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writes:Hi I am very shy. I am in a relationship for 2 and a half years now, and he hasn't kissed me yet. Every time I am with him something stops me from touching or kissing him... I have never been kissed. I know it is weird ok!Anyway, when I am not with him, I always think of him, and what I would like to do to him, but when it comes to the push I am too shy!!! Is there something wrong with me or what?!?! What must I do. Women need comfort you know...Must I make the move? Any tips to do so?Thanx!!! Take care
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2008): Very good advice from Kenny!
One comment from me: unless you are ABSOLUTELY CERTAIN and know for a fact (i.e., has he been tested and shown you the doctor's result-sheet) be sure to practise safe sex - which means he uses a condom.
Don't think this is weird or unromantic! Its not. Its a question of protecting both of yours health.......if he is understanding, he will not be upset if you tell him he must use a condom........every time, until you are sure he's not having sex with any one else!
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reader, kenny  +, writes (24 January 2008):
 I can't believe that you have not kissed each other after 2 and a half years. He must be very shy as well otherwise he would have kissed you, sorry i still can't get over the duration of the time you have been together and not kissed, its like unbelievable.
In all that time have you both never been in a romantic position, like snuggling up on the sofa together?. try to create a romantic setting, cook a really nice meal with wine and candles, make it really special, then finish the night off with a movie, preferably a love story, and fall into each other's arms. Don't think to much about it, let it happen naturally and of its own accord.
Good luck x
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reader, Dr Vendetta +, writes (24 January 2008):
 ok the fact You personally haven't been kissed aged around 27-28 ok that i can understand ( i didn't get kissed till 19)
but.. how can you have a "Relationship" for 2.5 years with out kissing. or being kissed or... anything? i'm curious as to the reason your bf has never made a move on you.
allow me to be blunt.
Tell him to kiss you. its not romantic but it'll get the ball rolling.
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