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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

"The lady doth protest to much, methinks."-William Shakespeare, Hamlet

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6650 days ago

5 September 2006 (M) - I was the one who asked "The signs are there that she likes me... should I ring her?", and well, here I am agian, asking for more advice. This time it's in a more general sense though. Still talking about the same girl as last time but this could go for anyone. This gir... (193 words)

Amazing boyfriend, with only one problem... his ex-girlfriend

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 4706 days ago

5 September 2006 (F) - I am 24 and have an amazing boyfriend. We have been together 10 months and we have everything I have ever wanted in a relationship-- an amazing connection on every level. We (I) only have one problem: his ex-girlfriend. They were together for 2 and a half years and lived ... (958 words)

Started dating a LONG term friend and already having doubts...

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5 September 2006 (F)

- Hey! Well, I've got a bit of a problem. See, I have been friends with a guy for a long time, and i mean LONG, almost into a decade. We know each other inside-out. It was only last Tuesday when we decided to start dating but already I am having serious doubts. I tell him I l... (283 words)

I'm 18 and in an abusive relationship with my soon-to-be husband

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6650 days ago

5 September 2006 (F) - hi im 18, supposed to be marrying my fiance of nearly 3yrs in June. We have a 9 month old son. I dont know what to do about my fiance. He has absolutely no respect for me whatsoever. He knows i hate porn and when he got a porn video emailed to him the other day he promised me ... (124 words)

I'm 16 and like a 13 year old - does that make me a pervert?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6641 days ago

5 September 2006 (F)

- Ok guys i really need to know this... I'm 16 and there's this guy i like and i want to ask him out but the only problem is that he's 13 ( he's 14 in about 3 months) is this too much of an age gap???? I'm also worried becasue if i do ask him out will that make me a pervert?... (110 words)

How do I tell/show this boy I love him without actually saying those words?

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5 September 2006 (F) - How can i tell this boy ive been seeing how i feel about him other than saying i love him because its a bit early for that? I really really like him and cant stop thinking about him but I'm not sure what to say. Can someone help? Also i can I "show him" how i feel about hi... (73 words)

My BF of 4 years is a complete control freak and says its his way or the highway!

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5 September 2006 (F) - I have been in a relationship for 4 years and my boyfriend works on the river. He is gone 30 days at at a time and is so controlling of me. I can't go anywhere without asking him first and if he says no no matter how important it is, I can't go. I love him so much, but I ... (181 words)

I can't find where to put my penis when I try to have sex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6639 days ago

5 September 2006 (M) - Hi, i'm an 18 year old male and twice I have gone to have sex with a girl. The first time I was very drunk and couldn't find where to put my penis but I put it down to me being drunk. But a few days ago I had a girl over and the scene was perfect there was lots of foreplay ... (121 words)

My fiance tells his internet 'friend' her loves her and I am just a friend he sleeps with!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6651 days ago

5 September 2006 (F) - I recently found out my fiance had cheated on me with a woman in another country on the internet. He had told her he was single and told her he loved her and would never leave her. However she found out about me and he came clean, telling me it was all a game. Then I found ... (215 words)

It's been 3 years since we broke up but I still having feelings for him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6071 days ago

5 September 2006 (M) - Hi me and my boyfriend were together for 3 years then I broke up with him because we were not getting along. I went on to have another 3 year relationship with someone else it has since ended. I have told my ex how I feel about him in a card/letter. He has made the effort t... (150 words)

I'm on the pill and we want to try sex with a condom - is it a wise decision?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6651 days ago

5 September 2006 (F) - Should I have sex without two forms of contraception? I'm sixteen and have been in a relationship for 5 months with my boyfriend. We so far have used a condom and I am on the pill but he recently found out that I was on it (I never told him) and wants to try having sex without ... (107 words)

My BF cheated on me - can I forgive and forget eventually?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6651 days ago

5 September 2006 (F) - My boyfriend of 2 1/2 years just told me last night that he cheated on me. The act took place last night as well so I guess I should be grateful that he came to me right away. I don't know how I should feel about this. He didn't have sex with her. No clothes were taken off. It ... (210 words)

We really like each other but live in different countries and we are cousins!

