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writes:Well, it's such a breathtaking relationship that I can no longer take. It's a somewhat unulitral love. I guess this is the hardest thing I've ever been through. As a matter of fact, Once you live in an isolated island alone, ya only think about a way out. Although you've nobody that you can tell, but ya got yourself so you can talk to. I've always been talkin to myseld since I met this girl. She is the most beautiful, open-mined, spontaneous girl I've ever met. She has really changed me around. Once I got to college, I never thought about fallin in love, but I unfortunately did. Well, She is my class-mate whom I love the most. I meet 'er everyday, but I can never innundo some flirtations that can mean somethin to 'er. I feel like I've a large stone upon my tongue whenever I wanna say somethin. Well, I am afraid If I told 'er that I am crazy about 'er, I'd lose everythin. However, I desperaly want to know how she feels about me. Would ya help me to tell her, or should I keep silent forever.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (26 January 2008):
 If you want to know how she feels about you , keep away from her for a week and then after that visit her and see how she reacts.
You will know what she feels inside by the way she greets you or treats you. You can get a good inclinations of her feelings for you.
If she talks alot to you , it means she like's you.
Think of her as a friend and you will feel free. If you think of love, you will be tongue tied or fear of saying the wrong things. It is no fun because you become too serious.You need to relax and joke with her.
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reader, shandygirl  +, writes (25 January 2008):
 Have you been spending "one on one" hang out time with her? If so, your next move is to touch her hand... look deep into her eyes... and SMILE. Don't say anything though, and don't hold her hand for tooooo long. If she looks into YOUR eyes and smiles, or shyly looks down and smiles or blushes... you got her! Do this a few times. Also, when you are walking through a door together, or through a crowd...guide her through by open handly, gently, touching the small of her back...behind her waist. This is how MY boyfriend captured me!
But, a word of caution... take it slow, treat her with respect. Open doors for her while you SMILE with confidence and sincerity...and look into her eyes. Help her put her coat on, and smile with confidence and sincerity. As time goes on... briefly touch her hair, and stroke the side of her head, like you would a cat. ( I know that may sound silly, but I liked it when my boyfriend did that to me.) Girls like it when they feel "taken care of and respected."
From MY experience, when a guy would talk about feelings TOO SOON... it was a turn off for me. Because it made me feel like he was a "push-over." When a guy held his tongue for a while... it bewitched me. When a guy did as I discribed above, it made me feel attracted to him, because it made him look like a confident, take charge kind of guy... SEXY!
My boyfriend cooks for me, gets up from the couch to get something to drink for himself, and asks me if I want anything, buys me stuffed animals, flowers, buys me candy, calls me "babys" and "booties." But also... puts me in my place if I act like a BRAT!
TAKE CARE + GOOD LUCK!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2008): You could give her a note or ask for her mobile number and text her. You would of course take the risk she could show someone else.Why not just get to know her a bit better before you say too much. At some point you will need to say something otherwise you'll never find out how she feels.What is everything? Have you anything to lose? Is it just your pride?
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