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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Someone is lying. How can I find out who it is?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6673 days ago

14 September 2006 (M) - Hi all. Me and my gf of 2 years split up about 3 months ago. I dumped her, but very quickly realised my mistake. However, she didn't take me back, although she didn't say it was over - she simply said (quite understandably) that she was confused, upset, and needed time and ... (657 words)

Should I tell him I like him or just sit it out???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6638 days ago

14 September 2006 (F) - I really like this boy, we get quite close and share alot of stuff, but I have low confidense because I'm not exactly pretty, far from it and last time I told a boy that I fancied him he let me down and started dating one of my best friends and I dont want to get the same ... (79 words)

I'm thinking of a Brazilian wax will my boyfriend like this???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6672 days ago

14 September 2006 (F) - I am considering getting a brazilian wax. Is this a good idea? Will my bf like this? I would like to get some guy opinions on the subject please?... (32 words)

I stayed for the kids now I must leave for the kids...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6627 days ago

14 September 2006 (F) - i have been in a rocky relationship for 6 years.im 36 with 3 boys. my partner is the father of the younger 2. recently i have totally gone off sex and realise i dont fancy my partner. he is very over weight and a couch potatoe where as i love excercise and keep myself well. i ... (211 words)

Can I "re-teach" someone how to treat others?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6671 days ago

14 September 2006 (F) - Is it possible to reteach people how to treat you? I come from a nice enough family but it seems that my brother and sister treat me the way they did when we were kids....not the way I am now. Both my brother and sister had affairs and lost their spouses and both are really ... (225 words)

I told him I like him and he said "I don't know what to say"...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6670 days ago

14 September 2006 (F) - ok, about juneish, I sent a mate of mine a text. I basically told him I liked him.. alot. He texted back and said *I don't know what to say* This quite upset me. We are always hugging when we see each other in the corridors in school, and we talk alot. After that we had a 2 ... (123 words)

How can I overcome my lack of trust in men?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6673 days ago

14 September 2006 (F) - hi everyone,im a single parents of my 2 children and they are living with my parents since i am working abroad to get money to support them.my children is growing up without me but we have a good communication by phone and emails,i think im still young and i look not bad' i ... (208 words)

I want to call my friend but his sister was nasty to me...

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14 September 2006 (F) - I have this really good guy friend that I like to hang around and communicate with. Three days ago, I tried to call his house, but I got stuck talking to his mean sister. She cussed at me and threatened to beat me up, in fact I really wanted to call the police and report her. I ... (81 words)

We split and now he has someone new and I want him back...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6673 days ago

14 September 2006 (F) - hi i am 16 and I split up with my bf a month ago, i went out wiv him for 4 months but now he has got someone new, he is happy with her but this leaves me still wanting him. Everytime i see him i want him back and i think how stupid i was to let it end, it is hurting me so so ... (84 words)

He won't commit to us because I'm an American....

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6673 days ago

14 September 2006 (F) - Hi. I am absolutely crushed right now and needing advice. The guy I am in love with says we cannot be together, even though he apparently "loves" me. Why? Because I'm an American. He's living in the UK, specifically England, and he has told me that although I'm cu... (268 words)

His ex called him on his birthday and now I don't want to talk to him...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6668 days ago

14 September 2006 (F) - Hi there. My bf just had his 25th birthday and the both of us went out with his family and friends to a restaraunt and we were having a great time up until the end of the evening when one of his exes called to say happy birthday to him. I didn't know who had called him and ... (478 words)

Should I pursue her or let her go???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6673 days ago

14 September 2006 (M) - My girlfriend told me that her feelings have changed and she never wants to see me? Should i pursue more or let it go?... (24 words)

If porn is desensitizing to men is the flip side, true? My gf prefers her vibrator to me!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6569 days ago

14 September 2006 (M) - Dear Malyce (agony aunt) and yes it is a nice name I have read some of your objections to men "jerking off to porn". It can be desentisizing, as you say. Tell me if the flip-side is true. Since my partner got herself a wand vibrator and another largish toy, my ability to stimu... (105 words)

Can I ask him "will there ever be more than friendship between us?"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6673 days ago

14 September 2006 (F) - hi guys, How do you know what is going on in a guys head, my god it is so confusing. I'm 20 and my now ex bf is 21, we were together for 2 years and he broke up with me a few weeks back, cuz he has alot of stuff going on that he couldn't handle and took it out on me. he ha... (362 words)

My gf wants to find my male G-spot by stimulating my prostate through my butt!! Is this safe??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6673 days ago

14 September 2006 (M) - Hi Guys My girlfriend says I am missing out. She insists there is such a thing as a male G-spot and is intent on finding it. The problem is, she says it involves stimulating my prostate via my bot! Help!!! Does anyone recommend this practice? ;)... (55 words)

I'm too embarrassed to ask her out...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6673 days ago

14 September 2006 (M) - Hi i am nearly 14 years old and i really like this girl in my school. the problem is she's 15. but i am to embarresed to ask her out! please help me... (35 words)

Is he after one thing or does he really like me???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6673 days ago

