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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Will I just be wasting my time as he already has a girlfriend ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6678 days ago

7 September 2006 (F) - i'm in my 20's and for the first time ever have fallen for a guy with a girlfriend. he works with me and has been with his girlfriend for a couple of years. i know one of his friends who has told me that he has liked me for a while. i have been emailing this guy for a while ... (218 words)

I love her so much, but I cheated. What can I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6679 days ago

7 September 2006 (M) - Back in high school I started dating a girl that i thought was the most amazing person in the world. I knew that one day i would definately marry this girl. Which i know is a lot to think about when you are only 16 years old, but I could just tell. Anyways, we dated for about ... (460 words)

Should I get involved in an online relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6678 days ago

7 September 2006 (F) - i have met a lovely man over the internet tonight but not sure whether to start a relationship with him or just stay friends. I have never had a relationship before i am thirty seven and i was looking after my sick nan up until three years ago. Not sure what to do please advise... (55 words)

He won't connect with my kids, and he calls them names! What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6678 days ago

7 September 2006 (F) - hi, I have been in a relationship for 4 years but my partner has never really connected to my 2 children, at first I ignored this but as time has gone on I no longer can, Our relationship: he has his money and I have mine (his choice) he pays for the weekly shop and I pay f... (146 words)

I'm going to college, can my boyfriend and I last through it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6678 days ago

7 September 2006 (F) - Hi. I'm going to be starting college in a couple of days. And I recently got involved in an LDR. Just for some background info: Me and this guy were friends for two years. During those two years, I was absolutely head over heels for him. I tried other guys, but I just cou... (295 words)

We had sex but he is now treating me like dirt!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6663 days ago

7 September 2006 (F) - Repeating the same mistakes over and over. I'm so tired and low tonight, I just don't know how much more I can take. I seem to be setting myself up for such a rubbish time of it, and I can try and blame others but really it's down to me. A guy I have a stupid crush on con... (322 words)

I don't want to stand in the way of his dreams but I don't want to break up either - help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6679 days ago

7 September 2006 (F) - I am feeling really sad right now :( A few weeks ago I met this guy and we hit it off instantly. We started dating and I grew to like him a lot- he was so nice and sweet, treated me well, was gorgeous...But then he was offered a place to live overseas in a few months time wit... (291 words)

Been having an affair for the past 5 years, he says he loves me but he won't leave his wife!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6649 days ago

7 September 2006 (F) - I am 28 and been involved with a married man for the past 5 years. I love him to bits. He won't leave his wife but he says he loves me! What should i do? ... (35 words)

Caught in the middle between my BF and my best gay friend...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6679 days ago

7 September 2006 (F) - I'm best friend with a gay guy since I was little. We call each other everyday, and would talk for hours. He's almost like my boyfriend, but minus the sexual part. Now I have a boyfriend (first boyfriend), it seems like my best friend and my boyfriend do not get along at well. ... (159 words)

Why does my ex keep pestering me for sex when we broke up 4 years ago!?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6678 days ago

7 September 2006 (F) - My ex boyfriend broke up with me 4 years ago. In those 4 years he has kept in touch with me. He always wants to have sex with me. Why wont he move on? He broke up with me! What should I do?... (43 words)

My BF has a fast-food fetish and I'm worried for his health!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6679 days ago

7 September 2006 (F) - I am 24 years old and my boyfriend is 29, we've been together 2 years. Recently I find out he's been spending money on Pizza Hut, McDonald's and fast food and I worry about his health. I found out he spent $300 on Pizza Hut FOR HIMSELF! I've tried to get him to a doc... (99 words)

I'm 14 years old and no girl has ever said she likes me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6034 days ago

7 September 2006 (M) - Hi, im 14 years old now and just frustrated now. In all my life i have never had a girlfriend and no girl has ever said she liked me. people say oh it doesnt matter when your young but it does, I know from experience. I admit im shy but i do talk to girls and im kind to them ... (155 words)

