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writes:Hey! Well, here's the deal! I really like one of my best friends...?He's really nice, lovely actually, and we have had some amazing times together... Sometimes i think he likes me too.There is a lot of flirting and messing around, annoying each other, and all of my friends seem to think that he likes me. I'm not too sure though.There is constantly physical contact, whether we are walking or sitting next to each other. Our arms are touching in the middle...I'm just confused whether or not i should just go for it. I'm worried that because we are such good friends, if it all goes wrong, it could be the end of our friendship.. and i really don't want that!So, could you maybe give your opinion on the matter (i know its not much to go on) and/or give me some signs to look out for to see if he really does like me or if it's my ever hopeful imagination...Thanks xxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks :)
Its really hard to explain with him... sometimes he's really enthusiastic, and others he's really awkward and quiet.. :P
im pretty sure there is SOMETHING there, but im to shy to ask :/
we are such good friends, and i really dont want that to change, but i do want more from our relationship :L I'm just fickle :P hahahahah!
But thanks guys :)xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2011): i know exactly what you mean, im with same with my friend, hes amazing, but when we was the exact same he told his friend and he gave him some like really stupid advice, he told him to try and find a girlfriend, because it was all in him head? soo my friend, he did, an because i liked him i got really weary about it,i didnt like the girl, when she was out with our friends i wouldnt go out, didnt really like seing her with him, then we grew apart untill he just stoped talking to me because he got really attatched to his new girlfriend, so i text him asking him why we stopped talking and what the hell was he doing with that girl, (she was a old friend of mine and was a really bad slut at the time) he was too good for her... he text me back saying its because he really likes me and took some stupid advice.. we talked it all over and we was in the same boat, he does like me juat as much as i like him,...because of that stupid advice it pulled us together, im still with him now, 1yeah down the line, talk to him, or try an set him up with a girl, and loook for the reaction he gives you if you are as close as friends get you should beable to tell when he feel arkward!! :) hope i helped
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reader, xTheAlmightyDuckx +, writes (29 October 2011):
 Its hard to tell if someone likes you, if he only acts like this around you and not other girls then yes there is a good sign he does. If he acts like it around all girls however then he could simply be just a flirt-machine. I find the key to finding out if someone likes you especially if your young, they will tell you certain things and compliment you all the time on looks and everything else, also hugging is a big factor if they hug you lots and lots and i mean like alot of the time your with eachother then then i find it is a big sign they like you. Love is all about taking risks, and i am sure he will understand if you do ask him out back make sure to say before if you don't want to thats fine and i don't want it to affect are friendship.
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