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writes: Hi, hope somebody can help me with my dialema. I have this amazing male friend who I have known for a short period of time we meet every week and speak on the phone every day and in that short period I have fallen in love with him. He was hurt in his last relationship badly and has told me from the start he is not ready for a relationship. I told him two weeks ago that I was falling for him and he made no comment and the friendship continued. Since then I have been trying to alter my feelings for him as not to lose him and I am making myself very down. I asked him in the week how he would feel if I went out and met somebody else and he replied that he would be sad. Last night I ended up textin him telling him that I cant lie no more and that I want to be with him but I know that this will not happen and that I need to move on with my life and find somebody who wants to be with me and to remember that I do love him and im not just saying that. I never heard back for a while, then he rang me but the text was never mentioned and he was acting the same with me. Im really confused as to why he will never discuss this. I am also confused as to how one minute he can act as though he likes me more than a friend then the next minute buts his barriers up and is really distant and cold with me. I wish he would just say to me we can only ever be friends at least I could move on then.
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reader, claire_x100 +, writes (18 September 2006):
 Well thers no more you can do you have tried discussing it he knows how you feel. i suggest you move on stay friends with him but i know how hard it will be but just try and be friends try gettin with some one new. Myabe he will realise what hes missing. Also take into consideration that he split from a bad relationship that can take some time to get over and to re-trust some one. Just dont wait around for something that might no happen. Just tx him and say about meetin up and its gona be hard but act like nothin has happened. He may bring it up. Good Luck.
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