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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My friend is obsessed with MSN messenger! It's like she's forgotten about her real world friendships..what can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6658 days ago

27 September 2006 (M) - One of my best friends (and who I thought of as a potential g/f) has become obsessed with talkin on msn! She's on it pretty much every night and usually talks to about 10 different people at the same time which hardly constitutes as a proper conversation with any of them! ... (133 words)

She rejected me but I'm crazy about her! I need advice on how to get her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6659 days ago

27 September 2006 (M) - hey....i m a 19 year old...i've had relationships in the past but have neva realy loved the ones ive been with.But then i found love when i saw the most beautiful girl!...I love her fer the past year!...nd still do so...Ive told her but she doesnt love me!...I aint gonna give ... (63 words)

I get a feeling he wants to tell me something. I like him and I want to know what's he's thinking. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6659 days ago

27 September 2006 (F) - I like this lad I've wrote about him before. We're writing a story together cos we both had this really good idea and anyway i wont go into detail but we each take in turn to write a little bit. In the story our characters are gettin pretty close then yesterday suddenly he... (145 words)

Raring to date girls...but sooo nervous. Help me out here, please!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6658 days ago

27 September 2006 (M) - Im male, 21 years old, and have a problem, I have never had a girlfriend which is making me really depressed, I have low self esteem from my past, I have asked 2 girls out in the past both times being rejected which I think is my main problem with talking to girls nowadays, the ... (694 words)

Does having sex in a shower cause bladder infections?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6659 days ago

27 September 2006 (F) - I have a serious question...I have been getting bladder infections very frequently. What causes this? someone told me that you get them from having sex in the shower, or having too much sex? Why does this happen every time that i have sex with my boyfriend?... (46 words)

Explain to me what I am feeling with this new partner? Is it love or friendship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6646 days ago

27 September 2006 (F) - I have split up after being married for over 12 years. I can't tell If I am in love or just great friends with a new partner. Does love have to be that you would die if you did not see the person or can it just be that you enjoy their company but there is no great spark. I ... (72 words)

Why does he talk about the rest of our lives and then says-- he is afraid of being married? What's up with that?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6659 days ago

27 September 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years and have decided to get married (though there is no ring or formal engagement yet). We have lived together for about a year. He tells me he loves me and wants this to work and wants to be in a relationship. But he also ... (217 words)

Still attracted to my marriage counselor! Should I tell him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6659 days ago

27 September 2006 (F) - I posted a question a couple of weeks ago about how I was very attracted to my Relate counsellor. One therapist suggested I tell him about my attraction, but this is difficult as both my partner and I see him together and I'm trying to suggest a one to one session without ... (155 words)

33 and torn between two men, past and present!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6658 days ago

27 September 2006 (F) - Hi All I've posted questions about this "lurve" problem before, but I still need some help... I fell madly in love with a neighbour - we knew each other as friends for 3 months, and then got together. We were both totally smitten with each other. However, from being a ne... (729 words)

I think my ex still wants me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6658 days ago

27 September 2006 (F)

- I really fancy my ex boyfriend still ,how can i get him to like me back , i see him looking at me . . . i wonder if he thinks what if ? ... like i do ... (38 words)

My ex and my friend - how can it be?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6659 days ago

27 September 2006 (F)

- There are rumours around school that my ex and my friend love each other and should go out ... however i dont rly think that my ex wants to go out with her ... but how can i be sure ? ... without asking him how will i know if they are in love ? ... (55 words)

Poor Ratings Query

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6645 days ago

27 September 2006 (F) - Can anyone tell me why I have such poor ratings?? I thought I was giving good advice. Please answer.... (19 words)

Will this have affected me long term ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6654 days ago

27 September 2006 (F) - A few week ago i got close with this boy and he fingered me, ater a while it started to hurt when he was trying to put more fingers up. And it stil hurts abit now, im still a virgin and could this have had any affect on me or could i have lost my virginity if so will it hurt ... (70 words)

How can I stop my mum being so controlling and stopping me from living with my brother ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6659 days ago

