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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My friend lost her virginity even though she is a Christian and now she has lost all self respect! I want to help her get it back!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6464 days ago

18 September 2006 (M) - One of my best friends has been dealing with the loss of her virginity for the last 8 months and I have a question about trying to advise her. She is a very christian girl that believes in waiting till marriage and that her virginity was the single greatest things she had.... (333 words)

We had sex in the middle of the night but my BF couldn't come! Is it me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6638 days ago

18 September 2006 (F) - My bf woke up in the middle of the night and wanted to have sex with me. After a long long time, he never came, so he stopped trying. I asked what's wrong, and he said it's because he woke up in the middle of the night, and some response of his hasn't resume (and it has nothing ... (78 words)

No condoms - will birth control be enough?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6632 days ago

18 September 2006 (F) - I finally told my bf I'm on birth control last weekend. This weekend, he has tried having sex with me without a condom. He didn't ask me but read my body lanuage that I didn't mind. When he is about to come, he asked me if it was okay. I thought that was really sweet of him. I ... (134 words)

Will my lack of education mean my BFs mother won't approve of me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6638 days ago

18 September 2006 (F) - I have a problem....I am in love with this guy......who is REALLY clever and studying A levels AND a degree at a top sixth form. I on the other hand failed all my GCSEs and am on one of the lowest level courses you can possibly get. This guy's mother is really ambitious... (136 words)

My fiancee just had a little girl to another man and now she won't let me see her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6638 days ago

18 September 2006 (M)

- My fiancé had a little girl 2 weeks ago due to a drunken one-nite stand with her best friend. It happened before we met and she found out when she was 6 months pregnant, it doesn't bother me that I’m not the dad but my girlfriend doesn't want to see me and every time I try and ... (202 words)

5 years of long distance is taking its toll because I now have feelings for someone else!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6638 days ago

18 September 2006 (M) - I have been in a long distance relationship for about 5 years. I see my girlfriend on the weekends, and we both love each other very much. Recently my girlfriend was away for a few months, and while she was gone I developed feelings for someone I work with. This is the firs... (159 words)

Who initiated sex, me or him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6637 days ago

18 September 2006 (F) - I stayed over at my bf's apartment this weekend. He woke me up in the middle of the night and started touching me sexually. I thought my boyfriend wanted something, so I started kissing him and showing I'm interested going further. (BTW, this is not the first time we have sex). ... (105 words)

All I left my friend was a note when I left because he was becoming obsessive!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6638 days ago

18 September 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid!I have a tough question to ask about a clingy friend. We have been good friends for about 3 years, remaining close even though we resided in opposite sides of the country (we met when I lived in the southwest). L has been very helpful and nice and we have been sup... (601 words)

My new BF can't seem to talk about anything but sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6638 days ago

18 September 2006 (F) - I started going out with my boyfriend about a week ago and already I am finding it difficult! I have posted on here before. I am 30, he is 22. I can’t tell what behaviour of his is due to a learning difficulty he has or what isn’t. His communication isn’t good and when he... (874 words)

I need some help on my boyfriends erection problem

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6638 days ago

18 September 2006 (F)

- I have been with my boyfriend now for nearly 6 months, he is the most wonderful guy in the world and i love him to bits. We have not yet slept together because he can't maintain an erection. I looked it up on the internet and found that it is called "impotence" but it is a psy... (204 words)

We started cuddling and holding hands. What does this mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6638 days ago

18 September 2006 (F)

- well i recently posted about me liking a guy but our parents are best pals well today i went to his house cos im close wif his faimly and his mum and dad had to go out. so she left me and him alone. i was lying on the couch and started drifting off and he came up behi... (94 words)

I'm being accused of cheating! I'm starting to think he's the one with the problem!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6637 days ago

18 September 2006 (F) - My boyfriend, of approx 2 years, and I got into an argument about 2 months ago. I got angry with him, left the bar we were at, and went to another bar until 2:00 am when it closed. He beleives that I cheated on him that night. I did not. He continues to bring it up as if he ... (111 words)

My man doesn't want to bring up my children. Does he not love me enough?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6638 days ago

18 September 2006 (F)

- If your man says that he doesn't want to bring up your children (and there not his) does that mean he doesn't love you enough?...Or would most men run a mile?... (31 words)

How can we keep our relationship strong and steady and stop the silly rows ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6638 days ago

18 September 2006 (F) - Hi people, just a quick question, how can I keep my relationship strong and steady? My partner and I have been through a lot recently. We've got through it now but argue every 5-10 days. We dont ever get nasty or violent but i get mad then stroppy and we have to have serious ... (113 words)

