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*andueddy
writes:HI evryone there! dated a lady for 7 years now and we have two lovely sons the problem is she is not respecting me and she talk to me the way she feel like. I lost my intresting on her and I dated other lady this one seems honest , responsible and respect me should I tell the mother of my sons that it is over? and how can I tell my new girlfriend that I have two kids? I really want to get rid of this, can I move on with mym new girl? I talk to her several time but noindiction of improvement.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2008): There is no point in staying with her if you don’t love her any more, even if she is the mother of your sons. You will only end up hurting her more in the long run. You have to be honest and tell both of these ladies how you feel and the new lady about your 2 sons. My partner told me about his child on our 3rd date and I really appreciated and respected his honesty with me that way. And since then we both have been very open and honest with everything in our lives and it’s helped us loads in how we approach things then! Best of luck with everything and hope it all works out for you ?
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reader, Ele  +, writes (25 January 2008):
Yes! Tell the mother of your children that it's over! Better to break up with her than cheat on her.You have got to tell your new girlfriend about your children as soon as possible. If you deceive her about your children she will find out at some point and feel really betrayed and probably resent you.
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reader, rcn  +, writes (25 January 2008):
 So, she's honest, and responsible, but you're not being honest with her? Being with two at the same time is wrong. You need to tell her you have a new girlfriend and so you're ending the relationship, and you need to tell the other one, you have a girlfriend and two children, but are ending that relationship. It all starts will being honest, then you'll work the rest out.
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