and such, But she flirts with other guys and it sucks, Now on the other side, Theres this girl (Girl 2) that says she likes me and always wants to text me. She is always hanging out with me at the park, shes really pretty, and flirts quite a bit.I really like girl 1, But I feel its a waste of effort, and I like Girl 2 as a friend but I dont know if I could get in a relationship with her. Should I keep trying with Girl 1 or start fresh and try Girl 2?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (30 October 2011):
 Only you know how you feel deep down, and if you are wanting to be with Girl 1 well then it is not fair on Girl 2 to get in to a relationship with her just in order to get over Girl 1. Because someone will get hurt. If you only see Girl 2 as a friend and nothing more well then it is better just to leave it as a friendship. As for Girl 1 it sounds like she is just naturally a flirty girl but have you made your feelings clear to her? Have you asked her out? Told her you like her? If not well then you need to make much more effort to show her that you care about her.
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