Should I move in with him or will I just be left at home lonely while he parties with his mates?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6679 days ago

7 September 2006 (F) - Last weekend, I was at my boyfriend's and he asked me whether I will move in with him. We live 2hrs drive apart and we both wish we can see each other everyday. I love him dearly, but I don't know why I don't know how to answer that. Moving in with him requires me to quit my ... (179 words)

I didn't realise my BF could be so cold-hearted! Am I just a doormat?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6679 days ago

7 September 2006 (F) - I'm a 20/f and i have been with mu bf for 2yrs. He cheated on me early on in our relationship and i didnt find out until 6 months later. We have moved in together and soon we overcame it but he seems to go in the internet alot and ends up with phone numbers on his phone that ... (452 words)

I'm not looking for a relationship with my friend, but we had sex! What do I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6679 days ago

7 September 2006 (F) - I am a female and have known a male friend of mine for over 10 years. Over the time we have had many drunken snogs but just recently we both got drunk and ended up back at my flat and one thing led to another. The next morning was a bit surreal almost as if nothing happened. M... (108 words)

Guys look at me as the hook-up girl...What should I do???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6679 days ago

7 September 2006 (F) - I'm 24 and only had 1 real relationship. I really want to be with someone but I dont know how to react to guys that well. Guys seem like they think of me as just the hookup girl and not the relationship girl. what should I do.... (47 words)

My ex wants me back after finding out my new boyfriend proposed...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6669 days ago

7 September 2006 (F) - Two years ago I fell for someone I shouldn't have, he was an old friend of our family and at least 25 years older than me. We acknowledged that there was feelings on both sides and tried to act as normal as possible around others. Eventually we tried going out and it was ... (284 words)

My ex has another woman a week after moving out and it bothers me!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6679 days ago

7 September 2006 (F) - I would like to know how to get over the fact that my ex husband has a new woman in his life a week after he moved out of the marital house. We have been divorced since Sept 2005 but lived together until june 2006. He now has a new woman in his life which I just found out about ... (120 words)

He has slept with over 100 women unprotected...says he doesn't have children.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

7 September 2006 (F)

- My partner has slept with over 100 women before he met me, most of them unprotected. I think he must have children somewhere but he claims he doesn't. How can he possibly know this? I know this is a bit crazy and they'd never be able to find him anyway but what does everyone ... (96 words)

Why can't he perform when he's with me???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6679 days ago

7 September 2006 (F)

- I want to know if I'm freaking out over nothing. Me and my boyfriend have been together a year and before he met me, he had a very colourful past and slept with tons of women. Anyway, he is faithful to me now and loves me very much and claims to have changed. My problem is,... (162 words)

My BF just won't open up to me on the phone...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6679 days ago

7 September 2006 (F) - I'm in a distant relationship with my boyfriend. He calls me every night just to talk about what happen at work and such. I like the idea that he'll call me everynight. However, I feel like I'm always the one talking, and he's just listening. He told me he's not a talkative ... (254 words)

I passed wind and my boyfriend dumped me!!!

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 6095 days ago

7 September 2006 (F)

- My fella has finished with me because i accidently passed wind!I said i was sorry but he wouldn't listen,he said i was disgusting.I really miss him,what shall i do?... (29 words)

He pays more attention to the dog than me!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6679 days ago

7 September 2006 (M)

- I would be grateful for some outside opinions on something that has been bothering me. Earlier in the year I moved in with my boyfriend and since then have been quite annoyed with how much attention he gives his dog. I'll come right and out and say it - yes I am jealous of th... (223 words)

I dont love him yet, but still want to show him how I feel, how best to do that ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6679 days ago

7 September 2006 (F) - right where to start - me and this boy have been seeing eachother on and off and i like him so much. i dont think i love him so i dont want to say that to him but what can i say to show him how i feel???? this weekend coming we are going to have "fun" which i am looking for... (149 words)

