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writes: I wrote a letter to this guy i like and enclosed my number (it's a phone i rarely use, so i wasn't bothered about giving the number out.). Anyway I received a call about a week later, and i am pretty sure it was from this guy, the thing is initially i told him my name , then because i thought he was messing about i told hm it was a friend. Then about 2 weeks ago i text him and asked him his name to make sure it was the guy in question, but he asked me my name, then i told him that it was the name i told him before he didn't believe me and now thinks i am playing games with him. How can i get him to trust me again or at least give me a chance. I must admit though I have been sending texts and emails to him.Another thing which may have caused a problem is that when I am working i am known by my middle name, otherwise it's by my first name, so i told him my first name, now he thinks i have changed my name.what can i do? I know what i did was stupid but i was worried he was messing me about and i realise he wasn't
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your replies. I will try that and see what happens. I guess I will just have to give it time, but I can guarantee in no way was I playing games with him, I just wasn't sure if he had got a friend to text me
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reader, Toria +, writes (18 September 2006):
 Time to come clean and honest with him, tell him exactly what you did and the reasons you did it, and hope that he will understand that you was just being careful because you felt he was messing with you, I don't think you will get his trust automatically but you have to start somewhere and just prove to him over time that you are worth his trust.
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reader, Ponungalungb  +, writes (18 September 2006):
 What's in a name? A rose by any other name would smell as sweet.
It sounds like you are playing games. Why all of the deception?
Just explain it the way you explained it here. Who knows, he may just understand. . . but then again. . . .
Good luck.
- Rich
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