New here? Register in under one minute Already a member? Login

245057 questions, 1084625 answers

Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!

New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us . Articles . Sitemap

To browse questions by day in September, 2006, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day)

1 (47), 2 (35), 3 (29), 4 (46), 5 (50), 6 (58), 7 (47), 8 (37), 9 (45), 10 (42),
11 (63), 12 (65), 13 (48), 14 (48), 15 (53), 16 (30), 17 (44), 18 (55), 19 (65), 20 (46),
21 (46), 22 (51), 23 (32), 24 (47), 25 (59), 26 (56), 27 (38), 28 (62), 29 (40), 30 (33),

Archived questions from: 17 September, 2006 (see latest questions)

(More questions from September, 2006)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do I move from friends to something more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6670 days ago

17 September 2006 (M) - Hi. I've met this girl through friends and have been keeping contact mostly by txt. We met up for one drink which went great but I'd really like to ask her out but dont know how to make the next step. I think she may be interested but am not sure.... (51 words)

I went to my formal with her back in Feb, but now I think I fancy her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6670 days ago

17 September 2006 (M) - I am 18 years of age and in February i went to my old school formal. I brought a girl but i never really knew her well as she was my sister's friend, but when i first saw her she looked beautiful. I have only talked to her a few times since then but i think i fancy her, But now ... (75 words)

My BF of 7 years just left me but it doesn't make any sense!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6670 days ago

17 September 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been in this rollercoaster of a relationship for about 7 years. We have a 5 year old son and I'm pregnant 5 months pregnant. He has struggled for some time with getting stable. During that time he spoke of marriage and everything was we, we, we. He... (197 words)

Does hugging your GF for longer mean you care for her more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6670 days ago

17 September 2006 (M) - Please read this question because some of you might finding it interesting as well!... now me and some of my friends were talking about hugging people and one of my friends said 'i think the longer you hold the girl for shows how much you care for her'. Until my friend said ... (74 words)

Depo Provera contraceptive question!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6670 days ago

17 September 2006 (F)

- hey guys, i need to know if anyone has been on the contraceptive Depo-Provera injection? If anyone has, can you tell me if you had any sudden - or arising side-effects. You see, ive been on it a year now, and over the past few months ive been having symptoms, which i dont kno... (143 words)

We haven't had sex yet and I just can't get him to 'come' from fooling around! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6669 days ago

17 September 2006 (F) - I have recently got very intimate with my new bf of 4 months. We havnt slept together yet but have fooled around alot trying new ways of coming without having full on penatrive sex. We have been trying for weeks now and i just can't get him to cum...any ideas? He says he is ... (99 words)

I want to spice up things by having a threesome! My bf thinks it's a bad idea..any advice?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6576 days ago

17 September 2006 (F)

- I want to spice things up in mine and my boyfriends sex life and we thought about having a threesome. I want to but have no idea who to choose to join us. We've agreed it must be a girl but I don't want a friend or someone I don't know at all! Help! My boyfriend still thinks ... (75 words)

This guy likes me..but says he loves other girls, as well. What's going on with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6670 days ago

17 September 2006 (F) - hi theres this lad he really likes me i think he is ok but i dont no him to well he says im perfect and gives me lots of compliments, he keeps asking me out but i say i wont 2 get 2 no him better then i might. but now when i talk 2 him on msn he had on his name he loves emma ... (95 words)

Whenever we meet this guy, my gf makes jokes about blowing him again! It's embarrassing. Should Itell her to stop?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6670 days ago

17 September 2006 (M) - My girlfriend got a vibrator for her birthday. Some bloke stuck it in his jeans,then asked my girlfriend for a blowjob. she started deep throating it! Now whenever we meet this bloke with her mates she makes jokes about blowing him again. Its an embarasing subject so do I leave ... (57 words)

Never been to all night parties! Are these sorts of parties normal and am I missing out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6670 days ago

17 September 2006 (M)

- I've never been to an all night party (or ones that go to like 4 in the morning and beyond), yet all my friends have. Are these sorts of parties normal and am I missing out?... (36 words)

Im a little loose after childbirth, anything I can do to improve this ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6670 days ago

17 September 2006 (F) - I had a couple of children and am now a bit loose down there during sex. Any ideas? Will PC excersizes actually make any difference? ... (27 words)

I think I scared him off, but would at least like to be friends, how can do this without thinking I have feelings ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6670 days ago

17 September 2006 (F) - I liked this boy . a real lot . but i think i scared him away one day we just stoped talking . i would say anything in conversation to get his interest just to talk to him . I still liek him now and ill be going to his school soon i odnt know what to do because we arnt really ... (110 words)

Whats the best position for a girl to have an orgasm ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6670 days ago

17 September 2006 (F) - A question for the girls. What is the best position for a girl to have an orgasm during sex? If you want to say on top - please be specific?... (32 words)

Phone sex virgin here...how are you supposed to do it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6670 days ago