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5 September 2006 (F) - Well i like my cousin and he likes me to and i like him because he is really sweet to me and treats me different than other guys. He lives in Mexico and i live in California so as u can see we arent really close cousins. The first time i met him was 2 yrs. ago while i was... (99 words)

How do I deal with the mother of his child when she hates me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6651 days ago

5 September 2006 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year. He has a six year old daughter who lives with her mom. My boyfriend and I will take her out for some weekends and we are doing very well together. However, my boyfriend's ex-wife seems to ignore my existence. For example, she won'... (197 words)

What this fight at the club really a big deal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6649 days ago

5 September 2006 (F) - Hello people, I hope you can give me some advice. I have been seeing my boyf for about a month and things have been going really well. However, we had a bit of a row the other day and it's still bugging me. Basically we went to a club and his friend paid for me to get in a... (400 words)

Should I trust the man who had an affair with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6648 days ago

5 September 2006 (F) - After having an affair with a married man for three and a half years, am I a fool for trusting his word on anything? I have just found e-mail correspondence from him to another young woman which seems perfectly innocent, but is this man incapabale of honesty? I find it hard to ... (80 words)

Could he possibly like me more than a friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6651 days ago

5 September 2006 (F)

- Well there is a guy that i get on the bus with to college. he talks to me everyday and he gave me his number, i am 17 but i dont know his age i think he is roughly 22. I really like him but i dont know what i should do. Should i tell him? or should i keep it to myself?. He t... (100 words)

Am I wasting my time on him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6651 days ago

5 September 2006 (F) - internet thing. last month i met a guy on the net,got along very well, he gave me his mobile number, so we could text. I didn't at first but then i did, we sent texts even got steamy and sexual, and he'd send me a text during the day, but if i want to get a text i have to b... (186 words)

I am so desperate for him to make love to me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6651 days ago

5 September 2006 (F) - my boyfriend is not very well endowed but i enjoy sex with him. the problem is he doesnt want to do it very often, i dont know if this is the reason or if its me, i am over weight but he tells me he loves me and my body doesnt put him off, i have tried talking to him but he ... (90 words)

She told me she's having a secret phone and internet relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6651 days ago

5 September 2006 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for 4 1/2 years. We share a cell phone bill and while looking for a number I had dialed on a previous statement, I found that she was making lots of calls to a long distance number. I sat on this info for six months and every month I would ... (216 words)

He didn't commit to me and now he is getting married

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5 September 2006 (F) - My Ex Boyfriend has just told me he's getting married, we've been split up since Christmas, so why do i feel this crap about it? I sobbed my eyes out in front of him absolutely gutted, were still good friends but this was a guy who didn't want commmitment when we were going out ... (62 words)

15 and never been kissed

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6533 days ago

5 September 2006 (M) - i am 15 and never had a girlfreind i've never even kissed a girl and there is a girl i like but im to scared to tell her cos im not sure what to do... (35 words)

I just cant manage 2 orgasm

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5 September 2006 (F) - Hi, i hav been with my boyfriend 4 nearly 2 years now and when we have sex i really enjoy it but i just cant manage 2 orgasm. I get a lovely feeling but when i get this feeling i want to stop i just cant seem to let my self ejaculate. What am i doing wrong and what can i do?... (62 words)

Should I finally tell my BF im on the pill ? Will it offend him I didnt tell him before ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6651 days ago

5 September 2006 (F) - I've been on birth control pills for a year now. My boyfriend does not know about this. Being a responsible adult, we use condoms everytime we have sex. The only thing is my boyfriend doesn't know I also use the pills to be extra protected. I know a lot of girls do what I do, ... (129 words)

Ive been told that Im too well endowed, I fear that I wont have a long term relationship because of it!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6651 days ago

5 September 2006 (M) - i have just come out of a short term realtionship, and although this may not seem like a big problem to some guys it truely is to me.. every girl i have ever been out with has said that i am too well endowed. i know this is true because i have seen movies and magazines and ... (94 words)

Im being forced to choose.................. My girl or the bike!! Help I love both!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6649 days ago

5 September 2006 (M) - My girlfriend says that i love my bike more than her, trouble is, i think shes right!? We've been together about 2 years now, we were fine to begin with, but when i got my new bike (HARLEY-DAVIDSON DYNA GLIDE FXDCI) last year i feel that i wanted to spend all my time with it/... (89 words)

