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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

It's his baby, I told him and he won't respond to me! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6542 days ago

15 September 2006 (F) - My ex-boyfriend wont respond to me regarding our new baby! First Im married and I had an affair for two years Things were not going good with my husband and I. I just wasnt in love with him anymore but I was to afraid to leave him. I met this guy and after being friends fo... (433 words)

Will this guy I like know I'm a virgin, when we do it for the first time?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

15 September 2006 (F) - hi i need some advice! im 17 and im a virgin but this lad im seeing doest know i am! i have done sexual things beofre but i have never gone the whole way lol will he know im a virgin when i have sex for the first time???? ... (49 words)

My parents have turned my kids against me and I don't know what to do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6671 days ago

15 September 2006 (F) - hi there. anybody can give me any advice,i have 2 children living in my parents and my parents using my kids to hold my neck and follow what they wanna say, i did try to get my kids before but their scare me that i wont see them if i took my kids away from them.it is so hard ... (192 words)

He dates one of my friends..should I act like her to get him to like me? Or just be myself?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6670 days ago

15 September 2006 (F) - Me and this boy have been talking on im and me and him talk more on im then in person. When we talk in person he actually talks more then me. And i dont know if i like him or not.... and i dont know if he likes me he likes alot of girls and is going out with one of my friends. ... (177 words)

Should I tell my ex that I still love him after a year ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6662 days ago

15 September 2006 (F) - My ex-boyfriend and I have been broken up for a little over a year and i still love him. I never stopped loving him. We broke up for many different reasons. Some tings were my fault and some things were his fault. I do not talk to him anymore but I still talk to a few of his ... (84 words)

Pete told me he loved me! I froze wasnt expecting it, I love him but didnt say so, is it now too late?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6665 days ago

15 September 2006 (F)

- So ive been dating a guy, pete for quite a while and ive posted many posts on here. But ive come across a big problem. Yesterday evening we went out together and as he dropped me home we kissed, hugged and while we were cuddling he said "i love you" really quietly and i j... (149 words)

How can I earn my mums trust, im 14 and not allowed out past 8pm!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6670 days ago

15 September 2006 (F) - I'm 14 and my parents won't let me stay out past 8 o'clock, all my friends are allowed out until 10 and i feel really stupid having to go home so early like a baby and they are all meeting new people and i feel like i have no friends out of school beacuase i always have to ... (89 words)

Worried to date him because our mums are best friends!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6671 days ago

15 September 2006 (F)

- well, i kinda like this guy but his mum and my mum have been best friends for 30 years. I'm worried that if i ask him out our parents wont approve and if we were ever to split up our parents would fall out.. i really like him and we have been out before but we split up ... (77 words)

I think that he can't handle a true committed relationship ---intimacy and friendship, included. What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6669 days ago

15 September 2006 (F) - I have been off and on in a relationship for almost 10 years now....5 on 3 off and 2 back on. The past relationship was very unhealthy-he cheated continuesly and lied alot...the reason we got back together after our 3 year break was because we both knew we wanted to be ... (408 words)

I have felt more love for others that didnt love me back.. this guy loves me, can it work ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6670 days ago

15 September 2006 (F) - Hello there, Can you help? I'm a 33 year old woman, who has been very unsuccessful in love, to date... Whilst I am confident, attractive, intelligent and successful, I appear to have had a history of going for men who were either rats, or were to weak to overcome ob... (341 words)

We opened up one night about our sexual pasts, I now dont feel sexual towards her!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6668 days ago

15 September 2006 (M) - My wife's sexual past is hurting us both. My wife and I have been together for 7 years, married for 4. I've always been reluctant to discuss our sexual pasts, largely because I was "afraid to know." Well, she breeched the subject one night b/c she said she felt as though m... (295 words)

Husband is 35 and having an affair with a 15 year old female! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6670 days ago

15 September 2006 (F) - my husband is having an affair with a 15 year old girl,hes 35. they always smile at each other and give each other the eyes across the room. the other day he winked at her and she winked back, i asked her what was going on she the clever little bitch said she was the only ... (191 words)

Had a long distance relationship for many years, it ended, then he got back in touch asked to get back just so he could have sex!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6670 days ago

15 September 2006 (F) - I was in a long-distance realtionship for many years. I fell madly in love with this guy, but sadly it was an on/off affair, due to his lack of commitment,distance etc. He did tell me he loved me, but we split earlier in the year because I found him cheating. Now months later ... (201 words)

