New here? Register in under one minute Already a member? Login

245057 questions, 1084625 answers

Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!

New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us . Articles . Sitemap

To browse questions by day in September, 2006, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day)

1 (47), 2 (35), 3 (29), 4 (46), 5 (50), 6 (58), 7 (47), 8 (37), 9 (45), 10 (42),
11 (63), 12 (65), 13 (48), 14 (48), 15 (53), 16 (30), 17 (44), 18 (55), 19 (65), 20 (46),
21 (46), 22 (51), 23 (32), 24 (47), 25 (59), 26 (56), 27 (38), 28 (62), 29 (40), 30 (33),

Archived questions from: 26 September, 2006 (see latest questions)

(More questions from September, 2006)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Pregnant friend and I are having problems. Do I wait until after she has the baby to talk to her or do it now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6630 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - Okay my best friend is ready to have a baby. The past four months she has really been rude. We have been friends for over 10 years and I am the godmother of her two daughters. I have always been close, and about four months ago she just stoped wanting me around. We had got in ... (167 words)

Missed a pill and had sex the next day. Could I be pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6630 days ago

26 September 2006 (M) - hi, i take the pill evey day but missed one then had sex the next day so could i fall pregnant after thet. ... (23 words)

After having "Goodbye Sex", we are considering making it casual. Is this a good idea?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6581 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and i recently broke up. We dated seriously for a year and a half. when i went over to get my stuff from his house we ended up having "goodbye sex". This led to the decision that we should keep in contact with eachother whenever we wanted to have sex..until one of ... (83 words)

My first lesbian relationship has ended, now it seems she is playing mindgames. Its screwing my head up, please help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6630 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - Please I need some advice. Until my last r/ship I have always been straight, but I ended up very close to a female friend who is a lesbian and ended up with her. I moved away from family and friends to be with her, we moved near her family. Anyway 8 weeks ago we split up, she ... (265 words)

I've had mensrual cramps in my thighs, is this normal?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6184 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - Hi everyone, I have sort of a strange question I guess. Ever since I've had my period (I'm 21 years old, so I've had it for about 8 years) I've had the mensrual cramps in my thighs instead of my abdomen. Is that normal? Does anyone else have that? No one that I've talked to h... (72 words)

She is around a lot to be an EX

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6630 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - I posted earlier this month and got some great advice... but still things don't seem to be getting much better. I am 24 and have an amazing boyfriend. We have been together over 10 months and we have everything I have ever wanted in a relationship-- an amazing connection on ... (1380 words)

Bf keeps finishing with me over stupid little things. He seems to enjoy hurting me. What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6630 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - hiya...... well me n my boyfriend have been 2geva now for 6weeks. n i love him but its asif he dosent want 2 see me because he lives 20mins away n still there is always an excuse not 2 see me. and he finshes me ova stupid little things really hurting. constantly askin me 2 come ... (103 words)

I ignored him because he has a girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6630 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - iv sort of fallen for a guy at work in a big way and i think he feels the same hes a bit more open with his feelings because im worried. he says he wants to be with me and i ignore him because he has a girlfriend, weve had a thing for a while but kissed for the first time a ... (84 words)

He doesnt know i exist

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6585 days ago

26 September 2006 (F)

- hellooooo i was just wondering i really really really like this boy and i was wondering if you could help me ive liked him for months and i still havent talked to him :( becasue i think im very uncomftorbale being all "sexy" around boys i mean im used to having boys around me ... (110 words)

how do I liven my texting up for him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6500 days ago

26 September 2006 (F)

- hi everyone Im feeling a bit sad and emotional at the moment as my boyfriend is away for a month with work To keep in contact we mainly text and I need some advice/tips on how to keep going on this. It seems like I send the same texts daily and I wanna know... (167 words)

The other day he just walked out on me and his son

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6630 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - hi i really need some advice i am having huge problems me and my partner have been together for 5 years and its not been a easy 5 years we have split up a few time but i really thought this was the last time and he had changed his ways he had medical advice and everything but ... (183 words)

What sort of confidence do women like in men?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6629 days ago

26 September 2006 (M)

- I heard somewhere that one of or the main thing women like about men is confidence. What sort of confidence? And i know I'm not talking about believing in yourself.... (30 words)