17 September 2006 (F) - Hi There THis might seem like a silly question. I have just started a long distance relationship and am a phone sex virgin. I have no idea how you are suppose to do it. Any ideas?... (42 words)

My boyfriend told me it was him or the smoking, Im finding it hard what can I do ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6670 days ago

17 September 2006 (F) - my boyfriend told me to pick him or smoking i picked him but finiding it hard what can i do.... (20 words)

I dont love my husband, but have a lover, he wants me to move near him, but wont leave his wife!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6653 days ago

17 September 2006 (F)

- Im married with 3 children but im not very happy as i dont love my husband anymore.I have a lover who i have been with for a number of years,the thing is he has a partner who is 25 years older then him but its not a sexual relationship just friendship and he feels a duty to ... (150 words)

At what point did I lose my virginity ?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 6666 days ago

17 September 2006 (M) - I'd like peoples' opinions on this, i lost my virginity at 22, so I believe and just want confirmation of this. Myself and my girlfriend did everything sexual from this age, but not full sexual intercourse. She was very tight so my penis wouldn't go in, but I tried. The head ... (122 words)

I keep getting thrush when I have sex with my bf.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6670 days ago

17 September 2006 (F) - I keep getting thrush when i have sex with my bf, but he doesn't have it. Is it possible that he is just 'carrying' it? Or that something else is causing it that is brought on by sex, because that's when i get the thrush back again. ... (47 words)

I centre my life around my relationship, but would like to get other things back!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6670 days ago

17 September 2006 (F) - I have a fantastic relationship with my bf and we love eachother very much. However, the things that used to be important to me (nothing to do with relationships) no longer are. I used to be very ambitious and had very definite plans on what i wanted to do with my life, but now ... (141 words)

My girl kissed another, shes says shes sorry, but now im confused!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6668 days ago

17 September 2006 (M) - okay so ive been wih my gf for a couple of months now everything seemed to be going fine, w had a greta night the other day together until my younger brother walked in on us, im 15 and she 14, but yesterday she went to a friends party and came back and told me this monring she ... (143 words)

How do you get pregnant!? ( well same question asking about swallowing semen again!)

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6670 days ago

17 September 2006 (F) - well, this might sound dumb, but it's impossible to get pregnant from swallowing cum right? and can this make u sick, cause i gave my bf head last night and he went and i swallowed all of it, but i felt sick afterwards. im always careful after too, i wash my hands and stuff. ... (105 words)

Prior to me moving to his location we broke up as there were too many girls in the picture.. he now wants to get back when I move, is it worth it ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6670 days ago

17 September 2006 (F) - My long-distance boyfriend of a year recently broke things off a couple months prior to me moving to the location of where he lives. We started to fight alot because there were alot of other girls in the picture and he wasn't open and honest enough to tell me about these girls ... (115 words)

I want a sexual relationship with her...but we can't express that to each other. How can I do this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6670 days ago

17 September 2006 (M) - I like a lady she also like me,and i wants to have sexual relation hsip with her but both of us unable to open our wishes and tell. how I can ?... (32 words)

I get torn up about the whole thing we had and cant get past, how do I ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6665 days ago

17 September 2006 (M) - In january last year i went to south america to travel and do charity work with a group of 15 other people i had never met before. I immediately fancied a girl on the trip called Rachel and she showed that she liked me. We hung out alot and I had been working my way up to kiss ... (753 words)

He sent me hate mail and then asked why we can't be friends?! I told him and he got mad! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6670 days ago

17 September 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, Last year one of my friends asked me out and I said no! He didnt take it bad and later on we became best friends....we ended the school year in a fight! I thought everything was going downhill...this year i realised, he started hanging out with completely differen... (109 words)

We split after 9 years and now...he with his cheating ex gf! Why did he do this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6669 days ago

17 September 2006 (F) - hi ive just split up with my boyfriend after 9 years.to days later i found out he is back with his ex who cheated on him.i feel like my heart has been ripped out. dont no why he done this.... (41 words)

I hate my fiancee's female friend. She's so clingy, needy and I can't trust her! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6665 days ago

17 September 2006 (F) - I am 26 years old, and I am almost 8 months pregnant with my second child. I have been with the same man ( my finacee) for 7 years now. Everything was peachy (outside of the usual pregnancy related stuff) until his best friend (a female) contacted him. I have never liked her. ... (201 words)

Looking for guys to date but finding it hard! Any advice or tips?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6665 days ago

17 September 2006 (F)

- Most of people I know are guys, It's difficult for me to get a potential boyfriend apart from this gang, I used to go out with a friend, girl, to try and see interesting blokes but know she's got health problems and the other girls I know are not really close to me at this ... (184 words)

She likes me more than I like her... And she's like Jekyll and Hyde!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6670 days ago

17 September 2006 (F)

- Well last night i went to this gig. My gf went abit weird had some kind of weird turn where she kept crying and stuff. (partly alcohol's fault even though she had the tinest amount) One minute she was laughing the next screaming and shouting. I tried to help at first but when ... (151 words)

