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writes: Does he fancy me?When I was 16 I meet this guy who was really into me but I blow him out cos he was just driving me mad. However the following year he had grown into this really attractive guy. I was really into him but he blew me out. We were friends but we never went there with each other again. We used to hang out call each other and be on the phone for hours, he has always been able to make me laugh. We even went as far as to date other peopleWe both went off to university and he used to call me all the time, but then his car got stolen and he lost his phone I didn’t know this because I was away I thought he had just stopped calling. I didn't see or speak to him for 2 years while I was away.Last year I got his number from a mutual friend and I called him. We were on the phone for over 2 hours, he also failed to tell me his girlfriend at the time was with him until he told me "oh yeah it’s our anniversary...“I told him I was sorry and that I would go. He then told me that he would phone me back. He called me back within 20mins.2weeks later I saw he and we went for ice cream and we were just catching up my. He looked the same but different but he was still the same person.I told him about my bloke at the time how badly he was treating me and he was really upset with the type of person I had chosen to be with.2days after that our mutual friend told me he had finished with his girlfriend. I was shockedI never saw him for another six months I went to work overseas and when I came back I called him to tell me him I was back and I went to see him, everything was fine we were catching up on me finishing with my bloke, he was in another relationship. Then 2 days later our mutual friend then told me he had again finished wit the girl he was with.3 days later we went for a drive we got on really well just hanging out having a laugh then after 7 years of waiting he kissed me. I was taken by surprise but I liked it and kissed him back. I heard nothing from him for about a month then I txted him and now 2 months later we have been txting each other and we have kissed again and we have also slept with each other.But now I am lost cos I am not sure how he feel about me cos he goes for weeks without any contact and it’s me who always has to contact him and I now feel I have made a really big mistake about sleeping with him. Plus the last relationship was so bad that I feel like everyone could treat me the same waysI really like him. I just don't know what to do, I just want to know if he fancies me with out making a fool of myself
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reader, Yuna~  +, writes (20 September 2006):
 You know, not a lot of people can have a relationship for 7 years (friends included). I think you value your friendship with him, and since you were friends when you were little, you probably feel really comforting to keep in touch with him.
To figure out if he fancy you, you can either ask him directly, or you can figure out from his hint. I suppose you'll choose the less embarrassing way. If a guy's interested in a girl, he will make he best attempts to call you, do little sweet things for you. I wonder if you know alot about him after you guys got separated years back. He might changed. Everyone changed. Are you sure he's still the guy you know him seven years ago?
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