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writes: I met this chap and he likes me and I'm beginning to lower my guard and like him back. At first, I wasn't too keen only because of the fact that he's almost 7 years my junior. After we spoken and got to know each other I'm considering giving him a chance. I'm 32 so obviously I'm looking for something more long term than I did in my 20's and would be interested in having children with the right man at a near point in the future, the problem is how to assess his interest and intentions without bringing up the commitment word. And do age difference relations work? I don't look my age nor feel my age at the same time he's really mature and wants to commit once he finds the right woman. I just don't feel like scaring him off too soon as we've only been dating for 3 months now. Any ideas or pieces of advice would be really appreciated. Thanks folks. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2011): Give it more time, if he is making you happy and he seems to be happy then just continue getting to know him
He may bring up the long term issue himself eventually. Bit too soon yet though.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (30 October 2011):
 My advice is to make a copy of this submittal and put it in a safe place where you won't forget it..... Then, write on your calendar, next June 30th (June 30, 2012) "Look at submittal"..... IF you're still hanging around with this guy, the resubmit it......
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