I split with my boyfriend of 4 years, im now feeling down and not sure about my decision!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6679 days ago

7 September 2006 (F) - I am feeling really rubbish right now. I split up with my boyfriend of nearly 4 years three weeks ago and although we said in the near future we wanted to be friends we haven't spoke in about a week and I am really starting to miss him and want to talk to him. Things w... (203 words)

Im female and slept with my best friend!! Dont know what to do now!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6679 days ago

7 September 2006 (F) - I am a female, and the other night, I got very drunk with my best friend who is also female, and we share a flat, we slept together, don't know what to do now?... (34 words)

I have a problem with my lip, should it be doing this ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6679 days ago

7 September 2006 (M) - dear cupid i have a problem with my lip, if i look at the mirror closely i can see part of it beat/move and that part also has a lump when i take pictures it shows, but when i showed it to my parents they said its nothing and now when i saw it beat i went back to them and... (96 words)

I've been internet dating, I met a guy that I've dated for a while but im not attracted to him, how can I tell him ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6679 days ago

7 September 2006 (F) - i have a bit of a problem,ive been single for about 10 months now,and started internet dating.met a few guys,but one of them who lives quite near to me,wants more than i want from the friendship,we get on great and i think alot of him,but im just not physically attracted to ... (150 words)

How can I tell him I want him to make more of an effort to see me ? We are afterall in love!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6679 days ago

7 September 2006 (?)

- hey ive been with my bf for about 3 months now, we are in love, we were quite serious at first, then we went though a long period where we rarely saw each other. now i am back at school. i thought wen we were back seeing each other everyday everything would go back to normal. ... (214 words)

Since having my baby, I feel very insecure about my relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6679 days ago

7 September 2006 (F) - i have recently been having problems in my relationship, since having my baby i have become very insecure and find it hard to trust my partner, i also feel he doesnt commit enough to our relationship. ... (36 words)

I love him, but dont like sex, I will do anything to avoid it, could this end our relationship ?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 4948 days ago

7 September 2006 (F) - i know this may seem realy silly but i do not like sex. i have been with my partner just over 3 years and try everthing to avoid it. We are both very much in love but have only slep together around 10 times, he keeps asking me but i try my best to avoid these situatio... (88 words)

We are in a long distance relationship, she cheated, how can I trust her ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6603 days ago

7 September 2006 (M) - dear agony aunt I'm a 23 year old guy and in luv with my girlfriend of 3 years, I know she luvs me too but something happened that has contradicted our relationship. we've been in a long distant relationship for the last one and a half years and we had promised to stay... (194 words)

I think the guy I'm dating is still involved with mother of his children, what can I do ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6679 days ago

7 September 2006 (F) - I am dating a guy who has 2 kids,we have been seeing each other for 5 months now.The probleme is i think he is still seeing the baby mama.iknow there will always have a bond but he is forver there and at time he can't meet our appointments as he would claim that he had to sit ... (93 words)

He says he doesnt trust me, and hes really insecure, hes making my life a misery but I dont want him to dump me! Please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6679 days ago

7 September 2006 (F) - Sorry if this is long.....I have been dating my bf for almost a year, we are very serious, and seem to be madly in love, however he is very insecure and has jealous rages and we always argue. I go to university and im 20 and he works and hes 25, in my first year at uni ever... (483 words)

My friend is selfish and doesnt like not to get her own way, should I leave her to it ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6679 days ago

7 September 2006 (F) - Hello. I have a problem with my friend. We are both girls. I am 25 she is 29. We went to a concert a few weeks back and met up with one of my male friends. We stayed at his place so we could drink as he lives close by. We had a really good time. We went to a party... (428 words)

I met a guy through a dating site for married people, I dont want to spoil things by asking him how he feels!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6679 days ago

