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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Hope I haven't lost him forever... We have had a troubled relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6677 days ago

8 September 2006 (F) - Hello! I hope you can help me as I love my boyfriend so much, and hope i havnt lost him forever. I hope you dont mind as it is a long story and he says that too much has happened for us to work out. First of all we met 1 year ago we fell head over heels for each other eve... (1458 words)

How can I tell my parents he is of a different race???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6677 days ago

8 September 2006 (F)

- i just posted the question "I finally got with Pete! Problem is I've never had a boyfriend before, so dont know how to make us an adorable couple!" around 2 days ago, but i honestly need as much advice as possible. So we've been spending sooooooo much time together in the ... (174 words)

Even after taking the morning after pill...Could I be pregnant???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6678 days ago

8 September 2006 (F) - i had sex with my boyfriend and he came inside me i got the morning after pill about 2 hours later and have taken my period for this month only it was a week late but it was normal could i be pregnant? ... (46 words)

My boyfriend farts alot...Is something wrong with him???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6473 days ago

8 September 2006 (F) - This might sound like I'm weird, but my boyfriend seems to fart alot. I know everyone does and it's a human thing, but sometimes I feel very embarrassed with him doing it in public. My questions is: Is he doing it because he doesn't care what other people think, or it's because ... (89 words)

Is there too much tragedy for this to work???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6676 days ago

8 September 2006 (M) - i have been with my girl for 5 years, since high school. i cheated on her and she caught me. at the time 3 years ago i wasn't sure about us. after much time and talking she took me back. the last three years we have had some awesome times and also some tragic times. she became ... (231 words)

I s sex on the first night wrong?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

8 September 2006 (F)

- i just wanted to know everyones opinion... do you think sex on the first night is wrong?? ive been talking to alot of people about this and everyone has mixed views, I'm not sure what exactly guys look for? do they all look for a quick shag on the first night? Or do they want a ... (98 words)

He leaves and doesn't tell me where he is going!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6678 days ago

8 September 2006 (F) - i have been with my partner for three years and we are deeply in love we have a son of 9months but my partner has started going out late n not tellin me where he is or going then wanderin in when he feels he often does it when we stay with family and it makes me look stupid ... (63 words)

In my second marriage and he treats my kids like crap!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6678 days ago

8 September 2006 (F) - i am in my 2nd marriage of 1 year, i have 3 kids by prev marriage aged 15,11,5. they see there dad regulary. my 2nd man has never had his own kids due to cancer. he works away from home sun-fri and the kids dread friday because he starts picking on them straight away, he shouts ... (217 words)

The pregnancy tests were negative but no period in 40 days! Could it be stress or what??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6678 days ago

8 September 2006 (F)

- My period is very, very late. It's been 40 days since my last one. I've not had unprotected sex, and the condoms were tested after sex for keeping the semen in. We have always been careful- even overly careful. I have taken 4 pregnancy tests, all of which showed me as negative... (222 words)

My fiancee joined bootcamp and then decided she wasn't sure she wanted to marry me. Help, I don't want to lose her!.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6678 days ago

8 September 2006 (M) - i am 23 and have been with my fiance since high school we have had some problems and traveled alot. Our relationship was the best ever when she decided to join the airforce. i visited her at boot camp graduation and all was well until a acouple of weeks ago when she called and ... (177 words)

People around me are smokers and I'm concerned I will become addicted too. How can I avoid this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6678 days ago

8 September 2006 (F) - Both of my parents were smokers, and so are many of my relatives and some of my really close friends. Also, all of my brothers chew snuff. I am having to make a really difficult decision whether or not to smoke. I know it is hazardous to your health, but I may become addicted, ... (66 words)

Is there somebody for everybody? I'm 36 and never had anyone to call my partner. What's wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6676 days ago

8 September 2006 (F) - Is there somebody for everybody? Or is this just a fairy tale? What's wrong with me? I've kissed my share of frogs but no one turned into a prince. They all remained amphibians, happily jumping around in the mad. All my friends are married with children. Happily? That's ... (122 words)