Any one from Worthing here???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6671 days ago

15 September 2006 (F) - hiii Anyone from Worthing here!?!... (5 words)

She says I don't tell her how I feel enough...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6671 days ago

15 September 2006 (F)

- The person im going out with lets call them S yes im bi we r both girls. Well me and S have been going out for about 2 weeks i got very negative as things are complicated with family and friends and so on. We almost broke up but decided to carry on and give it a go. Now S keeps ... (106 words)

What are these red lines around my thighs and bum???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6671 days ago

15 September 2006 (F)

- Hi I have noticed i have little red lines around my thighs and on my bum. I told my mum and i said they look like stretch marks or scars. She laughed and said they couldnt be as i've always been very skinny. She mentioned it may just be some kind of bad circulation. Anyone h... (72 words)

My husband is a voyeur on the internet..he likes viewing women. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6671 days ago

15 September 2006 (F) - My husband is a voyeur on the internet watching women etc. I caught him viewing one evening and he got very upset. And denied he was viewing women. He does not make me feel loved or attractive and seems to be only getting pleasure from this. What can I do.... (53 words)

Do you think he fancies me or are we just good mates???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6090 days ago

15 September 2006 (F) - hi im 15. Would u say my boy mate fancies me cos if he sees me in the corridor he pokes me or bangs into me as a joke and smiles. hes the same age as me. And sometimes when i am sitting down eating my lunch he says to one of his mates "oh if u want any sexual advise then go t... (122 words)

Does every guy really watch porn ?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4927 days ago

15 September 2006 (F) - Is it possible to not watch porn as a guy? My bf told me he's not interested at these things. He admitted he was curious about it when he was 16, but he absolutely shows no interest about it now. I love him very much and I'm lucky that I found someone that's not such a pervert ... (110 words)

Im constantly being compared to the Ex, I cant cope anymore what can I do ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6671 days ago

15 September 2006 (M) - I am in the early (honeymoon) stages of a relationship and most things are absoluetly fantastic, however one thing really bothers me and despite talking to my partner I seem not to be able to get a common understaning. I am compared regularly to their ex, i.e "that's how they ... (144 words)

I dont Orgasm every time with him, and am too worried to tell him as its not fault!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6671 days ago

15 September 2006 (F) - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 10 months (he's my first and the man I lost my virginity to) and I love him very much, but I've got a problem that I don't feel I can talk to him about because I'm scared of hurting him or making things awkward. In the 9 or so mont... (176 words)

Survived the break up and have moved on, but Still feel embarrased at how I acted!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6671 days ago

15 September 2006 (F)

- Last year I was dumped for someone else. I was heartbroken and it took me months to get over it. I put a few posts on here and got really good advice, the best being that time will eventually heal the wounds. And it did, I got used to seeing my ex with someone else, stopped ... (254 words)

I lied to my girlfriend, I need to gain her trust back! HELP!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

15 September 2006 (M) - I need help i have lied to my girlfriend on 3 occasions and now she is upset and wants me to say something to reassure her that it wont happen again. I have broken her trust and she needs me to tell what i will do to win back that trust... (51 words)

I think my boyfriend fancies his mates girlfriend...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6671 days ago

15 September 2006 (F) - Hi there. Ok then, here's the problem: I am sure that my boyfriend fancies his mate's girlfriend, Rachel (not her real name). I believe so because whenever we're with his mate and Rachel, he acts differently, particularly when he is talking with Rachel. E.g. We were holding ... (148 words)

Whats the best way to make a move on my friend ??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6670 days ago

15 September 2006 (F) - Hi ya, I met a great guy about two months ago and since then we have stayed good friends. The night we met we had a drunken snog but nothing more but havent kissed since. Thing is im crazy about this guy, and would love to make the first move into recapturing what happened ... (171 words)

Question about DNA and would a dad have exactly the same as his son ??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6671 days ago

15 September 2006 (F) - hello, well my question is for a friend that is in need. she wanted to know if someone slept with their boyfriends dad and got pregnant will they have the same dna? would it be hard to know if its the dad or son? weird I know. how would that go about? please respond as well as ... (60 words)

He travels alot with work, while hes away I cant focus on life!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6671 days ago

