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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My ex caused me to question if the size of my penis is good enough!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6675 days ago

11 September 2006 (M) - Hi, well I have a wierd kind of question. i have just come out of a 3 yr realationship with a very nice girl. We still meet ocasionaly and it becomes sexual. I am 26 years old and concerned about my "manliness". I shave around my mouth and have the occasional hair around my c... (210 words)

My 60 year old man looks at porn even though he has me, a young woman, with him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6676 days ago

11 September 2006 (F) - I just wondering if somebody can tell me, why for heavens sake, that the very, very old 60 year old man still always wants to look at naked woman pictures and watch sex videos when he has a young woman beside him! He always say he loves her so much! and thats me.... is there a ... (105 words)

I told my BF of 3 years I don't enjoy sex with him and now he doesn't want to have sex with me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6675 days ago

11 September 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and we love each other very much. Our sex life used to be amazing, well, i thought it was. We used to sleep together i'd say about 8-10 times a week. But recently, I bought myself a Rabbit. You see the thing is, i have never ever ... (283 words)

I ended it because the sex was boring but I still miss him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6676 days ago

11 September 2006 (F)

- I finished with my lover because i was bored with the sex. It lasted 2 mins with him not doing any foreplay, even though i told him. His answer was that he found that part of sex not very interesting and prefered the intercourse instead. I did tell him how i felt but it went ... (84 words)

How can I make me boyfriend appreciate me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6669 days ago

11 September 2006 (F)

- Heya I just want advice on how I can get my boyfriend running after me like that hes lucky to have me and that he can't treat me like sh*t and think i will still love him. What things can i do? thanks... (43 words)

He won't even call her his "ex" wife! I can't take anymore!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6676 days ago

11 September 2006 (F) - im now staying with my bf for 1 year, he always tell me that he love me. he sometimes show it to me, but there is a time i dont understand whats going on inside of me when he speaks about his ex-wife.i already understand his past i know that there is no problem between his ... (194 words)

I think he is cheating because he accusses me of it....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6676 days ago

11 September 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for over one year, and now i think that he is cheating on me,. I cant be sure of it but there are defiante signs that he might be, and i need some advise. He lives with me and he uses my car, when we first started dating , he lost his car due to ... (327 words)

I'm married but I have a crush on a guy at work...Help!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6675 days ago

11 September 2006 (F) - Please excuse the fact that this is rather long but i really need to get this out of my system. 6 months ago our manager brought this new guy around the office to do intros etc. From the moment we shook hands, something happened, he said that he knew me from somewhere. I la... (310 words)

How can I get him to like me???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6676 days ago

11 September 2006 (F)

- Im going out with this boy who i love so much anyways tonight we were talking on msn messenger and a 'slut' who i kind of know somehow got his msn address and told him lots of lies about me and he turned all funny on me. Then i got all upset and told my best mate who then told ... (207 words)

How long should I wait for his call?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6676 days ago

11 September 2006 (F) - I met a guy through a friend friday night. He lives in my building, and last night I saw him and gave him my number. How long should I wait for his call before i talk to him again? I've always been the askee not the asker so this is a new situation for me. ... (55 words)

Is the grass greener on the other side - or am I kidding myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6676 days ago

11 September 2006 (F) - In Love with two guys... Ive been seeing my boyfriend for 3years now, I love him so much, I know he'd do anything for me and he'd never hurt me... but to be honest Im bored, we like very different things but most of the time I just give in and do whatever he wants....which i... (195 words)

Is this 'the one'?? I have nothing to compare it with..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6676 days ago

11 September 2006 (F) - How common is it for your first serious relationship to be the person that you end up spending the rest of your life with? I love my guy to death and want to marry him but part of me wonders if it's because he's the only person I've ever experienced this with, and he's the guy ... (83 words)

I want to have sex with my boyfriend - but he is 21 and I'm only 14!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 6273 days ago

11 September 2006 (F) - ive bin with my boyfrien 4 seven months im 14 and hes 21 we have decided to have sex and got contraception and such like but im really nervous because i dnt no wat mt body should look like plz can you help me ? ... (47 words)

