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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He has a great personality but I don't like his looks! Physical attractions means a lot....right??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6634 days ago

21 September 2006 (F) - hi, i met this guy on myspace and we have been on a date! i love everything about his personality and we get on well! its just his appearance, i'm not attracted to him! i'v kinda turned him down because i dont find him attractive, it may seem shallow! but there does need to be ... (66 words)

Is there a way back after expressing your feelings to a girl, I managed to push away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6634 days ago

21 September 2006 (M)

- Is there anyway back after letting your guard down far too early and wearing your heart on the sleeve? I have managed to push a girl I was attracted to away already, before things even got started by confessing my feelings. I dont want to give up on her. Basically, is ... (561 words)

Can you be afraid of love? Any thoughts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6634 days ago

21 September 2006 (F) - Can you fancy someone too much? I fancy this guy so much I can't relax when he is around and he feels the same way. How can we get over these overwhelming feelings for each other. This has been going on for months now. We seem to be scared of each other. We talk about al... (107 words)

Is there a chance he could still love me, or should I just give up and move on??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6634 days ago

21 September 2006 (?)

- hey, im 16, ive just broken up with my bf who i was crazy in love with. im rli rli hurting, and confused what to do. he told me he wanted to end it because it wasnt the same anymore, bt he told other people it was because he had problems and he didnt want me to get involved. ... (187 words)

How do I tell if my teacher really fancies me? He seems quite friendly to me!

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

21 September 2006 (F) - hi, i fancy my teacher and he seems to be extremely friendly and chatty towards me and my friends all say he does little things like when we were performing a play, one eye was following me around. how do i tell if he fancies me/loves me/just likes me? and i know you're a... (70 words)

Husband is flirting with young college girls-should I be worried?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6634 days ago

21 September 2006 (F) - Husband has a thing for flirting with the young college girls that work in his office.. that wouldn t bother me so much if he would pay some attention to me and have sex once in awhile. Should I be worried about what he's doing at work? ... (53 words)

Taking birth control pills and antibiotics...should I abstain from sex to prevent a pregnancy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6634 days ago

21 September 2006 (F)

- Hello, this is a health-type question maybe someone can help me with. I am currently three months into taking birth control pills, but I have to take antibiotics for the next 10 days. I know they can decrease the effectiveness of the pills. My question is do you think it is ... (83 words)

I feel cheated as I am the only one trying to save my marriage--he doesn't want to try! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6635 days ago

21 September 2006 (F)

- When will things improve? Hi, i wrote a question a couple of weeks ago regarding the breakdown of my marriage, and how my husband of 7 years told me he does not love me enough to have a family with me even though we had discussed and agreed to starting trying at the end of th... (263 words)

How can you tell if a girl loves you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6211 days ago

21 September 2006 (M) - how to know whether a girl loves u ... (10 words)

My gf and her best galpal message things to each other that I think is way over the top! What do you think?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6634 days ago

21 September 2006 (M) - I recently read a a few comments on my girlfriends myspace toward her best mate, who is a girl... Im not sure if its the way they act together as whenever i've seen them together they're not as hyper, but they message each other random things like 'I love you loadza' and 'i l... (98 words)

I'm leery of marriage? Is there people out there who have been married a long time and still happy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6634 days ago

21 September 2006 (F) - Hi all, I come from the land of Divorces. I think only one or two marriages in my family, thus far, have survived. So I was thinking today what my future marriage(s) will probably follow the same path. And now that divorce rates are so high...I think I've just lost faith ... (83 words)

Anal secretions during sex...how do I stop it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6635 days ago

21 September 2006 (F) - I have been having sex for over a year with my boyfriend and (only) the last few times that i have had sex with me on top I have had anul secretions? Why is this and is it normal? It really grosses me out and smells nasty, why is this happening and how can i get it to stop?? ... (59 words)

We argued and he moved out. Is this my fault or was he looking for a reason to go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6635 days ago

21 September 2006 (F) - Me and my partner have just split up for the second time in 3 years we have a child together. We had a row and I asked him to sleep in the spare room. He has now moved out. Is this my fault or was he looking for a reason to go?... (55 words)

How do you know if your boyfriend is cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

21 September 2006 (F) - how do you know if your boyfriend is cheating? or even if your man is meeting other girls? i was at college and decided 2 ring my boyfriend, he was on the bus and asked me if i could ring him back in a couple of hours he was with his mate and then i asked where he was going and ... (132 words)

Am I right to break up with my boyfriend because of his promiscuous past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6635 days ago

21 September 2006 (F)

- I want to break up with my boyfriend, as I cannot get over his promiscuous past. However, I'm scared to do it, as I've had a boyfriend constantly from being 16 (I've been with my current boyfriend for just over a year, I'm now 20) and I don't know what it will be like to be ... (179 words)

Does he want me or not? What do I need to do to convince him that I love him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6635 days ago

21 September 2006 (F) - Too good to be true - we love each other i know it... I feel as if i'm on trial tho trying to convince him cos he can't believe i'm interested in him. He says he's not ready to move straight into another relationship? He worried that i want too much. He says he's craz... (233 words)

What is an erection supposed to be like?