I have started to fancy a boy that my mate has fancied for 2 years. What should I do? I don't want to betray my mate.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6571 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - my mates liked this boy since the begining of year 7 2 years ago and now i like him!!!! he always flirts with me i dont want to betray my mate but i realy like him what should i do???... (40 words)

my aunt who is 35 she is so sexyy

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

26 September 2006 (M) - hi im a 15 year old boy from canada over the years ive been attracted to my aunt who is 35 she is so sexyy i have fantisies all the time about her and im trying to get help fo me to stop thinking about her or if u have advice on how to make my fanstasy come true thkz... (60 words)

I just can't believe how stupid I have been

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6630 days ago

26 September 2006 (F)

- I am very unhappy with my partner. Quick rundown: We got together when I was 15, he was 18. We had a baby a year later and now live together. He has no job and I know he cheating on me with numerous people. I know I've been stupid and I want to get out of this. However, a few... (189 words)

I swallowed, can I get pregnant?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6555 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - hi rite i have been with my boyfriend ages n recently i sucked him off but i swallowed it can i get pregnant ?... (24 words)

Why is my boyfriend acting in this way? I am not used to being alone. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6630 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - my boyfriend broke up with me 9 days ago. he lived with me and my son, he was at the hospital when he wa born and from then on lived with me and my son calls him daddy. he has always been there then he just got up and left saying he dosent want anyone to answer to. im confused ... (206 words)

I feel second best

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6630 days ago

26 September 2006 (F)

- Pleasssssssssssssseeeeeeeee help me! My boyfriend and I have been going out for about 6 months. I am very much in love with him and he tells me he loves me all the time. But here is the problem: sometimes I feel like he just tells me that because I want to hear it. Also, his ... (265 words)

Husband is registered on various online dating agencies. Should I confront him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6630 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - I have been married to my husband for 2 years. I know I shouldnt but I read his e-mails, I have found out that he has registered for various online dating agencies and is chatting to several different women! Should I confront him?... (49 words)

There is a girl I like at school. How can I tell if she likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6630 days ago

26 September 2006 (M) - hi i am 14 and have a big problem. theres this girl that i like at school whos 15, i really like her but arnet confident enough to ask her out. i dont think i'm particulary good looking so that makes it even harder, and finaly i dont even know if she likes me, how can i tell?... (58 words)

Should I try to meet a man

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6629 days ago

26 September 2006 (F)

- I had a a very good friend, she was a girl like me, she was dropped by her boy so I introduced her to my circle of friends, two of them wanted to have a relationship with her and she started to date them both at the same time but never wanted to commit to any or even get off, ... (313 words)

I have a suspicion that my girlfriend is cheating, or am i insecure

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6630 days ago

26 September 2006 (M) - I have long had a suspicion that my girlfriend is hiding something from me, cheating maybe or at the very least still talking and seeing her ex boyfriend. I can't help but ask her constantly and I know she won't tell me the that she is. She keeps telling me that I am insecure ... (174 words)

He told me that he was going to kill himself, should I tell his mom

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6630 days ago

26 September 2006 (F)

- I am feeling very helpless at the moment.My boyfriend of one year finished the relationship, saying that things werent working and he wasnt happy with the relationship, but at this moment i am not concerened about that.The night he finished it, we were talking over msn and he ... (198 words)

I've fallen for a women who I work with, problem is she's already in a relationship and only sees me as a friend. Where do I go from here?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6630 days ago

26 September 2006 (M) - I've fallen for a women who I work with, problem is she's already in a realtionship and only sees me as a friend. In the last couple of days she ended her relationship and I was planning in the next week or 2 once she'd got over it, to tell her how I feel. Only for her to ... (115 words)

How do I go about talking to someone I have never met? Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6630 days ago

26 September 2006 (M) - Hi, I am 17 year old boy, and I have noticed this girl in the year below me, and I find her really attractive, and I really want to talk to her, but I don't know how to go about doing it, as she is always with someone, and even if she isn't I'd feel like an idiot just going up ... (108 words)

Can someone really change the way they view sex ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6630 days ago

26 September 2006 (F)

- Do people change? My boyfriend has lead a promiscuous past and I can't seem to get over it. He says he loves me and wants to marry me, and I believe him, but isn't it just a change of circumstances? In other words, if he weren't in love, wouldn't he just be doing the same ... (115 words)

I would like to improve my self esteem, any help please!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6630 days ago

26 September 2006 (M) - dear cupid i am a 16 year old boy and i need help i would like to know if its possible to build my self-esteem as i am not confident in life and especially when talking to the girls i alwayz turn red and have had some critisim from girlz about my look, if there is any w... (87 words)