What can I do - I don't want to lose her

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6674 days ago

11 September 2006 (M) - I need help my gf wants a break for two weeks I've gave her one but I think she is going to break up with me I dont want to lose her and I want to phone her as well what should I do ?... (47 words)

I like him - but he is gay!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6676 days ago

11 September 2006 (F) - There is this one guy I was interested in dating, but I found out that he is gay. He and I have a lot in common, but I am worried about this.... (32 words)

Does she really want to break up, or has she had second thoughts?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6676 days ago

11 September 2006 (M) - My girlfriend wants a break so I went round and got all my stuff but she kept on dropping little hints before we went on are break like If we break up will you still come round for dinner on Sundays and would you still talk to me If we break up .Well I’m thinking she has ... (84 words)

What exactly is the G-spot and how can I find it??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6676 days ago

11 September 2006 (F) - What exactly is the G-spot and how can i find it? ... (11 words)

I Can't do right for doing wrong - what am I to do?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6676 days ago

11 September 2006 (M) - I've been going out with this girl for 3 months. The way we met was amazing. It took some time to get close to her as she has been hurt before. Hurt in a physical way. She is 22 and i am 32. We have had our issues and our arguments. Now i am a very busy person when it c... (422 words)

I think I am in love with my fiance's brother...Help!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6675 days ago

11 September 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, I think that I am in love with my fiance's brother. Long before my fiance and I got together we- the brother and I- dated for a short time. I had always had a huge crush on him ever since I met him. When we dated I had just gotten out of a relationship and... (228 words)

Could I get pregnant from being fingered?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6298 days ago

11 September 2006 (F) - can you get pregnant from being fingered? the thing is at the weekend my boyfriend fingered me and it was really good. then i touched his cock but i didnt do anything an he didnt cum. he hadnt done anything else to himself and if he did then it was hours before. i then t... (70 words)

I love her so much but I feel like I'm missing something in my life. Do I need to date other girls?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6675 days ago

11 September 2006 (M) - Hello There, I am 20, and have been going out with a girl for nearly a year now. At first it really was amazing for me. I had never dreamed that I could ever meet a girl who liked me who was so beautiful, because I'm really not a good looking guy, and I'd never had a girl... (317 words)

Do I care too much about what he thinks???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6676 days ago

11 September 2006 (F) - Like a lot of guys, my boyfriend is one of the manly man. He doesn't like me wearing a lot of make-up. His reason is because he likes me being natural, and also he doesn't want me to get make-up all over him. He's very aganist skin product, even sun lotion. For quite a while, ... (236 words)

He says he doesn't want a girlfriend but we still have sex...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6676 days ago

11 September 2006 (F) - ryt well i was seeing this lad for about 2 months and we were really really getin on with each but all of a sudden he sent me a txt saying he dosnet want a girlfreind and he still wants 2 be friends. but i see him out all the time and i have 2 txt him i just get the erge to.... (147 words)

We broke up but he still speaks to me in a sexual manner???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6676 days ago

11 September 2006 (F) - I split up with my boyfriend 2 months ago, we had been living together for 6 years. In that time he was unfaithful twice, both times I forgave him. Since he finished with me we still keep in touch. He says he wants to just be friends but still speaks to me in a sexual way. What ... (80 words)

How do I approach girls???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6676 days ago

11 September 2006 (M) - I'm looking for advice really... I am a 17 yo virgin, but i have never even kissed a girl, and all my friends have had sex and i REALLY want to but I dont know how to meet girls, like when im at college there is alot of girls i would like to meet but i dont know how to appr... (80 words)

Is the word love used too loosely or is it me???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6676 days ago

11 September 2006 (M)

- Just a quick thought....Is it me or do any of you other agony aunts compelled to believe that the word love is loosely used a lot. I mean who knows the actual meaning but to say you are in love with someone who you have know for a matter of months is not realistic in my eyes. ... (121 words)

How do I know if he wants me back???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6676 days ago

