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writes: I have known this girl for about a year and I've always liked her. But over the last few weeks i cant stop thinking about about her and cant seem to get a decent oppurtunity to express my feelings to her. Its driving me crazy. She is quite popular and im worried she will find a boyfriend before i have the courage to ask her out. When and where is the best time to do this? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2006): I am in exactly the same position as you. I have liked a guy for under a year now, and it is nearly impossible to get him on his own, even if an opportunity arose that we may be on our own I would clam up and be quite nervous! Have you had any positive responses from this girl..eg body language, talking to you etc? If you are not sure she likes you she may just be shy, or does not want to reveal her feelings in case she leaves herself vulnerable. I know for me I am not a flirt and find it very hard to express how I feel to a man, other then talking to him. Think the only way is for you to just casually ask her out for a coffee or something. Sorry there is no easy way here. Chances are she would say yes, am sure of it!! Take care, let us know what happens eh??!!
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reader, Toria +, writes (18 September 2006):
 There never really is a best time and place to say how you feel, just get her on her own and tell her what your thinking and feeling, good things come to those that wait but at the same time, don't miss the boat on this girl, better to open up and know where you stand with her than to keep it inside and never know what you maybe missing out on.
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reader, lush123  +, writes (18 September 2006):
Get her on her own as soon as possible. Has she given you any signs that she likes you back already? (If not, don't panic, but do not expect the outcome to be what you hoped). If you really like her, you need to pluck up the courage and just tell her, then you will know for sure how she feels about you. Trust me, if a guy liked me as much as you like this one, I would want to know and may even consider getting with him, even if I hadn't thought twice about him before I knew he liked me!
Go for it! At least you will know the truth ASAP. As soon as you can, tell her. Have you got her number already? Text her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2006): Get her on her own as soon as possible. Has she given you any signs that she likes you back already? (If not, don't panic, but do not expect the outcome to be what you hoped). If you really like her, you need to pluck up the courage and just tell her, then you will know for sure how she feels about you. Trust me, if a guy liked me as much as you like this one, I would want to know and may even consider getting with him, even if I hadn't thought twice about him before I knew he liked me!
Go for it! At least you will know the truth ASAP. As soon as you can, tell her. Have you got her number already? Text her.
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