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anonymous
writes: HiI just remembered that once upon a time, a few years ago, I used to have friends I could pick up the phone and talk to, but now I have none, and it really isn't my fault that I don't - just that, choices were made by them.And I went far away, and distances grew great.Besides, they're all fine, married and presumably happy. But they don't talk to me anymore. Atleast, it's very rare.Is it normal to feel lonely at close to 30? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, bebe87 +, writes (29 October 2011):
Hunny, the grass isn’t always greener on the other side. This is just part of life, people grow apart start their own family it’s all natural. Focus on your own happiness rather than what other people have. The friends you are talking about now have a different life, they have other obligations. No need to take it personal. One day you too will be in the same position. Make new friends, network yourself. And by the way age has nothing to do with if its ok or “normal” to feel lonely. Everyone at every age experiences loneliness from time to time.
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