11 September 2006 (F) - my boyfriend broke up with me about a month ago and because i see him every day its really hard to tell my self that i am over him but the thing is that i think i cant do that because i do really truley want him back i dont know whether he feels the same way but i want to know ... (78 words)

How do I ask him out???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6676 days ago

11 September 2006 (F) - hi i really fancy this foreign lad whos in the yr above me.i want to ask him out but im scared girls should be asked by a lad,also im scared what he'll say to me (yes/no).he always smiles at me whenever i catch his eye.and i said to him in his language,"i love you" for a ... (103 words)

How does it feel to kiss???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6676 days ago

11 September 2006 (F)

- Lads! How would you feel if you were going out with a girl that hasn't kissed before! I hate talking about it, because all my friends have, but i haven't! Im curious about what its like! Could you explain how you would act about this? and can you please explain what its like? ... (58 words)

I want them both...What should I do???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6675 days ago

11 September 2006 (F) - im feeling really depressed cuz i've hurt someone's feelings real badly.i broke up with my ex last year because our parents disapprove of our r/s for religious reasons. im 18 btw and he's 21. another reason why we broke up was also bcuz i broke his trust when he caught me ... (587 words)

How can I get my life back with my ex???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6676 days ago

11 September 2006 (F)

- I will try and keep this as short and sweet as possible. Any piece of advice would be greatly appreciated. Basically I broke up with my boyfriend in may of this year, the reason being is that I am of greek Cyrpiot origin and he is English, his parents had a huge prioblem with ... (231 words)

He doesn't seem interested...Could I be pushing him away???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6676 days ago

11 September 2006 (F) - my fiance seems off with me all the time also doesnt seem interested in me anymore he says he is but i think he is.he always has a go when i get jealous like he talks other lassies on msn and got numbers and when i said something he had a go at me and turned it round.like i ... (200 words)

My guy friends gave me erotic gifts for my birthday...I'm wondering if my bf is angry about all this.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6675 days ago

11 September 2006 (F) - This happened a week before my boyfriend and I went on a trip together for a week. It happens so to be my birthday at that time, and my male friends (close friends) gave me a birthday present which to me was a little bit shocking. I opened it in the restaurant and there were 3 ... (201 words)

Ive been with my guy for a year now, but its really odd that I dont know what he does for work!!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6676 days ago

11 September 2006 (F) - Iv been dating my bf for nearly a year... i feel as though i know him quite well except for ONE thing... i dont know where he works or what his occupation is. Is this strange? im 21 and at university and hes 26. Each time i mention it, he evades it and asks me why i need to ... (184 words)

Im 24 hes 19, I feel a bit wierd about the age!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6665 days ago

11 September 2006 (F) - I'm 24 years old and seeing a 19 year old I feel really weird but he acts very mature and i do like him am i wrong?... (27 words)

How can I get over my girlfriends past???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6520 days ago

11 September 2006 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for about four months and we are definately in love with each other. We spend everyday together, but don't live with each other. We are already talking about marriage but there is one thing lingering and eating away at me. About 6 weeks ... (318 words)

Should I believe that they are really separated, even though her clothes hang in the wardrobe ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6676 days ago

11 September 2006 (F) - i am currently in a relation with a married man. they are living in two different countries and have been separated for the past 3 to 4 years. he says they are no longer in love with each other. just recently the wife came to visit with their two children for a week. he said ... (132 words)

Im pregnant and keep feeling that my partner doesnt find me sexy and is cheating, is this just my hormones ?