15 September 2006 (F)

- Im in a relationship and for work my boyfriend travells a lot. I find it hard when he is away and while he is away suffer form high anxeity. I dont manage to get anything done and loose my appitite. He is not aware that this happens as when he is here I am fine He will be in a ... (131 words)

He wants me to be like a porn actress and willingly give BJ's..whenever he wants sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6252 days ago

15 September 2006 (F) - My boyfriend would love it if I gave hime blow jobs everytime we have sex. I hate giving them as I have tried to explain to him I hate the taste I get in my mouth and refuse to let him come in my mouth (he would love it if I did). We both like watching porn and can get turned ... (101 words)

Im a single gay guy, and want to ask this other guy out, but he doesnt know that Im gay or that I know he is!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6220 days ago

15 September 2006 (M) - OK Then, here is the story, Im a single gay man and have been interested in this guy now for some time. I met him through work about six months ago during a training workshop. At this time although i thought this guy was attractive i did not realise i he was gay so nothing w... (239 words)

How do we know if we are really compatible after living apart for so long ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6671 days ago

15 September 2006 (M) - I have been in a long distance relationship for many years and we are considering getting married. We have never lived in the same city and will not be able to do so until maybe a couple of years after tying the knot. We would like to get married because we love each other ... (78 words)

Shes just started a new college course and has started to treat me badly!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6671 days ago

15 September 2006 (M) - Me and my girlfriend are madly in love and have been for around 6 months now but we were friends for almost a year before that. Now we live together and she has just started a new college course, the only thing is that she has started to treat me badly and she has only been ... (292 words)

Sorry to bother but:- Does the same apply to women as men, once a cheat always a cheat ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6570 days ago

15 September 2006 (M) - Good answers on the male-female cheating question. But I've got one more question sorry to bother. When males cheat its most likely than not they are going to do it again, evean if they luv their spouses. Is it safe to say the same for women. Or maybe it just depends on the ... (72 words)

Has everyone cheated at least once in their lives ???

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6664 days ago

15 September 2006 (F)

- I'm curious. I jus want 2 know has every person cheated at least once in thier lifes? I jus find that alot of people on here have alot of questions about it n it seems alot of us have done it.... (44 words)

Im keeping myself busy, but still cant get over the hurt of my break up.. please help!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6612 days ago

15 September 2006 (F) - I broke up with my ex 5 months ago. I am doing all the right things - keeping busy, seeing friends. But I still cry when I am alone, and I still miss him so very much. I really believe he was the love of my life and I don't know how I will ever get over this. People say I will ... (78 words)

He has changed since I became pregnant, he also said while we are living apart the baby is my problem!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6597 days ago

15 September 2006 (F) - Pregnant and partner has changed, would love an opinion please? I am 32 weeks pregnant in a high risk pregnancy. I cant live with my partner as he works away from where I live and originally he has promised to come to where I live, but says he cant cope with the travelling 6... (294 words)

Is female cheating really acceptable ??

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6667 days ago

15 September 2006 (M) - we all have grown to accept that most males cheat almost to the point of accepting and forgiving it all the time, when it happens. Is female cheating acceptable? When they cheat it almost definetly ends in breakups. They never get chances like males do, how is it different from ... (52 words)

My guy is in the Army, and I find it real hard being apart, I cant seem to live life for myself!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6671 days ago

15 September 2006 (F)

- Im dating a lovely guy who is in the army This is my first real relationship He is not the type to talk on the phone and does not have msn When we do talk on the phone everything jumbles and I never get my point accross We send messages by text but im finding it hard Having ... (110 words)

I really love my girlfriend, but ended up kissing another girl!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6671 days ago

15 September 2006 (M) - I am 20 and have been in a long-distance relationship with a girl for 6 months. She is moving back to live with me next year. Lately she has been very busy and doesnt speak with me all too much because of time differences and work, and I haven't felt too good about it. I w... (114 words)

I would love to make love to my wife more often, but shes always has an excuse what can I do!?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6671 days ago

15 September 2006 (M) - This is tearing me to pieces! I love my wife. I would love to make love to her maybe 2 or 3 times a week. We are married 5 years with a 2 year old we have been together for 10 years. Unfortunately she is never in the mood. She is into porn so that isn’t the problem. One can ... (227 words)

Ive started dating my ex, but what concerns me is hes shorter than me!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6671 days ago