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21 September 2006 (M) - hi,im a 12 year old male and i was just wondering something.ive heard that when a penis is erect the foreskin rolls back,but when i have an erection it doesnt.is this normal and will it come to me as i grow up??... (42 words)

How do I tell this boy I like him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6299 days ago

21 September 2006 (F) - i really like this boy but we are apart at the moment because hes gone to collage. we text all the time but i dont know how to express my feelings for him. i think i love him but i am not sure? i really miss him and wish i could be with him 24/7. we have been 2geva about 2 ... (83 words)

Is it wrong for me to not want my boyfriend to go to the Navy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6635 days ago

21 September 2006 (F)

- Is it wrong for me to not want my boyfriend to go to the Navy? He already went and took a test to see what he was qualified for. He was telling all the wonderful things they can do, like pay for a house and things such as that. I personally, do not want him to go away anywhere, ... (106 words)

My boyfriend admitted he has gay relationship with his friend, what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6634 days ago

21 September 2006 (F) - Hi, I'm 19, my boyfriend's 22 and recently he has admitted to me he had sex with his friend Johnathan. My boyfriend said he wasn't gay or even bisexual and his friend offered him £1,000 if he'd do it - which my boyfriend did; he had sex and got paid by him for it. He insist... (137 words)

Im happy but am starting to feel depressed and I dont know why!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6635 days ago

21 September 2006 (F) - hi, I'm a 15 yr old girl and have a good life. Generally im happy and have a great best friend who is also a wonderful boyfriend. Lately however,i get these feelings that i can only describe as depression. The terrible thing is that i enjoy the feeling of losing control ... (134 words)

She doesnt feel the same way anymore but wants to work things out!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6631 days ago

21 September 2006 (M) - My girlfrend says she doesnt feel the same about me anymore. She says she still loves me and wants to try to work it out. Any ideas as to how I can do this? (bearing in mind that we are currently in different countries and this has to be resolved before she returns in 6 wee... (59 words)

If I lose weight, will my penis become larger?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

21 September 2006 (M) - Hello, I am in my early 20s and I am about 6'1" and weight about 310 pounds. When erect, my penis is 5.5 inches long. I know that's a good size, but my question is, if I lose weight, will my penis become larger when erect or be the same size? I know it will look larger flaccid ... (86 words)

Can a man improve the taste of his semen?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6635 days ago

21 September 2006 (M) - What can a man do to improve the taste, texture and oder of his seman? ... (15 words)

She is so rude to me!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6635 days ago

21 September 2006 (F)

- My boyfriend was divorced before I met him. He has a daughter who now lives with his ex-wife. My boyfriend and I will take the little girl out during the weekend and spend some time with her. I get along really well with her, which I'm glad. When we bring her home (ex-wife... (168 words)

Caught in my unstable relationship and now I fancy a new girl!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6635 days ago

21 September 2006 (M) - Hello, I am 16 years old, and have been in a quite serious relationship with a girl now for over a year. But i cant really see it lasting for much longer, due to us seemingly drifting apart more each and every day. I have recently started at a new college after leaving se... (229 words)

I'm all for him doing his own things, but when it means 2,3 or maybe 7 nights away I feel neglected!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6635 days ago

21 September 2006 (F) - i have been dating a man in his sixtys for 2 years. he is a lover of the outdoors and loves to fish and hunt. this is fine with me except i don't like for him to take 2,3 and 7 night trips to do it. i don't mind local fishing and hunting. he wants this freedom and i get very ... (285 words)

Ive always suffered from anxiety and I worry my BF will ask me to leave, can someone please help me to have a life!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6635 days ago

21 September 2006 (F) - Hi, I hope someone can help. I used to suffer from agoraphobia and I guess I still do to a degree but I have worked really hard to overcome it. My boyfriend is the type who appears to be attracted to independent, unclingy, intelligent women. We used to live together but he ... (338 words)

Im so confused, we got on great platonically, she split with her bf I complimented her and she hastily left! Why would she do that ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6635 days ago

21 September 2006 (M)

- Help, i'm confused and embarrassed. Over the last few months at a local evening class, I've been chatting briefly and platonically to a lovely girl whom i have always been attracted to. I was delighted to hear from her buddy that she found me attractive although she had a bo... (297 words)

In a long distance relationship for 3 years, he went awol for 3 months, but said he loved me, then when he came online he ignored me!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6635 days ago

21 September 2006 (F) - I've been in an long distance online relationship with this guy for 3 years and we would talk practically everyday and alot on the phone. everything was completely fine until all of a sudden he just hasn't come online anymore for nearly 3 months now. I wrote to him to ask if he ... (136 words)

Why might she be hesitant about a relationship even though we get on so well and what can I do ??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6635 days ago

21 September 2006 (M) - i have posted about this before and got all positive responses but things are moving and i wanted some more opinions, basically what's happened is i have fell in love(!) with my m8s cousin, the problem is she is just 17 and I'm 22 and we have become very close, and in a short ... (385 words)

He seems to have put me in the "wifey box" and im bothered that our sex life isnt enough and he will stray as hes had more experience than me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6635 days ago