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11 September 2006 (F) - hi my problem is that i am over 6 months pregnant and i dont think my partner finds me sexy anymore i am not sure if it is all due to my hormones but i keep thinking he is cheating on me or he is still inlove with his ex who he has 2 kids to this is my first baby i am 22 and ... (141 words)

Will the "No Contact Rule" work ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6676 days ago

11 September 2006 (M) - The No Contact Rule My wife recently separated from me. I still love her and would love her to come back to me, but she says that she can't be friends anymore, as she knows no other separated couples that are friends. It has been suggested to me that I instigate the 'n... (102 words)

I feel like its gone from girlfriend to friend, should I move on now ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6676 days ago

11 September 2006 (F) - i have been dating a man for a few months now, we live quite far apart but try to meet up a couple of times a week. he calls me his girlfriend, But lately i feels like it's more of a friendship than boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. in his texts to me he never as much as end ... (173 words)

My boyfriend confessed that he smokes, hes hidden it from me, I hate it and now this is affecting me!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6676 days ago

11 September 2006 (F) - my bf has just recently told me that he smokes and has hidden it for 14 months when we have discussed it many of time if he has because i hate i so much.its really effecting me and dont no what to do?... (43 words)

I broke up with because I was no longer in love with him, hes hurting and wont let go, and this in turn is killing me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6661 days ago

11 September 2006 (F) - Hi please help me if u hav any ideas on what i can do, iv split up with my boyfriend about a week and half ago after being together for a year, and although i love him, im no longer 'in love' with him. we argued and fought a lot which is the reason i think i stopped loving him ... (179 words)

he called me nasty names but claims he loves me!!?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6676 days ago

11 September 2006 (F) - What does it mean when your boyfriend of a year gets angry and starts calling you names when you are arguing and he makes you cry, by calling you a "slut", "hoe", "dirty" and that hes had better than you, even though he is in love with you???... (48 words)

I think our marriage is over, but this petrifies me, what can I do when she wont talk to me ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6676 days ago

11 September 2006 (M)

- Hi all, I'm miserable at the moment and wondered if some of you could help me. I'm wondering if my situation is beyond repair or not. Can't say I know which way I'd rather it comes out. It does feel like my relationship with my wife is over. I'm petrified by the thoug... (327 words)

Why wont my work guy leave his girlfriend ??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6676 days ago

11 September 2006 (F) - I am in my twenties and have been seeing a guy from work for almost a year. He has been with his girlfriend for nearly 3 years and although i have never asked him, he has made it clear that he will not leave her. They do not see each other regularly and when she asked if they ... (217 words)

What can I do to make my on off guy realise that I want a great life with him ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6676 days ago

11 September 2006 (F) - I am divorced seeing a guy 9 years younger, on and off for the past 5 years, i want more but it feels like he is testing me all the time to prove myself to him. i have 2 children my own home. what do i do to prove i have waited all this time for him, i dont want him to leave i ... (70 words)

My bf is just starting Uni Im scared that he will change and I will lose him!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6676 days ago

11 September 2006 (F) - My lovely boyfriend is just starting university, I'm really excited for him but can't help the feeling that I will lose him. We have been together for two years and are very much in love. I trust him with my life but all of my friends relationships break down after a year or ... (101 words)

Found my bf giving my dad head!!!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6665 days ago

11 September 2006 (F)

- Please help me. I have been with my bf for nearly 6 months now. On Saturday we was supposed to be going out for a meal and he was meeting me at my dads cos he works by his house. I live with my dad and came in from work to find my bf giving head to my dad. I ran out of the ... (99 words)

I have fallen for my friend, I told him how I felt and go not reaction!!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6677 days ago

11 September 2006 (F) - Help!! I have fallen in love with my male friend and im literally driving myself demented, I can't sleep properly, eat or focus on anything at the moment apart from my friend, im constantly watching my mobile phone and if he doesnt get in touch straight away im really down. I ... (212 words)

No sex for 8 months, Im frustrated and he doesnt know why he doesnt feel like it..Thinking of a one night stand!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6669 days ago

11 September 2006 (F)

- OK, I just want your opinions on this one and what you'd do if you were in the same situation... I've been eith my bf for about 18 months now, i love him so much! We live together but for the past 7-8 months we have no passion or sexual contact what so ever. He won't kiss me... (293 words)

How can I get back with my girl after cheating on her ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6281 days ago

