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writes: Is She Jealous?This girl at my school in high school keeps calling me a slut i am a virgin and all but she conitues to call me a slut now like in jr.high and i am really sick and tired of it. I know I'm not a slut but what do i do about this girl thinking i am. Should I beat her up or just conitue to ingore it.XOXO Casside Adams
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reader, Moviefan  +, writes (24 January 2008):
 Just ignore her and maybe treat her really nice that will really upset her. But dont get violent thats solves nothing. Best thing you can do is just ignore her until she gets bored from not getting any satisfaction from it.
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (24 January 2008):
 Violence never solves anything. Unfortunately, there are always going to be people in your life that seem to be put there to challenge and vex you. The best thing that you could possibly do is laugh at her whenever she makes her comments. If she thinks that her comments don't hold any sway with you, that they are laughable and that they don't bother you, she give it up. Right now, she's getting a reaction from you, and that's what she was hoping for in the first place. She obviously thinks of you as a rival or is jealous for some reason. Have you ever considered asking her why she is being such a beotch? She may be acting out because she is under some misinformation - perhaps you could set her straight! Failing that, just laugh it off.
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reader, baybee-x-sparkii  +, writes (24 January 2008):
 if you beat her up your going down to her level, which to be honest is a bit pointless, ignore her and she'll get bored.
you know the truth
she isn't worth it
Sparkii x
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reader, shandygirl +, writes (24 January 2008):
 P.S. Or maybe you should feel sorry for her...
I want to share an experience with you ... When I was your age ... I went out to a Dance Club with my "then" hangout buddy, she was always jealous of good looking girls. One time, there was a GORGEOUS girl who was getting a lot of attention by mostly all the cute guys in the club. SHE SAID:" Look at that B-tch!" I said: "You don't know her... she could be the nicest person in the world."
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reader, shandygirl +, writes (24 January 2008):
I had the same experience when I was your age. It sounds to me as though she is extremely jealous of you. She calls you names... not because she THINKS you are, but rather, she is only trying to bring down your self esteem. Don't let it. YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE... and it is not defined by names that someone else calls you.
Don't beat her up, you could get arrested for assault.
Next time she calls you a name, try laughing. Because, she is making a fool of herself.
Or Ignore her.
Or maybe try to talk to her and ask her what is wrong. She just might break down and cry. Who Knows. Maybe some guy that she is interested in, likes you and not her.
Your call.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2008): i say you beat her up. she's been bothering you for a long time so just let go.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2008): Yes, shes jelous, And no if you retaliate and 'beat her up' as you say she'll do it all the more because she knows shes gettin to you, trust me jus laugh in her face, walk away and keep egnorin it, soon she'll get fed up and it will all blow over =] .. abiee x
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