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Who initiated sex, me or him?

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Question - (18 September 2006) 5 Answers - (Newest, 19 September 2006)
A female , *heskycastle writes:

I stayed over at my bf's apartment this weekend. He woke me up in the middle of the night and started touching me sexually. I thought my boyfriend wanted something, so I started kissing him and showing I'm interested going further. (BTW, this is not the first time we have sex). And so we had sex.

The next morning, I keep saying he was the one who woke me up, but he claims he didn't and I was the one started it. I swear I'm right and he's wrong. I believe he doesn't remember his teasing to me. But why is it like that?

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A female reader, Hanna United Kingdom +, writes (19 September 2006):

Hanna agony auntSometimes when people are asleep they dream about sex, they have no control over their actions and no memory.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2006):

Hey don't worry about it. Your boyfriend probably thinks he's telling the truth, he probably thinks you started it. I no my boyfriend does the exact same thing. He'll roll over in the middle of the night and start kissing and touching me, in the morning when i ask him about it he honestly can't remember starting it he can only remember that i was touching him when he woke up. It's sort of like sleep walking but with a happier ending!!!!! Hey don't argue over it, enjoy it, got to love those middle of the night romps!!!!

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A female reader, Toria +, writes (19 September 2006):

Toria agony auntI could understand if this was the first time you'd had sex with your boyfriend but as it isn't does it matter who initiated and who didn't? As long as you both had fun and enjoyed it thats the only thing that matters.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2006):

Hi, I agree with Malyce. Really, what does it matter and who cares? What matters is you both shared a fun and intimate, bonding time together. Keep having fun, enjoy each other's love and for goodness sake's, quit keeping score about 'scoring'...lol.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2006):

Does it matter if you both care for one another and both enjoyed it?

Let him believe you are a vixen and that you woke him up. Who is it hurting?

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