21 September 2006 (F) - HI there, I wondered if anyone else feels the same way as me. Basically, I have only slept with about 7 people, and my boyfriend has LOADs more experience than me - he's slept with maybe 60, many of which were one night stands. We have been together two years and gradually,... (300 words)

I want to make it right and stop acting with paranoia, but is it to late ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6635 days ago

21 September 2006 (F) - Hi, my boyfriend and I have split up and gone on a break for a week because i have emotionally drained him with paranoia.He says we can get through this and we will meet up again after our break but how can I give him back his strength and get him back as my boyfriend? I've ... (80 words)

I had unprotected sex, how can I know if Im pregnant or not, without taking a pregnancy test or waiting for my next period ???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

21 September 2006 (F) - I had sex with my boyfriend but I am scared that I might get pregnant cause we didn't use protection. I know we were suppose to do that in the first place but it just happened unexpectedly. I'm not on an contraceptives and it was my first time. My period cycle finished about ... (91 words)

Married 26 years, he looks at porn all the while, I think he also cheated, I strayed as I was so unhappy, this is all a mess please help someone!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6559 days ago

21 September 2006 (F) - Help anyone. I've been married for 26 yrs now, but I am very unhappy. I was married by the age of 19 and at 20 had my first son. I only knew my husband for a short time, for which I only knew him 6 months and was married within that time. Anyway the first few years were... (697 words)

We broke up but its like we hadnt, but then he was seeing someone else!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6634 days ago

21 September 2006 (F) - right this is my problem,basically i got with this guy last year in jan and we got on so well i was really startin to like him,i hadnt been with anyone sexually before him,he was my first for everything n i love him so much, but this year has just been so messed up,like for ... (158 words)

I have high anxiety and really worry when not in contact with my boyfriend and dont know how to deal with these panic attacks!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6635 days ago

21 September 2006 (F)

- hi everyone Right, now this is going to sound mad but I have no one else i can ask so im coming here to my virtual friends. My bf and i are getting on great. We have been together a few months now although we were 'friendly' for a while before that. He has gone awa... (318 words)

Forced to move to Australia, people are nice, but I really really miss home and Im really depressed!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5912 days ago

21 September 2006 (F)

- hiya! i wrote asking for help about six months ago. i wrote because i was being made to move to australia! everyones advice made me more confident about moving. but now ive moved iv reilised how much i miss home, and how much i hate it here! the people are soooooo nice, and ... (99 words)

I cant deal with her ex, and feel she should not have got involved with me without closure! I need him out of her life to be able to move on!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6635 days ago

21 September 2006 (M) - Hi, I got some good advice the other day about my current relationship, and have heeded the bits about being treated like a doormat. My ex constantly talks about her exes and her previous one in particular. He has recently been back in contact about picking up the remainder of ... (242 words)

Did I get dumped by text?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6635 days ago

21 September 2006 (F) - well I've been dumped, and I dont know what to do or feel anymore.... and I know i should just be getting over it and not writing this... but... I was seeing a guy for a while, since around April. We were getting along great and enjoyed 'staying over' at one anothers places.... (318 words)

I put restrictions on our computers, so my son doesn't see porn sites and my partner is royally pissed off with me! What's up with that?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6620 days ago

21 September 2006 (?) - I'm a female, late 40's. I have a young teen son, who is a sensible, good kid. However, he loves surfing on the net a lot, so I recently set up a new system in my home, where sexually explicit websites can't get into my home. It was a free service my Internet Provider offered. ... (276 words)

He's at school, and he said he'd call me back but he didn't

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6635 days ago

21 September 2006 (F)

- I could really use some advice. I recently told my ex that I miss him and that I still really care about him. He wrote back and told me he feels the same way. He even mentioned that he doesn't want to nor has dated any1 since me. He also said he'd like to see me. Now the ... (202 words)

Is sex with and in-law incest?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

21 September 2006 (F) - I have a close girlfriend, who just confided in me about her sexual encounter she had with her brother in law, that would be her husband's brother. She has been married and known him for over 10 years. I really do not know what to tell her; that is why I am posting this for... (179 words)

My bf thinks i cheated on him, but I didn't

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6635 days ago

21 September 2006 (F)

- my bf thinks i lied and cheated on him, when i didn't i dont know. what i should do? i love him soo much he also will get mad at me if i dont answer him right away. i keep telling him i didnt cheat but he keeps saying i did from an email that he says i sent him i really need ... (71 words)

My husband told me that he is bisexual and now wants to explore some of his fantasies together

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6634 days ago

21 September 2006 (F) - I’ve been searching the web for advice about having a kinky partner, and happened upon several requests for advice for partners that are chatting. Well, I have no advice, just a similar story – and now a request for advice. My husband and I have also gone through this. A... (329 words)

He is seeing her again, but I still miss him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6635 days ago

21 September 2006 (F) - Hi, So me and my ex boyfriend have been on and off for about the past 2 1/2 years. We are both in college, but 1000 miles apart, and the distance is the reason for the on and off. The reason why we first broke up was because he was cheating. But when they would break up we wo... (166 words)