How do I get him back, Surely he wouldnt come around to help out if he were not interested ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6630 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - Hi its me again from yesterday i asked about my ex b/f who left me. Now he is saying he just wants his stuff and i cannot ever have his love anymore that i pushed him away. he wants to come over to do the yard but i told him thats okay i can do it myself. why would you want to ... (264 words)

My girlfiend is completely uninterested in me. Is she ok for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6630 days ago

26 September 2006 (M) - my girl doesn't want to spend time with me,i can't touch her(not sex),only see me when passing by,doesn't express herself/feelings to me, take things without returning them,turn down outing request,doesn't feel fry with me. but want me to be coming to their house. is she... (54 words)

My bf is off to Oz, for 2 montsh he wants to break up, as doesnt feel we will last, I dont and want to try!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6621 days ago

26 September 2006 (?) - My boyfriend is goin to Australia for 2 months on friday week and thinks it would be better if we broke up as it would be too hard on us to try and continue our relationship with the distance between us. I don't want do that and would be willig to try and make a go of ... (75 words)

My boyfriend is away, how can I keep our relationship alive whilst hes away ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6630 days ago

26 September 2006 (F)

Im married and work over seas, Ive fallen for someone else and am thinking of divorce, but feel pity for my child, what should I do ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6630 days ago

26 September 2006 (M) - I am a married guy working overseas away from my wife and kid. I met a girl who at first was my best friend but we eventually became lovers despite the fact I am already committed (she knows). I am suddenly thinking of divorce but I feel pity to my kid whom I loved so much. ... (62 words)

My recent thoughts of other guys are confusing me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6630 days ago

26 September 2006 (M) - i am happily married with two young kids. i love my wife but recently i have been dreaming of masturbating another man? i know im not gay im very confused by this can you help please!!!... (36 words)

What sort of questions should I be asking him if we are to plan our future together ??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6630 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - I have met a wonderful man and I think he is going to ask me to marry him soon. I want to be sure I have asked him all the best questions so I know him as well as possible since I may be spending the rest of my life with him. What questions should I be asking him for us to look ... (76 words)

It was a no strings sex encounter, the fact I slept with someone doesnt make me a cheat right ??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6630 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - Before my boyfriend and I actually got together,we basically started with screwing each other.We both barely knew each other and so forth. From what i had assumed we were just messing. I slept with him and slept over his place 2 nights in a row then i informed him that i ... (173 words)

I went off sex after having children, did it to keep him happy! 13 years later we dont have sex how can I stay with him when it appears he hates me because of this ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6630 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - basically i have been with my partner for 20 yrs we have 2 children. our relationship had always been difficult but after having my 1st baby i went off sex and after about 6 weeks he started to demand it and he would get so very cross and grumpy for days on end that it just ... (173 words)

How can I become less sensitive ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6630 days ago

26 September 2006 (M) - Is being a sensitive man a bad thing? I am sensitive to other peoples feelings and to my own, it's not over the top, and not very obvious until you get to know me well, but how can I become less sensitive? Thank you.... (50 words)

Shes my friend but her ex now wants to go out with me, this would upset her so what should I do ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6624 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - My friend has recently finished with her boyfriend and he now wants to go out with me. I feel this would upset my girlfriend. What should I do?... (30 words)

Are these other symptoms still signs of thrush or something else ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6630 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - I've had reoccuring thrush since i became sexually active about 3 months ago. I knew it was thrush at first because all the symptoms were there and it smelt yeasty, but sometimes i get it and it doesn't smell and it's lumpier and there's more of it. Also the skin in that area ... (81 words)

My bf says I just lie there during sex, what can I do to improve this ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6630 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - My bf claims i don't 'do much' during sex except lie there and make approving noises. Neither of us particularly enjoy having me on top. What exactly can i do when he's on top. Am i actually meant to be doing some of the 'thrusting' and if so do i do it with him or against him ... (62 words)

My best mate doesnt like my Bf what can I do ??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6630 days ago

26 September 2006 (F)

- one of my best friends (a guy) really doesnt like my bf My bf is the sweetest guy ever but my friend wont have any of it. Thing is they have only met once and now my friend wont even contemplate meeting him again For a while me and my friend hung out together all the... (131 words)

My bf works away and I get mad if he doesn't text. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6630 days ago

26 September 2006 (F)

- Hi Im gonna sound like such a bad gf but here goes My bf works in the working away for a few months Obv working (never the same hours two days running) is a good reason that he can not reply to my texts all the time and i understand this (when im thinking logically) ... (165 words)

He said before we moved in together that I would despise his smoking, I said I would be okay with it.. Thing is im not and I want to bring it up but dont know how to!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6588 days ago