7 September 2006 (F) - i joined this dating site for married people,my relationship with my partner is over anyway and we are both moving on,thing is i met this guy and we hit it off really well and we have been seeing each other for 4 months now,i feel guilty has hell what he is doing to his long ... (160 words)

She broke up just to keep her parents happy, surely she cant carry on like this ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6679 days ago

7 September 2006 (M) - Hi, Ive just broken up for the last time with my GF. Its been on and off for 2.5yrs. I'm 37 divorced with 2 kids. She is 24 and still lives at home with her folks. They are very controlling and want to dictate her life. Because of that most of our relationship has been ... (212 words)

Married for 10 years but I've never felt sexaully attracted to him, now its affecting us, how can we survive this ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6678 days ago

7 September 2006 (F) - I am a 33 year old woman, married for 10 years. I love my husband very much for the person that he is. He is kind and considerate and makes me laugh. I find him mentally stimulating and we seem to have the same ideas about life and the upbringing of our 2 lovely sons. The ... (223 words)

He says the sex is boring and needs variation, but whatever I try he says its not right or not in the mood!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6328 days ago

7 September 2006 (F) - I hope someone can help me with this. My partner of two years asked me last night; when was the last time he'd had fun in bed with me. I was quite shocked. I always believed he enjoyed sex with me, always thought we had a very good sex life. He said he'd told me before (not... (363 words)

How can you have friends that are girls without getting grief from your wife/girlfriend ?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6677 days ago

7 September 2006 (M)

- Hi, Here is a good question. If you're a guy and like me, you tend to get along with girls as friends. How can you have them as friends without getting into grief with your wife/girlfriend over it. Seems impossible to me. Sure I know your gal should trust you etc... (76 words)

We are good friends, do I tell her how I feel or just Woo her overtime ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6679 days ago

7 September 2006 (M)

- There is this girl who is very special to me. She has been a huge help with me going through a very difficult time in my life. I too have been very helpful to her as she is going through a divorce. She has a little girl and seems a little concerned about being sad... (277 words)

She confessed how she felt then backed off.. we both love each other but she says it cannot work!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6668 days ago

7 September 2006 (F) - i'm in a rather odd situation in my life right now, and have no clue how to handle it. it started back about 7 or 8 months ago. this girl had a really big crush on me, yet we had never spoken at the time, so i had no clue. but one day, thinking nothing of it, i just happened ... (453 words)

Am I gay or a bisexual? If so - calling all potentials!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6304 days ago

7 September 2006 (F) - I am 21 yrs old and for a long while now I have liked females a whole lot longer than males. I've slept with my best friend once and didn't like it and I hate to cuddle with guys and don't mind cuddling with females. I have kissed two girls (2 of my good friends cause we were ... (108 words)

I'm torn between 3 guys!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6679 days ago

7 September 2006 (F) - I'm torn between 3 guys!!!!! guy # 1: this really perverted but nice guy that goes to my school, we went out once last year....but it didnt really work out, but this time he really actually seems to like me more! and hes actiucaly putting effort into getting me guy # 2: t... (230 words)

I really like her, and she seems to like me but she is going through a split with her husband...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6676 days ago

7 September 2006 (M)

- Hi guys, I'd like to know if you think I am doing the right thing or not... So...there is someone i've known for a good while but i've got to know her a lot better this year (since i split from my ex). I've realised the more i know her, the more attracted I am to her. Th... (271 words)

His family is against us being together and I'm not even allowed to talk to him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6680 days ago

7 September 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 months now, when we first met eachother it was love at first sight, it was weird it was as if something lead us to meet and in an instant we just clicked as if we had known eachother for a lifetime. Just recently about 3... (137 words)

Can you really be in love with two people at the same time?

This question has 260 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

7 September 2006 (M) - Is it truly possible to be in love with two people at the same time? or is that just something people say when they're afraid to admit how they truly feel, or are scared to say they don't love their partner anymore? I always thought that it wasn't possible, and that if you ... (190 words)