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writes: i met my ex of a year and a half last tues,he is my 1st 4 everything and i do really love him,we met up and had a really good nite n we ended up having sex but now hes ignorin me for no good reason?i dont get it.one min he wants me and the next he dont??? help!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2006): It sounds like he wasn't serious about restarting a relationship with you, dear. This is a common problem for a lot of women. They go to bed with a guy and all the heartfelt feelings come into play. I think you made the error in judgement...you thought that because you both had sex, that this was the start of a relationship with him again. Quite often people (women, more often) assume this level of intimacy means monogamy. Many of us get hurt quite often, with these unclear boundaries. I could be wrong but this could be what has happened. The only way to find out..is talk directly to him. Good luck, hun.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2006): Maybe he was pleased to see you and hang out a friends but sex just happened. Maybe he thought it was a mistake and doesn't want to give you the wrong impression again
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