14 September 2006 (F) - theres this guy and i like him. but on wednesday he kissed me but i think it went too fast, i dont want to hurt his feelings by turning him down if he asks me out. but im not sure if i want to say yes. please give me some advice, im new to the dating world. i realy like this ... (76 words)

I have panic disorder and I'm afraid I will never have a relationship...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6673 days ago

14 September 2006 (F) - I have panic disorder, and whenever I meet guys I can't handle it. About two months ago I moved to Florida and lived in a condo with a drug addict who tried to steal the car keys from me, but I locked myself in my bedroom for two hours trying to get him to go away. He was ... (271 words)

Does he really like me???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6673 days ago

14 September 2006 (F) - Hi need some people's views on this one. Ok where to start off, I'm 17 and went to a concert last week. I instantly hit it off with one of the guys in the band , I shall call him A. A and I got talking all night and had some really good converstation. When his band was onstage,... (457 words)

He has letters that say "wife" and "ex-wife" but he says he has never been married...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6673 days ago

14 September 2006 (F) - i found two letters belongin to my boyfriend of one year sayin ex wife and wife he says hes never been married what is going on here should i confront him or leave it alone?... (35 words)

He has e-mails from other girls and says its the past but the date is recent...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6673 days ago

14 September 2006 (F) - hi i been with my boyfriend for a year now i met him in a different provence so i dont know any of his friends one night he left his bag at my house and i found a love email letter in it dating back just a few days before so i was up set when i confronted him about it he said ... (247 words)

Is he just making excuses???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6673 days ago

14 September 2006 (F)

- I want my boyfriend of 5 years to live with me and my 2 children but he is reluctant to move in with me because he said it would be unfair on the kids.Trouble is,he knew when he met me that i had children and i would of thought after 5 years he would want to take our ... (71 words)

How can I tell if I'm pregnant without the test???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5803 days ago

14 September 2006 (F) - how can i tell if i am pregnant without taking the test?... (12 words)

What can I say as a good turn on???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6673 days ago

14 September 2006 (F) - what can i say as a good turn on to him?... (11 words)

Why don't I have a boyfriend???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6656 days ago

14 September 2006 (F) - hi ive had boyfriends before but bot very serious and i havent had one in nearly a year most of my friends have got boyfriends. im not an ugly girl i might not be the prettiest out of evry 1 but even my mates who most lads think arent nice have boyfriends. i can flirt i have a ... (78 words)

Is my wife's friendship crossing the line???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6670 days ago

14 September 2006 (M) - Is my wife's friendship crossing the line? My wife and I have been married for 7 years. She has a male friend and they have been friends since childhood. When he was in high school he had several girlfriends and was heterosexual then. During college it became known tha... (467 words)

We've talked on the phone for 18 months...but he doesn't want to me me! What's wrong?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6669 days ago

14 September 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I have talked on the phone for 18 months;he says he loves me but doesn't want to meet?... (21 words)

After 36 years together, my bf's parent's split up. Now my bf seems uninterested in marriage at all! Any thoughts on this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6673 days ago

14 September 2006 (F)

- I've been with my boyfriend over a year and a half, he's 36 and I'm 25, we already own a house together and I want us to get married one day. But his parents split up this year on my birthday after 36 years of marriage and he doesn't seem to interested. Is there anything you ... (58 words)

We have broken up before, but this time im worried we wont get back together!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6673 days ago

14 September 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and i have recently split up ( 2 weeks ago) we grew up together since we were 7 ( our families are close ) we r both now 21, and we have split up before but always come back to each other, but this time im scared iv lost him forever, and im not giving him up i know ... (210 words)

Things were going great, he then said he had started to fall and has since been distant!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6673 days ago

14 September 2006 (F) - Hi, I really hope some of you guys can give me pointers on this. I met a great guy a couple of months ago, we spent loads of time together and became very close very quickly. We still kept our independence, however, but really enjoyed the time we spent together (including the ... (354 words)

How do I stop a leaky penis..it's a bit embarrassing! Any tips?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

14 September 2006 (M) - Hi, I have 2 questions both about my sex organ, yes, the male penis :O Im 19 and so is my girlfriend, im a virgin, though shes not. The first problem is i get a little wet down below when we have a little fun, im not prematurley ejaculatig, just seem to be 'leaking' a bit ... (146 words)

We had a couple of dates and he was always responsive, but after our last date he hasnt contacted me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6673 days ago

14 September 2006 (F) - Hello, I have been on a couple of dates with a guy and really like him. However after our last date which was only last night he hasn't sent me a text. I have sent him one and had no response. He is usually quite responsive and keen. We had a great night and he was telli... (156 words)

He says he wants to love me, but doesnt know how to!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6673 days ago

14 September 2006 (F) - I love my boyfriend very much. we live in neighbouring countries. we have been dating for 4 months now. I have made some mistakes while with him and we have talked about it and we decided to move on.The problem now is everytime we are chatting he has to always bring up a topic ... (156 words)

He refuses to sleep in our bed, and doesnt come near me anymore, is he just playing me ?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6673 days ago