27 September 2006 (F) - Hi everyone, i have a serious and important question that i need advise. Im 20 and i been together with my bf for 3mo but been best friends since 8th grade. Recently back in june my mom and me got into a huge fight and she kicked me out but i was willing to. I moved in with my ... (227 words)

I have a vaginal odour despite cleansing, anything I can take to reduce this ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6658 days ago

27 September 2006 (F) - i have recently found that i have vaginal odour problems and when i have sex it comes up more. I wash all the time but how can i get rid of the problem ? Are there any tablets i can take for this ?... (46 words)

Is she having second thoughts about us ? Cant understand why all of a sudden she is so distant ??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6658 days ago

27 September 2006 (M)

- My girl is giving me the cold shoulder, why? We have been dating for three months, and things have progressed very fast. We both agreed that the way it was going was fine. I'll be honest, I fell in love with her and we have already been talking about our future together... (264 words)

Did my wife really stop in the middle of the act because she felt bad, or did she cheat ??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6659 days ago

27 September 2006 (M) - did she cheat on me or not ?? me and my wife have been living together for 12 years, and have we have 2 kids. Our realationship has had its ups and downs over the years, but somehow we have made it work. About 6 months ago we had a huge fight,and it was just the last straw f... (1091 words)

How can I get it through to my ex, that its well and truly over!?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6658 days ago

27 September 2006 (?) - I am hoping that some of you can help me with this problem – you see I was with my boyf for 9 years, for 2 of them we were engaged to be married, we broke up 18 months ago after I found out he had been sleeping with my supposed “Best Friend and Bridesmaid” but of course he said ... (518 words)

What do girls in general like to see in guys ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6659 days ago

27 September 2006 (M) - just wondering why do girls in general like to see in guys... (12 words)

I really like this 16 year old guy, im only 13 and a bit too shy to approach him!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6575 days ago

27 September 2006 (F)

- I really like this guy who is 3 years older than me ( 13 to 16), i know he likes me too but he has told my friends that im a bit young but he would go for me if i was older. I really want to talk to him but i dont know how to approch him because of the age difference and ... (71 words)

We act like a couple even after past history of breaking up, things are great, but we are not a couple and she's moving out! What should I do ??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6659 days ago

27 September 2006 (M)

- LONG BUT I AM DESPERATE FOR ADVICE Hi there, I am in a right old mess. I was with my gf for four years, lived together for much of it. We had usual ups and downs and had a baby last Xmas. Our ups and downs took a toll on her and her feelings changed. But we fixed the proble... (1025 words)

My girl suffers with depression and bulimia, I support her every step, but she keeps pushing me out!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6637 days ago

27 September 2006 (M) - Hello. I broke up with my ex-girlfriend back in December to date a new girl i know from work. It was not a clean break on my part with my ex and if i am being honest i liked the security she was offering me by wanting to stay and sort things out, i realise how selfish i was ... (406 words)

Dont know why shes suddenly gone off sex, Im thinking its me, but she says shes not ready anymore!??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6659 days ago

27 September 2006 (M) - hi, me and my gf have been with each other 9 months, she is 16 (nearly 17) and i am 17, and i am madly in love with her vice versa. we used to have a really good sex life for about 4 months but in the last month or two she has gone off sex and most other sexual activity, ... (140 words)

I think I fancy dads new girlfriend, should I tell him ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6659 days ago

27 September 2006 (M) - im 14 dad broke up with mum few years ago and now seeing lady younger then him (bout 5 yrs younger) She is nice and trys to join in and have fun with us I think dad likes here lots thing is i fancy her what should i do I dont know if i should tell dad... (61 words)

Boyfriend states I'm too possessive

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6658 days ago

27 September 2006 (F) - My long distance boyfriend of a year recently broke up with me stating I was being too possessive. Now he wants us to talk everyday but not have the "title". He said he still cares about me but he needs to focus on work more and figure out if we are right for one another. He ... (121 words)

Do you think that women sometimes worry too much?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6659 days ago