Im paranoid about his "female" friends and its ruining our relationship, please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6638 days ago

18 September 2006 (F) - Hi everyone! My bf and I have been together for a yr now but I still feel really paranoid about a few girls he talks to. It all started one night when a girl he'd told me about was texting him on a night out. I wasn't there that night but apparently he was being pestered by her ... (176 words)

I want to reconnect to my Christian roots - my wife doesn't.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6638 days ago

18 September 2006 (M) - I'd like to reconnect to my Christian roots, but my wife won't hear of it. When we met neither one of us were church-goers. Over time (7 years) I've had contact with several churches that I feel represent the message I'd like to hear (acceptance, love, and the healing power of ... (169 words)

Was he ticked off with me or embarrased because I said not to sex ??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6638 days ago

18 September 2006 (F) - Alright guys I have a question. I had a date over the weekend out of town. (He lives like 3 hours away.) Anyway, I stayed there because I didn't want to drive home at 3 in the morning. Long story short, he was supposed to be on duty early the next morning. We left it that he ... (177 words)

Am I reading too much into it or does he want to get back together ??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6638 days ago

18 September 2006 (F)

- My boyfriend and I broke up about 2 months ago now and we have still remained friends. Two days ago I was speaking to him and he was concerned about where I've been because I haven't returned his call from the night before. Then, during our conversation, I mentioned something ... (106 words)

Will the pill fix period pains? But will I put on weight?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6638 days ago

18 September 2006 (F) - I get realy heavy painful periods and i have had advice from people saying 2 go on the pill as i am sexually active anyway but its very rarely i would, but is it true that people gain weight from this?? please help i dont like suffering from painful periods x x x x... (54 words)

He made me feel so cr*p, trouble is we share the same friends and will see each other at Uni.. How will I cope ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6637 days ago

18 September 2006 (F) - hi, my bf of almost 2 yrs split from me a couple of months ago. we're at uni and lived together there for 1yr. To begin he was slightly geeky but a sweet guy, but he is now obsessed with being cool. He cheated in a club one night and on returning said it was more "excitin... (318 words)

How do I get to know this girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6638 days ago

18 September 2006 (M)

- hiya!! in my second week at college ive seen a girl whom i truly like. I think shes absolutely stunning and seems quite charming. I'd really like to get to know her but the problem is i just dont know how to get her on her own, or just gain any form of contact with her at ... (137 words)

How does a boy look at you if they fancy you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6631 days ago

18 September 2006 (F) - hi, im 15 and i kind of think this boy fancies me, he's the same age as me. if a boy fancies you how do they look at you?... (30 words)

Divorced for a year but I'm still pursuing her, why doesn't she want me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6630 days ago

18 September 2006 (M) - Hi, Lisa and I have been divorced for one year(total 1yr6mo with seperation). Lisa is 35 yrs old. We were married 12 years. She recently got breast implants and since then her attitude has changed. But still I love her. This has nothing to do with her new look, actually... (446 words)

Says he loves me but a year and a half on he STILL won't meet me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6638 days ago

18 September 2006 (F) - I have talked on the phone with this guy for a year and a half. I am friends with his brother and that is how we connected. He has been away at college, but he has been back in town for several months. He says that he loves me, but is just too nervous to meet me in person. He ... (87 words)

Kissing my bf's neck turns him on but when he does it to me...I feel nothing? Is this normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6631 days ago

18 September 2006 (F) - Hello! Usually just kissing my boyfirend's neck turns him on, but when he kisses my neck I don't really feel anything. Should I be feeling something? I've only been going out with him about three months and he's my first boyfriend. This may seem like a silly little question... (70 words)

The one that didnt want to know, started speaking to me on msn again, trouble is hes gone awol again!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6638 days ago

18 September 2006 (F)

- The same boy that said f**k ya is now speaking to me. we were on msn last night talkin n we arranged to meet up 2 have sex. we said we'ed both come online today to sort out times etc. but e hasnt come online and i texted him but have got no response. last night he seemed quiet ... (120 words)

How do you know when your relationship is actually over ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6529 days ago

18 September 2006 (F) - How do you know when a relationship is over? - I have been with my guy for 11 months now...He keeps saying he will cut down on his drinking (he's drunk at least 3 nights out of the week), will find a better job so that he doesn't have to borrow money from his parents, and sex ... (104 words)

The affair started out daring and fun, now I feel like im being used for sex, but each time I try to end it he gets hostile!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6638 days ago

