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writes:My wife and I have been seperated for a year. I made it clear to her that I had no choice but to move on. I tried for 9mos to get her back and she said no at every turn. I recently met someone. My wife started looking into the divorce papers and also found out about the person I met and now all of sudden wants me back. She says she always has loved me but it took looking into the divorce papers in order for her to wake. Obviously, my new relationship which made me happy is destroyed because of this sudden change in my wife's heart. How do I know it is real?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2008): if you love her go back to her.if you dont then move on with the one you found.
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reader, dapone 1  +, writes (24 January 2008):
 HI.
A few years ago i went through the same problem, my ex found that i was seeing another woman a year after we seperated , i tried to make things right for a year then i gave up moved on, and found some one who really loved me, she tried every trick in the book to destroy my new relationship, but i would not let her back into my life.
I then divorced her and stayed with my then g/f, we have been together for 22years i could not be any happier, i know it is a very difficult decision,but i think if you let your ex back into your life she will have you around her little finger, then she will break up with you again, and when you find some one new she will give you the same line again, you really need to move on with your new g/f and enjoy a better life together,if after 9 months of trying then being rejected you really do deserve a better life with some one new, who will love you.
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reader, Lostandalone +, writes (24 January 2008):
 You know. Fact is human nature is to want what you cannot have. I don't think your wife actually wants you, she just doesn't want anyone else to have you either. Feel her out and tell her that you need time to make that decision as you are happy with your life as it is. Besides you let her ponder for 9 months and she still went and attempted to file divorce papers. So if its time that you want and she cares that much than it will keep just like yours kept for her. Don't let this ruin your current relationship. You don't know where your wife head is so don't join her on her trip into confussion...
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