15 September 2006 (F) - I have recently started seeing an ex-boyfriend again who I have been on and off with for 3 years, during which we lived together for one year. I ended the relationship because I had a lot of guy friends and he kept getting really jealous. Now we are getting on great and we ... (121 words)

How can I get over being sexually assaulted by my ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6669 days ago

15 September 2006 (F) - I can't get over being sexually assaulted by my ex. He told me he was asleep and I stupidly believed him at first and stayed with him. Then I broke up with him eventually for other reasons, but reported the incident, knowing nothing would happen to him, but I was so sick of ... (126 words)

How do you deal with the different life-stages issue in age-gap relationships?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6544 days ago

15 September 2006 (M) - Hi. When you're in an age gap relationship, how do you bridge the different life-stages dilemma? Say they are still of college age and you graduated a few years ago. You click on every single level possible. The only difference between you is one wakes up and goes off to ... (85 words)

How can I get back what we lost?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6670 days ago

15 September 2006 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been together for 3 years and everything has been fun. lately he hasn't been really into having sex and he seems distant.. we had a fight the other day and he said he just wants everything to be like it was when we first met. he ALSO wont tell me he is ... (96 words)

I need new ideas for affectionately/intimately touching my man

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6670 days ago

15 September 2006 (F) - hey guys i'm just gonna throw out a simple question, nothing crazy complicated, but do any of you girls out there have any methods of er... for lack of better words... touching your man? (doesnt have to be sexual) i mean i have this thing where i stroke my guy's arm and i know ... (105 words)

She said she loved me and then took it back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6663 days ago

15 September 2006 (M) - i don't know what on earth to make of me and my friends relationship. everyone i know says we have the strangest friendship because they can tell we're not just friends. she's with someone, but has confessed her love for me, but then said she was going to stay with her ... (223 words)

Since going to college, I feel like I've abandoned my mother with my abusive father

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6671 days ago

15 September 2006 (F) - my mother and i have suffered abuse at the hands of my father. and it's not just something that's happened once or twice (not saying that once or twice is justified). it's happened numerous times. i am away at college now, have been for the past four years. i was glad to be ... (180 words)

We've been together for a month, she's pregnant, and I don't know if I'm the father... Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6671 days ago

15 September 2006 (M) - So i was dating my girlfriend for only one month, when she tells me that she is pregnant. The first thing i asked her was she one hundred percent that the baby was mine. She said yes, with out a doubt it was mine. The only thing i know to do is to step and be there for her and ... (152 words)

Before sex, I need the crapper!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6671 days ago

15 September 2006 (M) - Hi. Is it normal to need a number 2 (shit) before sex. I have been with girls in the past and at the worst possible time, I have needed the toilet. Is this a medical thing or nerves? I dont feel nervous but do need to relieve myself in a differnt way to the one I desire!... (57 words)

He doesn't treat me like a girlfriend, but I've fallen in love with him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6671 days ago

15 September 2006 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half, but during that we kept breaking up because he never treated me like a girlfriend, but now ive fallen in love and just cant bring myself to end i havent seen him in ages to talk about it and when i do i find it hard to talk to ... (63 words)

Are we friends or more? What should I do when I see her next?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6672 days ago

15 September 2006 (?) - is this love or friendship or what? i hated this girl but we became really good mates. we are extremely close. I started fancying her. she has a boyfriend. they been goin out for 6months. after school on monday she told me to walk her home and stay round for about 3hours w... (206 words)

My sexual past bothered him so much that he broke up with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6542 days ago

15 September 2006 (F) - I dated the love of my life for 2 years. In the beginning of our relationship, he asked me detailed questions about my sexual past. Me, being naive, answered them not wanting to hide anything or seem like I was lying. He never seemed to have a problem with them, we had an ... (208 words)

Should I pursue her or just let it go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6672 days ago

15 September 2006 (M) - I just recently got dumped by my girlfriend which she has done this one time before but she told me that her feelings have changed towards me that i should be with someone better and every girl would look for a guy like me but we are both young and she does have a child not by ... (138 words)

She ended it and is seeing someone new, but I know she still feels for me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6671 days ago

15 September 2006 (M) - Hi, 2 weeks ago my Girlfriend of 3 years split up with me. We had such a good relationship and she is the sort of person who is very loyal and does not lie. Well everyday she would tell me she loved me and would hug and kiss me and all was going well. We came back off of... (332 words)