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writes:I just want to know if my girlfriend is cheating. we been together for some time but since we both in two different colleges we dont see each other as much but we do txt and talk on the phone. she recently sent me a picture and i noticed her butt is sticking out.. and its funny because she never had a big butt and it certainly wasnt sticking out the last time i seen her. One of my older friends told me its because she has been having a lot of sex, doggy style apparently.she has not gained any weight as far as i can tell. her waist are still small, and food cant target that specific spot without effecting the waste. what other explanation is there? so is she cheating on me? I need to know because this 5 year thing is about to end. Reply to this Question
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (1 November 2011):
 Hey, hips don't lie! Lol..
In all honesty, you don't have a shred of physical evidence that suggests she's cheating.
If you think she's cheating then hire a private investigator. Poor college student? Then throw on a coat, hat, and sunglasses then start tailing her. Be your own Inspector Gadget.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (30 October 2011):
 OH seriously?
Please if that was the case in the last year my butt would be ten times the size it is now...
your older friend is either pulling your leg or a moron.
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reader, heart245 +, writes (30 October 2011):
I completey agree with everyone else that has commented dont worry so much about it. One more piece of advice stop listening to some of your friend haha
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (29 October 2011):
 You want to end the relationship because of this? Oh man. I'm trying not to be rude here, but what on earth are you on about???
"food cant target that specific spot without effecting the waste." Uhm yes it can. It's called genetics. You gain weight certain places and not other places.
And your friend is fairly uneducated for believing in such stupidity, but if you believe the idiot then you are an even bigger one yourself, so the saying goes.
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reader, Plexi  +, writes (29 October 2011):
 THAT IS RIDICULOUS..................A woman's ass will not grow just because she's been having a lot of sex,lol. Maybe that's her body type and that's how she gains weight............we all gain differently,for some of us it goes on the stomach and boobs, some on the face, some thighs and ass..............or maybe she took up running or a similar activity that does target the glutes. Don't let your insecurities ruin your relationship hun, just talk to her!
Hope it all works out...
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reader, wanderlust92 +, writes (29 October 2011):
I really hope you're not serious.
There's a simple explanation: college food is ridiculously high in carbs and sometimes fat too. And if she's not doing sports, she's not going to be able to burn all that off as well as she normally does. That means she's going to gain a few pounds and areas that might have been toned at one point aren't going to look so toned anymore.
When I'm at home I walk 2 miles a day and do yoga twice a week and you could bounce a nickel off my butt, but when I go off to school, I loose the tone and it looks noticeably bigger.
If it doesn't seem like she's cheating, she's probably not cheating. Just adjusting to the college lifestyle.
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reader, natasia  +, writes (29 October 2011):
 What a lot of nonsense. Don't be so ridiculous. It must just be the way she was standing.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (29 October 2011):
Your friend is either very ill-informed or he was totally messing with you. A girl will not get a bigger butt because she's been having a lot sex doggy style!
And yes, women can gain weight in just their butt and hips--that's where a lot of women tend to carry more of their fat.
It was just a picture, sometimes you can look different just by the angle the photo was taken, what you're wearing, or the way you're standing.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (29 October 2011):
 Oh sure . If you have plenty of doggy style sex, your butt grows bigger. And also , the Earth stand still and the Sun revolves around it. And, if you have read hair, it's because your mother slept with the Devil.
Come on !!! How did you get yourself accepted in a college, if you can listen to, and believe, this kind of irrational, unscientific, stooopid crap ?
How that would happen, please do tell me . In practice. What is the biochemical or mechanical process through which doggy-style sex could translate into a bigger butt.
Btw, yes, you can gain weight in your lower body without gaining it around your waist- at least until the weight increase is modest , in the order of a few pounds. Buttocks and thighs store fat sooner and better than other areas, in female bodies.
Your gf has either gained a couple of pounds , or was wearing tighter garments than usual, which would enhance her shape, or it was her posture. in THAT moment she was sticking out her butt a bit more than when she normally walks.
I have so much trouble believing that a collge student can be serious in posting this question, that I see only two possibilities : either you are just pulling a joke on us poor Aunts , or you have serious and worrisome paranoid inclinations, you may want to talk to a coundelor.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2011): Really? You think her butt would grow from doggy style sex? That's absolutely insane! You need to get some smarter friends and possibly do some research on the human body.
Maybe she had padding in her but. Maybe she was holding it in a certain way. Either way her butt looking bigger is NOT a sign that she is cheating on you!
There are 3 realistic signs of cheating in the article at: http://www.relationship-circle.com/Signs-of-Cheating.html but I don't think she's cheating on you, and you accusing her of it because of something so stupid will hurt your relationship.
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reader, Sweety Pie +, writes (29 October 2011):
 This is so ridiculous.
If having sex doggy style gave you a noticably bigger ass, do you think any women would agree to do it?
Seriously, it was probably just the angle of the picture.
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