11 September 2006 (M) - How can I get back together with my girlfriend after I cheated on her? My girlfriend of a year recently dumped me after finding out I cheated on her with someone else roughly 5 months ago. I didn't tell her because I was afraid of losing her because of a stupid act of im... (108 words)

Was I in the wrong, do some girls just like control ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6676 days ago

11 September 2006 (M) - Help I am from the Uk and moved to a another country when my girlfriend got a great job offer. eventualy I got a job too and we moved intogether. We work strange shifts at the same place. These are mt problems. She insisted that I am lazy and messy, (I dont clean the oven o... (233 words)

Who should I believe ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6676 days ago

11 September 2006 (M) - A friend of mine clsims she walked into my gf cheating on me with some other guy and my friend has told me she has feelings for me and my problem is who do i believe and when she told me this i told her i still love my gf am i making a mistake by forgiving her if it is true ... (62 words)

I love my boyfriend very much, but really feel like I should be with his best friend!!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6672 days ago

11 September 2006 (F) - I love my boyfriend of almost 6 yrs dearly, however I think I belong with his bestfriend. We both liked eachother since we 1st met 6 yrs ago, but we just shared our feeling for eachother a year ago. It is frustrating becuz we have to keep it on the DL. We have both tried to ... (70 words)

We got back together, but all the anger from before the break up is still with me!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6676 days ago

11 September 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, I dated a guy for fifteen months and then broke up with him because he was neglectful and not affectionate, like at all. After some time apart, we started talking again as just-friends, even though I found it emotionally painful. The thing is, the pain and anger r... (132 words)

How can I improve how my life is turning out ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6672 days ago

11 September 2006 (M) - i, i..., i really dont know how to make this a question so ill tell u what happened. I am the youngest kid in my family, so i dont get much attention, hardly any, and almost every promise is made to me is broken, these things have beed getting to me lately, but as any normal ... (150 words)

Would it be silly to leave my husband over his use of porn ?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 6489 days ago

11 September 2006 (F) - Is it silly to leave my husband over porn? I feel a bit foolish but cant accept the fact he enjoys looking at other womens bodies. I feel like I am a beautiful woman so why should he want to see any other female naked. It hurts my pride and I think Id be better off alone th... (73 words)

I want to spend the rest of my life with him but I dont get aroused by him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6676 days ago

11 September 2006 (F) - i love my boyfriend of 2 years so much and want to spend the rest of my life with him but rarely get physically aroused by him? ... (27 words)

She convinced me to fall in love with her, I did and then she flipped out on me!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6676 days ago

11 September 2006 (M) - I'm sort of in a very... distressing situation right now. Last year, I dated my best friend for about 5 months, and it was the greatest time of my life. However, around October of last year, she started flirting with another guy (while we were still together), and she broke up ... (352 words)

We mess around all the time sexually, but never actually have sex ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5951 days ago

11 September 2006 (M)

- Well this is a bit of a weird question, but ive been with my girlfriend for about a month now, we have both had sex with previous partners, and every time we get into bed, we have a real good time joking around, tickeling each other and stuff like that, and then we will get ... (180 words)

Why is the new guy angry with me??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6676 days ago

11 September 2006 (F) - I met a guy I like a lot, only problem is I had started dating someone two weeks before. I wasn't sure what the new guy's intentions were, although he gave hints that he liked me. I told him I was seeing someone, but he still wanted to get to know me. Some of the new guys... (199 words)

He doesnt initiate sex ever! and if I dont when he expects it, he gets moody!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6676 days ago

11 September 2006 (F) - My husband of 6 years and I have ongoing relationship problems that get out of hand. On the surface, he is the strong, he-man type. Everyone on the outside's idea of the "chief" who makes things happen and solves problems. But when it comes to our personal relationship 24/7, ... (294 words)

He says he doesnt want a girlfriend right now but is he just using me ??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6676 days ago

11 September 2006 (F) - Me and this guy have been talking for four months and we are really in to each other but we aren't together as a couple. He told me that he liked me but he didn't want a girlfriend right now but I feel like I'm being used for his personal pleasure. How do I find out for sure, ... (78 words)