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writes: I have a girlfriend we have been going out for over 10 months now, and we are very comftable with each other. The other day however, my family were having a gathering so I invited my girlfriend too come, as well as her mate and her mates sister and her boyfriend. However i felt this was kind of a bad thing too do, because whenever shes with her girl friends she is completely different and shows off more. She talks and talks and talks enlessly too them, and she didn't really chat too me at all...She sat by her friend all night, and didn't want too sit by me until i called her over too briefly. She didn't ask how i was or whether my day was good. I told her about my day and she didn't seem that interested, and didn't develop the conversation. She just seemed off with me and preffered her mates company more than mine and i felt very left out. She had too always be next to her mate.So i told her about this and she was very sorry, and admitted she does this a lot. She said she was trying too make her friend more comftable as she was in a strange house, but she was sorry for not balancing things out. After a long hard day at work i'd like too at least sit next too my girl who I love and chat but this didn't happen which left me feeling a bit left out and upset.I was just wandering why she is like this? Is it nervs? or what...?
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reader, claire_x100 +, writes (18 September 2006):
 Myabe your girlfirned is right she was jus making sure her mates were ok. I always find that when good mates get together they do tend to go into their own little worlds and forget about other people. Maybe when your out and she does it again pull her to one side and explain. Just keep talking to her telling her how you feel. Good Luck.
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