14 September 2006 (F) - I have been single for nearly four years. i met a man with two children one adult and one 17. i get along with the kids very well. Actually the 17 year old and i have bonded so much that my boyfriend makes comments such as, what they think you're thier mom?? The problem is... (427 words)

Im concerned as to what this substance was, any ideas ??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6673 days ago

14 September 2006 (F)

- Hi just a curious qn. Several months ago my bf and i were trying to have sex, he was pushing quite hard against me to get it inside but it hurt so i gave up. However that is not the reason im writing this, just wanted to give a brief desc. Roughly 30 mins after i noticed a big ... (108 words)

His ex will not leave us alone, its really upsetting me, all I want to do his make him happy!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6672 days ago

14 September 2006 (F) - Please help me, I am 22 years old and am seeing a man that is 8 years my senior. He has four kids and an ex that just wont leave us alone. I have to put up with her constant threats and this is really getting me down. But most of all whats really troubling me is my relatio... (232 words)

He doesnt think that the communication between him and his stepmum is any of my business, I do!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6673 days ago

14 September 2006 (F) - stepmother amd stepson she is 58 he is 51 she recently moved to another state,she e-mails,sends letters in the mail and calls him all the time,everything is very secretive between them.He says it is none of my bussiness.I think it is.... (41 words)

Im scared he will get swayed by all the girls in the internet Chatrooms!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6673 days ago

14 September 2006 (F) - Hi, I have been with my Bf for 3 years. Just lately im starting to feel very insecure, I shouldnt as we are very much in love but im scared... My Bf is a very sort of social type person and will have a laugh and chat and always go out of his way to help someone, no matter ... (656 words)

We have been off on, off on, for a while now, I dont want to push her, so should I give her the space ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6674 days ago

14 September 2006 (M) - In feb of '04 I met the most amazing girl. I never believed in love at first sight but the moment I saw her I was drawn to her like I had never been to anyone else before. We had the story book relationship for a while. Everything was wonderful and I did all the sweet things I ... (864 words)

Together 6 years, broke up, I miss him, and thought of not being friends is killing me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6674 days ago

14 September 2006 (F) - Never having felt this low before, and emotionally a state. Ive finished a 6yr relationship with a guy who loves me more than the world, told me and showed me regularly, although it was a very volitile relationship and always has been, i do not like being told what to do and ... (154 words)

Does my boyfriends best friend have a crush on me ??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6670 days ago

14 September 2006 (F) - Warning: long, drawn out question(s)! I'm in kind of a funny situation right now... My boyfriend has moved away for a short period. His best friend just moved back to town.. When we all lived in the same state, we'd all hang out together, go shopping, party hopping or just sit... (415 words)

I already told him I was falling for him, we went out last night and hes totally distant!! What can I do ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6673 days ago

14 September 2006 (F) - Hi there, Im 31 years of age and in love with my best male mate. Thing is im really scared I have screwed things up with him. Nearly two weeks ago I told him I was falling in love with him, but he made no comment as to what he thought to me telling him this apart from it ... (206 words)

The only other girl I loved, doesnt want me, what can I do ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6674 days ago

14 September 2006 (M) - i am an 18 yr old lad i only loved 2 people in my life. And I have a real problem, one has sadly passed away, and the other, I have loved for over two years. I am in the army and I think about her through the mud and the cr*p but she doesnt want me. What should i do... (64 words)

Im 27, shes 19, would it be inappropriate to date her ?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6613 days ago

14 September 2006 (M) - Hi, um, first time here. I'm 27 and I've fallen for my 19 year old friend. She's wonderful and I think the feelings are reciprocated. But I've not made a move because I'm worried she'll think I'm too old. I've known her since she was 16 and I was 24. Nothing ever went on b... (168 words)

All he said when I told him I loved him was "awww Babes" nothing else!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6674 days ago

14 September 2006 (F)

- I told the person I've loved for two years how I felt today. I've known him longer than I've known any other man: we've always been close and flirted. Today, we both stripped and saw each other naked- the height of our flirting. It's apparent he cares about me. He calls me... (202 words)

Do you think that he's wants to break up with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6674 days ago

14 September 2006 (F) - hey! ya well my boyfriend and i have been dating for around 6 months now and i'm ready to move up in our relationship if you know wut i mean and i went to his house and he was laying on me while i was kissing him and we were going at it and he pulls away and i asked"What's ... (94 words)

My bf thinks other women are more beautiful than me. Should I hold out for a guy who thinks I am the most beautiful in his eyes?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6674 days ago

14 September 2006 (F) - Should I hold out for a man who feels I am the most beautiful woman in the world to him? My bf and me have been together 6 years. My best friend has also been with her bf 4 years. he is always telling her she is the most beautiful woman in the world to him. I really believe he ... (250 words)

I'm not even 100% sure if he's cheating on me but is lying a big enough reason to break up with him??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6674 days ago

14 September 2006 (F) - My boyfriend is in his first year of college and im a senior in highschool. we both agreed that we were not going to have an open relationship. Well, awhile ago he had given me his password and when i went on his myspace one time without permission, i had found messages to ... (311 words)