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writes:My fiancé had a little girl 2 weeks ago due to a drunken one-nite stand with her best friend. It happened before we met and she found out when she was 6 months pregnant, it doesn't bother me that I’m not the dad but my girlfriend doesn't want to see me and every time I try and contact her she is always busy and she tells me that I am going to drive her away with contacting her every couple of days, but the past 4 times we have arranged to meet, something always crops up and she cant see me. She is the love of my life and I’m scared that I will loose her, not to her friend because she has told me that she wants her baby and me to be together, but I just want to meet my step daughter and get to know her. But it is eating me up inside the fact that she wont let me see her or the baby and I don’t know what to do. It is now starting to affect my heath all the worrying I’m doing. I just don't know what to do
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reader, lonley15girl +, writes (19 September 2006):
well you got to understand that she had a little girl for somebody maybe at this she not quite ready for you to see her. just give her time and she will let you see it Because right now she probraly want your support than anything else right now so just give her a chance and at the time she will let you see it!!and beside for the baby sake
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reader, Toria +, writes (19 September 2006):
 I've been in this situation myself, I was pregnant before I met my boyfriend and didn't find out til a few months into my new relationship, when I had the baby as all women my life changed and I needed time to myself to deal with the change that had just happened to me, I didn't stop to think about how my boyfriend was feeling and how much I was rejecting him as I just felt like it was only me this was life changing for even though he constantly tried to point it out to me I then got aggressive as I felt like he was pushing me to accept something that I needed to accept on my own in my own time, best thing you can do is tell her that you want to share all this with her and that you are feeling a little rejected when all you want to do is be with them and share the time together but you do understand that she needs time to get use to the new baby and the changes in her life and that you want to be there for her and you are there if and when she needs you.
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