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writes: I have talked on the phone with this guy for a year and a half. I am friends with his brother and that is how we connected. He has been away at college, but he has been back in town for several months. He says that he loves me, but is just too nervous to meet me in person. He is not married. We have seen pics of each other(his brother was in the pic with him). Am I just kidding myself to think it's going anywhere. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2006): In a word, yes. Why haven't you given up on him at least six months ago?
You said he tells you he loves you. Honestly, how CAN he love you when he's never met you?
He clearly is not going to meet you....doesn't sound all that interested.
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reader, stina  +, writes (18 September 2006):
 Hi Anon,
I have to agree with Dr. Pete. Who on earth would not want to see the person he loves? Shy or not, I imagine that anyone who cared about you would want to see you by now.
In my opinion, you should go out and find someone who wants to spend time with you. Someone who wants to see you, go out with you, hold you, kiss you, and love you in real life.
If you have to ask whether or not you think you're kidding yourself, then I think you already know the answer to that. What do you think?
Go out, have fun and enjoy life! Don't sit around waiting for it to be convenient for someone else.
Take care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2006): A year and a half? This guy can not love you. If he loved you, he'd be desperate to see you, no matter how shy he is.
Yes, I think you are kidding yourself that this is going anywhere. You need to arrange to meet up with him as soon as you can, otherwise, stop wasting your time and go and find a real life boyfriend.
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