First night out with and we had sex...now I think I'm pregnant! Should I tell him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6676 days ago

8 September 2006 (F) - I met this guy when i went back home this summer and on our first night out we slept together, later on we realised that we had been chatting on the internet for over a year and we both know a lot of things about each other so that made me feel really good about what was ... (142 words)

The skid marks on his boxer shorts is turning me off. He says it stings to wipe his bum...what is his problem?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 6068 days ago

8 September 2006 (F)

- Iv got a slight problem here and i welcome any help that i can get.My partner is a wonderful man and is very good with the kids but i am quickly going off him. He doesn't wipe his bum properly because he has loads of skid marks in his boxers! I am sick to death of it,i have ... (95 words)

We spent the weekend like a couple, but he said after it was over "we should do it again sometime". Does he like me or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6678 days ago

8 September 2006 (F) - So this last weekend I was at my cousin's wedding and this guy and I hit it off all weekend and we spent the whole weekend together and we were acting like a couple, I have known this guy for 8-9 years and me and him always had an off and on seeing together sort of relationship ... (130 words)

Is the age gap to much???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6678 days ago

8 September 2006 (F)

- well, recently i made a post about a guy i liked who i met at college. i am seventeen but on my post before this i said i didnt know how old the guy was, well i just found out and he is 26, i am gutted.he has asked me out tomorrow for drink. i really like him. is th... (75 words)

He has Herpes and its bothering me but is that all???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6678 days ago

8 September 2006 (F)

- My boyfriend has genital herpes which he contracted some years ago. He is very sensible and we always use protection. He has an attack probably every 3 months or so now, which is better than it was. We've been together for a year and a half and it's never really bothered me ... (103 words)

How can I show them the "real me"???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6678 days ago

8 September 2006 (F) - I can never be myself around boys at first and then when Im comfortable enough with them to be myself I cant be myself because the other me is totally different and then because Im trying to hide what Im really like I end up destroying the relationship!! I used to be able to ... (84 words)

I find it hard to love because my mom and dad split...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6678 days ago

8 September 2006 (F)

- hiya well i have a good life i got really great friends and i have such a laugh at school with them and my m8s are the people who get me through my life at home because me and my mum dont get along at all and i dont have a dad anymore so i think ever since my mum and dad broke ... (150 words)

Shall I stop my pill while my bf is away for 6 months ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6678 days ago

8 September 2006 (F) - My boyfriend's going away for six months, do you think it's a good idea to stop my pill? (Note: I'm not going to be unfaithful to him)... (27 words)

Can I get him into kissing ? And whats the best way to iniate sex ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6678 days ago

8 September 2006 (F) - My boyfriend doesn't kiss. He claims he hasn't "made out" with anyone for about 10 years, and that his wife wasn't big on kissing or making out. He says he doesn't like the feeling of hot breath on his face. He expects me to be ready to go as soon as he talks about wanting to... (204 words)

We get on great, but hes never had a relationship so told me to bare with him, should I continue to wait around ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6678 days ago

8 September 2006 (F) - I met a guy on a night out, we live quite far apart from eachother but he was texting and ringing me all the time saying lovely things, he seemed like the perfect guy and was really keen. we met up twice in one weekend and had a great time both days. Now he has completely ... (268 words)

Is his request normal ?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6674 days ago

8 September 2006 (F) - my boyfriend wants me to call out my ex boyfriends name when we are having sex. i find this uncomfortable. is this normal? ... (25 words)

Why do I feel so insecure and expect him to cheat ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6678 days ago

8 September 2006 (F) - I moved to another country 3 months ago for my boyfriend. Since my arrival, I keep expecting him to cheat on me. His best friend keeps telling me about his previous girlfriends and even makes jokes about him and the girl he works with. I have dreams about him cheating on me, ... (107 words)

I dont like the way he checks out other girls!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6677 days ago

8 September 2006 (F) - I can't help but notice my b/f noticing other girls--especially when driving---i understand guys will look..i really get that..girls look too..but i really don't do it that much or at all if with him. Glancing with eyes is ok i guess--i cant expect his eyes to the floor..but ... (217 words)