26 September 2006 (M)

- I was led to believe by my boyfriend that he didn't smoke. It turned out that he was a very heavy smoker, was trying to quit because he knew I wouldn't like it, and was avoiding or hiding it when I was around. By the time I found out his attempts at quitting were both unsucc... (558 words)

I would like to offer some help with his cocaine addiction, but he wont answer my calls, why doesnt he want to know me now ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6630 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - I have a strange tale and a question that I wish could be answered. I met a young man at work who first pursued me with friendship and flirting. Within the two months that we saw each other about every day we developed a strong attachment, and there was physical attraction. ... (553 words)

My bf recently became possesive to the point of following me around everywhere, is this normal ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6630 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - i've been going out with this guy for 3 years,he has recently become possessive and is following me almost everywhere,he even knows my passwords!!!is this normal??... (26 words)

Is it considered cheating if my girlfriend is a paying member of adult dating websites?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6628 days ago

26 September 2006 (M) - Is it considered cheating if my girlfriend is a paying memeber (previously an unpaid member) on Adultfriendfinder.com, and has nude pictures of herself on there for other people to see. She is away at school, and we get to see each other like 1-2 times a month. What happ... (214 words)

Im waiting for he current relationship not to work, so I can get back with her!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6630 days ago

26 September 2006 (M) - I'm trying to work my way back in with my ex, will it work? Please read my last post first: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-love-and-want-to-marry-this-woman.html Well, as I mentioned, we have been talking a lot lately, mostly me contacting her but her contacting m... (308 words)

Why do I feel that white women are more beautiful than black women like me? Do I need professional help?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6630 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - i am a single black woman and i have issues with beautiful women. my self image was destroyed a while back and now when i see that black women are not as beautiful as white women so basically what im saying is what could be wrong with me or do i need professional help?... (54 words)

Found taboo porn on my husband's PC...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6630 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - well... i'll keep it simple. i have been happily married for 2 years been together 6 know 15. We just had alittle girl about 7 months ago. during my pregnancy i came across something disturbing on my PC...PORN, but not just any PORN...these girls were Young!!!! I mean YOUNG. I ... (120 words)

My bf takes me for granted, been long distance for 2 years but will soon be together, will things get better ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6629 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been doing long distance for 2 years but together for 4 years. I just feel like he takes me for granted and doesn't show his feelings. I know that this may be a typical guy but I've tried to talk to him about this at least 100 times but nothing changes. ... (131 words)

No matter what I do, my mum is never proud of me, would it be a good idea to move out and be totally independent ?

No replies yet: Be the first to answer!

26 September 2006 (F) - is it possible for an 18 year old who is not planning to go to college for a year or so to just bartend and move out of their parent's house and be TOTALLY independent??? My house is hell for me and I really want to move out ASAP. I am planning to go to college but i'm still ... (305 words)

Is it a good sign or a bad sign that my ex finally answered the phone and spoke to me ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6629 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - I posted a note on here a week ago about my bf/ex bf being so distant. He has been ignoring all my texts/phone calls for about a month now besides 2 texts he sent that were basically telling me he'd call me when he wanted to get back w/me and that I was just making things ... (307 words)

Why wont she tell her parents or her daughther that we are engaged!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6628 days ago

26 September 2006 (M)

- Why wont my fiance tell her parents or her daughters daddy that she is engaged? I have been with my fiance for just over 8 months now and i knew from the first moment that i met her that she was who i was going to spend the rest of my life with and of course we have our prob... (225 words)

How can I bring him out of his shell?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6628 days ago

26 September 2006 (F)

- I recently started living with a family in the city I have my education in, and I have noticed one of their sons behaving very oddly around me. He seldom looks me in the eye, yet when he does, it's intensely and with a smile on his face. I can have good conversations with him, ... (136 words)

He asked me my ring size, does this mean he wants to marry me ??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6630 days ago

26 September 2006 (F)

- I'm just wondering..if your boyfriend asks you what your ring size is..does it mean he's going to propose? We've been together for 5 months now but we are very serious about eachother, and yesterday he asked me my ring size. I'm just wondering if that necessarily means he's ... (69 words)

Should I keep seeing my Army man who may be marrying his ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6630 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - i was seeing a guy on and off for 2 years. he is in the army so he travelled quite a bit. he knows i fell in love with him. i havent seen him for 13 months now, but he is back in my city for a month or so. he told me about 6 months ago that his ex wanted to get married, as they ... (229 words)