18 September 2006 (F) - hi, i've been married for 11 years and always thought that i was reasonably happy, until arpund 4 years ago, when i suddenly realised that i wasn't compromising in my relationship, but just giving in all the time. I became very depressed and my partner didn't want or know how ... (105 words)

My brother is a very troubled person and I need advice on how to help him. Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6638 days ago

18 September 2006 (F)

- I know this is not a relationship problem but I really didnt know where to find advice and I think all of you agony aunts give good advice so please help me. My older brother who is twenty one has led a very bad life, he got bullied all through school and then when he came home ... (775 words)

After 7 years we finally kissed! Im confused to if he likes me as he goes away for weeks at a time with no contact!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6636 days ago

18 September 2006 (F) - Does he fancy me? When I was 16 I meet this guy who was really into me but I blow him out cos he was just driving me mad. However the following year he had grown into this really attractive guy. I was really into him but he blew me out. We were friends but we never wen... (579 words)

When do you know if they are the "one" ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6638 days ago

18 September 2006 (F) - When do you know the person you are seeing is the one for you ? Does it suddenly creep up on you or do you know straight away ? Sorry for the silly question, but I thought I really knew someone and now im not so sure, and I thought they were the one and now its seems t... (110 words)

How can I form a better relationship with my wife ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6638 days ago

18 September 2006 (M) - I've been married for 40 years, I don't love my wife and I thinks she knows that. Recently friends of ours have split up, I am absolutely obsessed with the woman in this split and I can't help thinking of her all of the time. Could you suggest ways of getting this woman out of ... (68 words)

How can I let him know how I feel without coming on to strong ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6638 days ago

18 September 2006 (F)

- i recently have started going with a fella and he spilt up from his wife about 4 months ago and he 1 child to her and two step children and he is going through with a divorce from her! he has been hurt by her as she had an affair with someone else! i understand where is coming ... (152 words)

What does it mean when the girl breaks it off but says she wants to be your best friend ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6638 days ago

18 September 2006 (M) - What does it mean when a girl breaks off with you after 4 months and wants to be your "best friend" and writes a msg saying i care soo much about you and i'll alwayz be there for you? thanks... (40 words)

Will this happen every time we have sex ??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6638 days ago

18 September 2006 (F)

- I had sex for the first time a month ago. It was good except for the fact i bled alot and was considerable painful and my boyfriend noticed! He is a considerably large guy in that department, some 8 inches and extremely wide. We haven't slept together again since then, but i ... (80 words)

I met up with my ex and had sex, now hes ignoring me!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6638 days ago

18 September 2006 (F) - i met my ex of a year and a half last tues,he is my 1st 4 everything and i do really love him,we met up and had a really good nite n we ended up having sex but now hes ignorin me for no good reason?i dont get it.one min he wants me and the next he dont??? help!!!... (59 words)

He doesnt like sleeping in the same bed as me and I dont know why!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6638 days ago

18 September 2006 (F) - the boy i like feels uncomfortable sleeping in the same bed as me and dont understand why he wont talk to me about it and its proper makein me feel depressed please help me ... (35 words)

After 2 years together, we dont seem to be into sex anymore with one another, anyone think of how we can spice it up ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6638 days ago

18 September 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for 2 yrs and we both really care about each other but we just aren't into sex anymore. when we do have sex we are so bored we usually stop b4 either one of us finishes. we've tried new positions and toys but its just not doing it for us. ... (75 words)

I'm obsessed with his Ex! and need help to deal with it!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6631 days ago

18 September 2006 (F) - Hi everyone, i have used this site before and had some really good, helpful advice - wondered if anyone has any tips for this problem?? Basically, my problem is that although I have been with my boyfriend for two years, i cant stop obsessing over his exes. One in ... (392 words)

Whenever im intimate with my boyfriend I feel he is very distant,I sometimes feel like a bit on the side!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6638 days ago

18 September 2006 (F) - Well ive realised that everytime me and my bf do something intimite he seems to be very distant after. I spoke to him about it before and he said he didnt realise but its happened again and its making me feel i am being used. I know im not because other wise we wouldnt have ... (114 words)

My wife spends alot of money on her parents, at the cost of our family, I dont feel this is right, Any advice ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6638 days ago

18 September 2006 (M) - I'm married and blessed with a son, my problem is that me and my wife cannot seems to agree on the fiancial support to give to her parents. I feel that she spends a lot of money on her parents at the cost of our family but her position is that her parents needs are her problem ... (74 words)

Always a reason why we cant have sex and its driving me insane!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6638 days ago