27 September 2006 (F) - I would like an opinion please from people: Do you think that women sometimes worry too much about how often between dates or seeing each other that a guy chooses to contact us? Guys - if you like a woman a lot will you choose to contact her everyday or do you think its... (85 words)

Have I ruined things by sleeping with him early on in the relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6658 days ago

27 September 2006 (F) - Hi there, I am 25 and have just started seeing a guy (few years older) who I really like. We have been seeing each other for about a month now. The last weekend I stayed at his and we slept together for the first time. At first we tried not to and thought we might wait a ... (211 words)

Concerned about reps intentions towards my girlfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6658 days ago

27 September 2006 (M) - My girlfriend works in an office, reps call weekly to see her. One guy phoned her every day, with some business question. She thought he had a crush on her. Then we got together and he stopped phoning so often. Then one day on a visit he told her that other people were sayi... (307 words)

My gf gets very physical during sex. Does she expect me to do the same?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6659 days ago

27 September 2006 (M) - Right, I have been with my girlfriend for a few months now. All is good, but, Im a little confused about our sex life. There is a bit of an age gap between us, and to my knowledge women enjoy a romantic passoinate experience in the bedroom, but this is different. I am not ... (140 words)

Married, but unhappy. I found some happiness and then paid the price. Is my wife looking for revenge?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6659 days ago

27 September 2006 (M)

- Basically, I was in a unhappy marriage for the last 8 years and we could never really talk about anything. As soon as I would try to talk about how I felt, she would turn it around and make it about her feelings or would just say I was wrong and argue with me. She just could ... (1160 words)

I dont want my bf to think my life revolves around him. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6602 days ago

27 September 2006 (F)

- hey My bf and i are long distance at the min, for about another month. We text quite a bit and when my phone buzzes and shows his name i feel so great i cant describe it. Firstly i worry that i might text him too much Although he sometimes texts me first I do tend t... (191 words)

I am married and my online friend has fallen in love with me. Am I cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6639 days ago

27 September 2006 (F) - i am a 29-year-old married female having a 1-year-old child. A month back i made friends with a 20-year-old male on the internet and have been in constant touch with each other ever since online and over the phone. He claims to have fallen in love with me and says that he ... (147 words)

I am starting to develop feelings for him, but he is giving me mixed signals. What should I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6659 days ago

27 September 2006 (F)

- Im 15 the guy i like is 16. I have only been talking to him for about a week and havent met him yet. We have so much in common and we get on really well. I think im starting to develop feelings for him. I told him this but im not sure if his reaction was good or bad. He sai... (124 words)

Why does my husband put me down when I try to have sex with him? Is he cheating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6659 days ago

27 September 2006 (F) - My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years and, I am lucky if i have sex with him once a week. The times that we do have sex is when I come on to him and, half of the time he says he don't fell good or he's in a bad mood. I don't know what to do it bothers me so bad ... (154 words)

Are we better off being friends then lovers? Advice needed

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6659 days ago

27 September 2006 (F) - I've been in a serious relationship for about 4 years, some of which has been on and off. We were best friends before we dated for about 3 years. How do I know if we are better friends then bf/gf?... (42 words)

Does he still love me or is he just messing with me head? Somebody please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6659 days ago

27 September 2006 (F) - OK here it goes. To make a really long story short, my ex and I haven't been together for almost 10 months (with the exception of sex). We were really great friends before we started dating and we were together for 5 years. When we broke up he called me four months later saying ... (231 words)

My girlfriend gets hung up on little issues and blows them into big ordeals

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6647 days ago

27 September 2006 (M) - My girlfriend and I are both in love and have been together for about 1 year. We have a great connection and chemistry that everyone strives for. Yet, when issues arise like sharing payments, study places, getting on “her” computer, eating her food, and driving turns; basically ... (127 words)

She's been a good friend in the past but lately she's been very embarrassing to hang out with!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6660 days ago

27 September 2006 (M) - I had this mate until recently. I've split contact with her as she's let me down yet again. I was on a date and she kept trying to force us to buy her drinks because she's able to work but doesnt want to, so she complains and literally tries to force us. Its not just that. A ... (218 words)