Going for a holiday in the South of France with a girl I've only been on one date with... !?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6651 days ago

5 September 2006 (M)

- Dear Cupid A couple of years back I went out on a date with a girl I met via a speed-dating event. We speed-dated then went on one date subsequently. I took her ice skating outdoors, it was Xmas, we had fun then went for a bite to eat. Both of us are self-sufficient ... (332 words)

Ive fallen for a close friend, she just wants to be friends, but I really love her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6651 days ago

5 September 2006 (M) - I've fallen in love with a close friend. She's a genius, she's funny, she's kind, she speaks 5 fluent languages and she's the most beautiful girl I have ever seen. A few months ago, just before I found out she was with another guy, I tried to tell her how I feel, but she made ... (116 words)

I like him but, i was acting like his mam after he was sick

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6651 days ago

5 September 2006 (F) - Hi i need sum help hi im a lass, n recently on a night out like 2 days ago my crush was sick n then i told him 2 go outside n i gave him my water n i told him to drink it n he said thanks for it and i also said ill get ya some food n i was the first to say this to my crush n ... (191 words)

He said he loved me and begged me never to leave, he later said there was no future!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6651 days ago

5 September 2006 (F) - I had a quick torrid affair with a guy who at first said he loved me and begged me never to leave him and we got a little physical. then suddenly he left me sayin we had no future and he doesnt wanna break my heart. i cant help it but i still love him. cant see him with anyone ... (89 words)

He needs more space, and thinks a break will be the answer!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6651 days ago

5 September 2006 (F) - I don't give my boyfriend enough space, he's thinking about us going on a break, but i am willing to change my ways without a break. what is best?... (30 words)

Finding it hard being friends with my Ex, dont know if its worse to be friends or not to talk anymore ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6651 days ago

5 September 2006 (F)

- This past weekend I spent more time with my ex boyfriend. At one point I became upset and told him that I thought that we shouldn't be friends anymore and he responded with you don't mean that. He became nervous at the fact that I was thinking that and quickly changed my ... (115 words)

They both want to marry me, but dont know who I love!! I have to choose by the end of the year!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6637 days ago

5 September 2006 (F) - I'm very confused...something weird is happeneing to me. I have always been a highly ethical girl and somehow I'm rite now in a dillema about choosing one guy among two people who love me. One of them is someone i have been going out for the past 3 years. i was very sad and ... (275 words)

I really want to repair things with my wife, but shes too busy to sit and talk, added complication Ive fallen for friend!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6650 days ago

5 September 2006 (M)

- Hi All, Hope some of you can find a bit of time to help with this cos it is killing me at the moment. I've been married for 7 years now, known my wife 15 years and have two kids 4 and 6. My kids are the light of my life. I'd like to say happily married but that isn't... (384 words)

The woman at work acts as if she is flirting, Im interested but how can I know for sure shes not just being friendly?

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5 September 2006 (?)

- I'm a 45 year old female. I am pretty sure there is a 52 year old female at work flirting with me. She seeks me out and sits with me at my desk on occasion. She touches me on the arm and shoulder etc. and has even put her arm around me. She laughs at most every thing I say. ... (123 words)

Im 31 and still a virgin, I make excuses not to have sex my boyfriend.. please help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6630 days ago

5 September 2006 (F)

- Please help, im nearly 31 and im still a virgin! i hate it, been dating my bf for a while now and im constantly making excuses to avoid sex, i havent told him im still a virgin and i cant cause im too embarrassed, we did try to have sex but he couldnt even get it inside me so i ... (109 words)

We had a row, and he didnt say goodbye to me when I left, not sure if we should seperate, but Im pregnant!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6651 days ago

5 September 2006 (F) - I am 25 years old and me and my man are in a long distance relationship. my boyfriend and I had a quarrel on sunday, I went to visit him at his place he went to work and did not come back to say goodbye to me when I left, I called him but he switched his phone off did not ... (141 words)

They all seem to think my best friend controls my life... I want to show them im independent....