18 September 2006 (F)

- I need some advice, as I'm very frustrated! I have a high sex drive and I feel like me and my boyfriend hardly ever get to have sex, as there's always a reason we can't. He has genital herpes and coldsores on his face too. If it's not one, it's the other! And if it's neither of ... (100 words)

Im really anxious about my bf going away for a month, what can I do to stop stressing!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6638 days ago

18 September 2006 (F)

- My boyfirend is going away for a month and I know im really gonna miss him. I do have a life hobbies and friends but miss him loads. I can suffer from anxeity attacks and dont want to come accross needy to him I dont want to push him away We text a few times every day and he... (190 words)

How can I tell him I want to be friends with him, without sounding desperate ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6638 days ago

18 September 2006 (F) - In pevious questions, I said that I wanted ideas on regaining someones trust, well it seems that the person I was texting was not the person in question. Anyway my dilemma is that the guy in question I have actually spoken to him and said to him I like him and he was well ... (168 words)

When my girl is with her friends she ignores me and shows off! Why would she act this way ??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6639 days ago

18 September 2006 (M) - I have a girlfriend we have been going out for over 10 months now, and we are very comftable with each other. The other day however, my family were having a gathering so I invited my girlfriend too come, as well as her mate and her mates sister and her boyfriend. However i felt ... (275 words)

He promised he would stop his porn viewing, its started again and now he lies, what can I do to save my marriage?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6638 days ago

18 September 2006 (F) - Do I really know my husband? He promised to stop viewing fat porn but I've found even more on his PC. I've viewed other similar posts and I understand that men and women view sex and arousal differently but this is now the third time I find myself trying search advice si... (657 words)

Have I scared him away ? Things were great after the date, now he hasnt replied to my mail or texts!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6638 days ago

18 September 2006 (F) - Any suggestions gratefully recieved!! I went on a semi-blind date with a guy 2 weeks ago and we got on brilliantly - he was flirting like mad, as was I, and afterwards he asked if I work week-ends, when I was next around and said we'd have to book a 'proper' night out, befor... (152 words)

I gave up partying as I was committed to her, she however hasnt, I dont feel this is right advice please!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6639 days ago

18 September 2006 (M) - Me and my girlfriend are in a commitment relationship and currently living apart, in a long distance relationship. I stopped drinking and partying for us, changing over to a new leaf of life so to speak. However she continues to drink and party and sometimes it gets to me when ... (106 words)

He only wants to stay friends, but I Love him, he said he would be sad if I dated others, but wont give me more!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6638 days ago

18 September 2006 (F) - Hi, hope somebody can help me with my dialema. I have this amazing male friend who I have known for a short period of time we meet every week and speak on the phone every day and in that short period I have fallen in love with him. He was hurt in his last relationship badly ... (308 words)

Any idea what this liquid is ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6638 days ago

18 September 2006 (F) - me and my fiancce have had sex before. i havent had any kids and i'm not pregnet and i dont have any diseases. during foreplay he and i both enjoy him sucking on my breasts. but he doesnt do it often because he says there is a onion-like liquid coming out when he does and he ... (69 words)

My BF looks at other women when we have sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6639 days ago

18 September 2006 (F) - Why does my boyfriend have to look at other women while we are having sex? He also does not like me to make eye contact while we are having sex. We have been together for 4 years and I have not yet experienced the intimacy that I need. He is a hard worker and we are bot... (126 words)

Is using food to enhance our sex life safe?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6638 days ago

18 September 2006 (F) - My fiancee is wanting to use food, all different kinds, when we play, the thing is he wants to put it in my vagina then perform oral sex...is this ok? ... (30 words)

17 year old gay guy who has a crush on someone is already in a relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6638 days ago

18 September 2006 (M) - Hi i am a 17 year old gay guy , who really likes a friend ive met very recently but the friend has a boyfriend already...what will i do?... (29 words)

How do I get the guy I like to trust me again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6639 days ago

18 September 2006 (F) - I wrote a letter to this guy i like and enclosed my number (it's a phone i rarely use, so i wasn't bothered about giving the number out.). Anyway I received a call about a week later, and i am pretty sure it was from this guy, the thing is initially i told him my name , then ... (236 words)

Advice needed on how to approach the girl I like!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6639 days ago

18 September 2006 (M) - I have known this girl for about a year and I've always liked her. But over the last few weeks i cant stop thinking about about her and cant seem to get a decent oppurtunity to express my feelings to her. Its driving me crazy. She is quite popular and im worried she will find a ... (78 words)