She's going to Uni and I feel like I'm loosing her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6670 days ago

17 September 2006 (M) - My girlfriend and i have been seeing eachother for just over a month and a half now. she is all i eva wanted in a girl. we have been close for a couple of years but nuthin has happened til now. she is shortly going away to university in leicester for another 3 years. i really ... (125 words)

My boyfriend thinks he's ugly!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6670 days ago

17 September 2006 (F) - erm hi, ive posted before but anonymously. This is kinda confusing so ill try explain it as simply as I can. I have this friend and i think i lke him as more than just a friend.Thing is we both have really low self confidenses. Anyway he went through a bad patch the ot... (209 words)

Should she stay with a man she doesn't love, to keep her young daughter happy or is she better making a break now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6667 days ago

17 September 2006 (M) - Hi there, A few months ago I left my wife to live with a girl I met at work, we have known each other for 2 years and always got on really well, she left her husband because he would not let her go out with her friends and kept her in his sight all the time. I left my wife ... (230 words)

I want to give him something showing my appreciation for his support. What do I send him??

No replies yet: Be the first to answer!

17 September 2006 (F)

- I'm about to move away to a new job and a new area that's not an easy travelling distance from where I am now. I've been planning this for the last couple of years but in the last 9 months of so I've had the (platonic) support of an amazing guy who has been a sounding board a... (142 words)

My last gf put me off dating! How do I get back into it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6670 days ago

17 September 2006 (M) - I'm 37, single, i've tried a singles site in the past but could never get the hang of it! My last g/friend went a bit nutty and put me off dating for a while, now i can't seem to get back into the swing of things, any advice on how to get started again? All my friends are ... (66 words)

I ejaculate too quickly, what can I do to prevent this from happening?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6670 days ago

17 September 2006 (M) - this is kind of hard for me to talk about, so i will remain Anonymous...but when i have sex, i tend to blow my load pretty soon, what kind of things can i do to prevent this from happening, so that i last longer in the bedroom..i want to make it equally enjoyable for my ... (56 words)

I'm worried that I have too much body hair, what should I do? Shave?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6670 days ago

17 September 2006 (F) - This could seem a strange question but its worrying me,i do have quite alot of body hair,and im worried that when i come to do anything with a lad,he won't like it cos id maybe be hairy down there,is it best to shave?please help?!?... (44 words)

My boyfriend has COMPLETELY changed since I fell pregnant, advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6670 days ago

17 September 2006 (F) - Ok so my boyfriend and I have been together 2 years. About 6 months ago we started talking about how we would like to have kids together. Well we were shooting around September just happend earlier, now i'm about 3 months pregnant and he has completely changed. He doesn't ... (327 words)

It is because he's a virgin or is it just "friend" love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6670 days ago

17 September 2006 (F) - My new BF does not get turned on by me: I met my current BF online and after a year of constant communication and online video conversation, I went overseas to visit him. We spent a few days getting comfortable with each other but when it was time to make love - he could... (159 words)

Why did we break up ? What the hell is going on??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6669 days ago

17 September 2006 (M) - ok well i'm back for more great advice!!! ok my girlfriend text me the otherday and asked me if i was going to homecoming, i am a shy kinda guy and i hate going to school events so i said that i was not sure, she replyed saying "ok, there is a guy who asked me ifi would go with ... (494 words)

Comfortable as friends with girls but too scared to ask one out!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6670 days ago

17 September 2006 (M) - i have alot of friends that are girls but no girlfriends i like this one girl i am not sure if she sees me as just a friend or as more than one even if she does like me i dont know how to go about askin a girl out my last girlfriend aske me out i have a fear of rejection but i ... (73 words)

Things are going wrong between us young lovers... do you think she will want to stay with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6660 days ago

17 September 2006 (M) - I have had a real hard time with my girlfriend for the past couple weeks. We've been dating for 2 years now, and I think this all started though because she started hanging around her friend more who likes rap music, goes to parties, and is independant because she isnt "held ... (565 words)

After a few weeks my boyfriend has turned POSSESSIVE!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6670 days ago

17 September 2006 (F) - i have boyfriend trouble theres this guy i have being going out with for a few weeks now and alll of a sudden he has become very possesive and phoning me every 10 minutes what should i do i dont want to loose him or carry on with the phone calls that i get every 10 minutes... (61 words)

6 years with this crush... What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6625 days ago

17 September 2006 (F) - when i was 15 i developed a crush on my high school teacher/coach. i'm now 21, out of high school, and still can't stop thinking about him. i've kept in touch with him this whole time, and he has constantly been sending me mixed signals (which is why i'm still not over i... (242 words)

He never makes me feel like I am worth it but I can't seem to let him go! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6671 days ago

17 September 2006 (F) - Hello i need help, my bf and i have been goin out for a while and he just doesnt seem bothered about me. But when i think about us braking up i get really upset and heartbroken. He just neva sees me anymore, theres no way of getting in contact with him because he never has a ... (151 words)