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5 September 2006 (F)

- i have recently found out that a large group of my frieds including my ex have been saying that my best friend controls my life . Which i dont beleive to be true . However i want to show them i am independent and most of all i want to show my exboyfriend that i am in control ... (86 words)

I cant seem to stop lying..

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5 September 2006 (?) - i really need help. i cant stop lying! i do t to everyone! but i cant seem to stop myself it just comes out! please help me its destroying my life! ... (31 words)

Im all confused, I confessed how I feel and he was cool with it, hes like we are more than mates, but insists im just mates material!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6650 days ago

5 September 2006 (F) - Help! Im in a dialema, I have met a wonderful guy about two months and have been speaking to him everyday since, we meet up at least twice a week and have loads in common an get on amazingly. Thing is he only wants us to be friends, after being hurt last year is not ready for ... (216 words)

We both have partners, but love each other, trouble is he says hes falling for his GF and I know I dont love my BF, what should I do ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6652 days ago

5 September 2006 (?) - right this is really confusing. i met a lad at christmas time last year. we've been on and off since then. We had two major big splits. The first one was because he had another girlfriend n didnt tell me n the second was because i had a one nite stand with a lad we both knew. I ... (162 words)

He was so right but now is also so wrong... what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6651 days ago

5 September 2006 (F) - I am a female divorced(4yrs ago)with 2 beautiful girls. My husband was violent and cheated so I left. Met a nice man 7yrs older than me, who is 38yrs old. (Never thought I would get involved again!) We dated for 3yrs before he moved in. Children loved him as he was fun and ... (381 words)

My boyfriend says hes thnking of leaving me as hes constantly having to worry about how I am!!

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5 September 2006 (F) - i am 17 and my boyfriend is considering leaving me because he feels he is always spending his time worrying about how i am and if i am ok. we ve had such a good relationship and i dont want to lose him.... (43 words)

He has a wandering eye, this really bothers me, as I want a relationship where the man is visually faithful....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

5 September 2006 (F) - I am engaged to be married to my partner of 7years. There is only one problem...his wandering eyes...It seems whenever we go somewhere he hones in on the prettiest or most skantily dressed females. I have spoken to him about it before he apologised and makes an effort to be ... (181 words)

I love my girlfriends sister and know I am only 75% happy, is there anything I can do ?

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5 September 2006 (M) - I am in love with my girlfiends's sister. I have known both for years but my girlfriend was in my group of friends and it just seemed natural to hook up since we both cared about each other. Now I realize that I don't love her in that way, and since have realized her sister is ... (166 words)

I love him, but hes 23 years older, a friend of my parents and I dont know if he likes me that way!!

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5 September 2006 (F) - Well heres my problem, I'm in love with a man, he's 23 years older (Not married thank god), we hang out online and have only met face to face once. He and my parents are good friends, and I plan to move to his state when I'm old enough. I know I'm in love with him, but I really ... (148 words)

We hooked up when were both dumped, but didnt want a rebound thing, I have fallen for her, but shes dating someone else!

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5 September 2006 (F) - After my ex dumped me, I was a wreck for several months. I met a new friend who had also recently been dumped. We helped each other out in our misery. A few times we messed around. Neither of us wanted to be the other person's rebound. So we remained close friends. Now ... (84 words)

Due to get married soon, future hubby thinks we should try for a baby that day!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6512 days ago

5 September 2006 (F)

- Hello everyone...Please tell me if this sounds crazy!! My fiance and I have been dating for about 4 years and we are getting married soon. Anyway, we both know we want kids in our future and we want them while we are both still young (under 30). The problem is he says he wants ... (122 words)

We have been having a long distance relationship for 5 years, but we havent met yet!!!

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5 September 2006 (M) - I'm 28 and my bf is getting 30 this December and we have this long distance relationship going on for 5 years now, however we haven't even met yet because I am halfway around the world. I can only see his old pictures online like in friendster, myspace which are the same as the ... (179 words)

Im pregnant, My husband is selfish, and spends more time with the neighbour than me!!

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5 September 2006 (F) - My husband and I have been together for five years, but recently got married in May 2006. I am five months pregnant with our second child and he doesn't seem to love me. I am having a hard time with the weight I am putting on. He knows I am an active woman that will lose it all ... (363 words)