I read her diary, and now all the stuff about her sex life bothers me!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6588 days ago

8 September 2006 (M) - Hey I've been seeing this girl now for about 5 months and have recently moved in with her (quick i kno but if we didnt we would have to break up). I recently read her diary and found somethings that greatly disturbed me and one thing in perticular where she gave some boy a ... (151 words)

I read her emails and found out shes been seeing one of my friends!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6678 days ago

8 September 2006 (M) - I've had suspissions that my girlfriend has a thing for a close friend of mine. They always seem to be talking or texting each other. So I thought i would talk to her about it. She said i was just being silly and imagineing it. I didn't believe her, so I did a bad thing and ... (205 words)

How can I get my ex back, he says he loves me but the relationship isnt right!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6678 days ago

8 September 2006 (F) - What do I do now,I want my ex back? I was dating a guy for almost 2 years(he always had commitment issues brought on by being hurt before) He also has a son who I have grown to love, the baby was born when we just started dating, The guy was the first person I slept with and... (395 words)

How do you win over a guys heart ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

8 September 2006 (F) - Bit of a silly question I know but is there any tips you can give me to win a place in a mans heart. Because my only male pal is the guy who's heart I want to win over I have nobody else to ask.... (46 words)

I asked her to tell me a secret, she did but was it a joke ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6674 days ago

8 September 2006 (M) - Was in bed with my gf last week and we were chatting. She then asked me to tell her a secret, after being pushed for a while I told her something that happened to me in my childhood, I then asked her the same her reply in a stone-cold serious face was "I have aids and I will ... (124 words)

Any tips for lasting longer ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6678 days ago

8 September 2006 (M) - hello i am a 16 yr old male...and this is kind of hard for me to talk about, so i will remain Anonymous...but when i have sex, i tend to blow pretty soon, what kind of things can i do to prevent this from happening, so that i last longer in the bedroom...it's really ... (55 words)

How can I determine his honesty or is it once a cheater always a cheater ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6678 days ago

8 September 2006 (F) - After a year of dating exclusively my ex admitted to cheating once, while on a 'boys night' seven months into the relationship. He said he felt like crap and didn't know how to tell me. I could feel something was wrong-so the relationship declined until I ended it a couple ... (214 words)

She is still in contact with the ex, but swears its me she loves despite having feelings for him! What should I do ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6678 days ago

8 September 2006 (M) - Me and this girl started dating recently (a couple months ago). She was in a relationship for almost 3 years with a guy she swore she wasn't happy with. Well we kept talking and we are dating now. She broke up with him beacause she wasn't happy and didn't want to stay with him ... (294 words)

Not sure of his intentions towards me and not sure whether to let go ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6677 days ago

8 September 2006 (F) - I've been carrying a torch for someone I go to uni with for well over a year now, but it was always easy to push my feelings aside because both of us were involved with other people. We are both currently single at the moment and a few weeks ago we went out to dinner, and h... (395 words)

Worried the guy I used to date will try and ruin my reputation!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6678 days ago

8 September 2006 (F) - Ok Ill try to make it short. I used to date this guy like 3 months ago and i have stoped talking to him for that time. well last week we kinda started with fight over emails and then we softed it up.. so he was telling me how he still feels we could work things out and many ... (150 words)

Im afriad hes going to like her and not me, how can I get to talking to him more ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6679 days ago

8 September 2006 (F) - okay theres this guy tom that likes me and hes pretty popular but not really that hot and i like him (but no one knows) but my friend likes this other guy jeff but she is always like talking to tom and is making him sit besider her and stuff, so im affraid that he likes her or ... (85 words)

I divorced a year ago, but now I feel I will never find that special someone!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6678 days ago

8 September 2006 (F) - I went through a divorce about a year ago and I guess I am not handling it very well. I have friends who went through this too and to a tee, they are all now in new relationships. I cannot seem to shake the hurt and humiliation of my breakup and though I am not bitter I do not ... (162 words)