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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is he shy, is he gay or just given up on the relationship front?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6649 days ago

6 September 2006 (F) - There's this bloke I really fancy. Seems to know everything about music, and everything else, but talks to me as if I've a brain in my head, he's sweet and the least sexist bloke I've ever met. I've dropped alsorts of hints and I'm sure he fancies me the amount of attent... (203 words)

I can't focus on my studies because I am thinking of him way too much! How do I get over this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6649 days ago

6 September 2006 (F)

- Hey everybody. Thanks to all your amazing help I got together with the guy I kept going on about, who i liked for way too long! We started off really well. We had a happy month and a half but then everything started to go downhill. The summer holidays came up and as we live ... (316 words)

Why is she saying all this stuff when she has a bf?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6649 days ago

6 September 2006 (M) - erm........stuck in between a rock and a hard place again lol got bk of me hol and i was on msn and a girl i have liked was on 2 she said since she has been away she has missd talkin 2 me and that she is sorry 4 all that bad stuff that she said b4 i went on me hol and that she... (380 words)

She asked me who is the prettiest of her friends and I told her. Now I am regretting it!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6649 days ago

6 September 2006 (M) - i was in bed with my girlfriend about 2 months ago, she was asking me lots of questions about her female friends, who is prettiest e.t.c bar a couple of questions i could only answer with 1 girl's name as she wouldnt let me just pick her the whole time i had to choose 1 of her ... (145 words)

Got caught cheating online..how do I regain my gf's trust?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6649 days ago

6 September 2006 (M) - How do I gain trust back when I have been caught cheating online with females but no sexual activities? I have to get my girlfriend back, please help!... (28 words)

Need advice about the art of sex! Any help is appreciated!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6650 days ago

6 September 2006 (M) - hey folks, i'm 17 years old male and never had sex and was just want to know a couple of things. 1- when i go to have sex will i know when my penis is in and when to start thrusting 2- should i feel some sort of pleasure from the start or at least feel my foreskin stretc... (78 words)

He's 45---should I find someone closer to my own age?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6650 days ago

6 September 2006 (F) - Hi there I would really appreciate it if anyone could give me their thoughts on my predicament.... I am coming up to 28 and have been chatting to a man for a short while via the internet and phone.He will be 45 in 3 weeks time. We get on so well and spend ages chatting on the p... (334 words)

I've been hurt so I push away every guy who shows an interest. Why am I doing this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6645 days ago

6 September 2006 (F) - dear cupid or assoiates of this so called icon of love, ill make this short and quick to the point, unemotional if possible, im 16. i push every guy thats ever liked me away, why? (trust me its not compassion. also ive been hurt in the past by a guy. and i feel now as if unabl... (136 words)

After I masturbate..I get horrible cramps in my abdomen and thighs. Why is this happening?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6649 days ago

6 September 2006 (F) - Ok, I'm sorry if this seems like a dirty or stupid question. In the last month or so, everytime I masturbate, I get horrible cramps in my thighs and abdomen (same places that I get menstrual cramps), I feel sick to my stomach, my hands shake and I get really hot, sweaty, and ... (106 words)

My gf cannot orgasm. What can I do to get her off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6649 days ago

6 September 2006 (M) - My girlfriend can not orgasm! I can't do it eating, can't do it having sex, can't do it fingering or anything. She does not like to touch herself either. She said that she has only orgasmed two times and she is almost 23. What can I do to get her off, being that I feel it is ... (130 words)

Not interested in being friends with them, how can I get them to back off without hurting their feelings ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6650 days ago

6 September 2006 (F) - There is this 48 year-old woman who tries to get too invloved in my life. She acts like she wants to adopt me and treat me like a baby, and I am 20 years old, old enough to live on my own. I understand that she is only trying to be nice, but I don't want to hang around her or ... (123 words)

Should I go on the pill whilst single or wait until I'm in a relationship ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6649 days ago

6 September 2006 (F) - i have just split from my boyfriend and wished i was on the pill when i was with him, but never got around to doing it! now i am single i am thinking about going on the pill ready for the next relationship! i was just wandering if it would be a good idea to go on it whilst i am ... (70 words)

My ex gave me Genital Herpes, worried that I will now never have a boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6159 days ago

6 September 2006 (F) - Hey, this is a really embarrassing question but my ex boyfriend gave me the genital herpes virus (i know its my fault as well) and now i'm terrified that i'l never be able to have a boyfriend again because of it! i don't want to pass it on to anyone else i feel like its ruined ... (73 words)

How can I convince her she can trust me ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6649 days ago

6 September 2006 (M) - How do i deal with a breakup? i have been broke up with and broken up with but none have ever hurt so bad and been able to stop thinking about then this one. i love this girl more then anything and want to get back with her. how can i covince her that she can trust me again ... (71 words)

At 16 yrs old..I'm in love with a guy 10 years older! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6649 days ago

6 September 2006 (F) - Im 16, completely in love with a guy ten years older then me, we meerly discused this and both brushed it off but i cant him of my damn mind. we are great friends but when he gets a girlfriend or even has a female complimenting him i get pissed off. cant get him off my mind. ... (207 words)

I finally got with Pete! Problem is I've never had a boyfriend before, so dont know how to make us an adorable couple!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6648 days ago

6 September 2006 (F)

- Ok so my new boyfriend pete that i had a crush on for 5 years and i finally got him =D. But ive never had a boyfriend before i dont really know what to do thats sweet, and something he will love me for and most of my friends do really cute things for theie boyfriends and it s... (120 words)

Feel like hes ashamed of me, should I be worried or am over reacting ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6650 days ago

6 September 2006 (F) - recently my boyfriend doesnt seem to want to go out anywhere with me. we live together. we spend time together inside the house, but hardly ever go out. if i ask him to go to the pub then he will make an excuse not to go but will go with his friend. im just starting to feel ... (75 words)

I really love him.. but am scare to tell him in case he doesnt take it seriously

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6650 days ago

6 September 2006 (F)

- hiya well my life is really wiered at the min because im really in love with this guy and he just thinks i like him but i would not be askin this if i just fancied him i truley love him hes been the onmly thing ive thought about for the last 8 months but is it all worth it ... (170 words)

Will the longing for a babt fade in time, or can I possibly convince him to have babies ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6649 days ago

6 September 2006 (F)

- Hello – I am having a hard time with my husband not wanting to have a baby with me. At first, I didn’t want kids (I’ve never wanted kids before the past 1+ years that I’ve had these feelings), but after being with my husband my feelings have taken a complete 180. I’ve looked ... (835 words)

I love him, but Im not "in Love" what can I do without hurting him ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6637 days ago

6 September 2006 (F) - I have been with my fiance for 6 and half years and recently I have started to doubt my feelings towards him. We have lived together for two years and are due to get married next May and I am terrified at the thought. We have not had sex for nine months as I don't feel like it ... (100 words)

His family control him, why won't they let him have a normal relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6650 days ago

6 September 2006 (F) - I have been dating an older man for almost 2 yrs. i am older too. we are both widowed and his family as he has said it--- is trying to protect his freedom. they are against me and they do not want him to have anyone but to be available to do for them whatever they need for ... (176 words)

Is it normal to use wax on your armpits ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6650 days ago

6 September 2006 (F)

- hiya im becky i was just wonderin is it normal to wax on ure arm pits because even wen i shave them they are still really hairy ? plz help xx... (31 words)

I dont like where she wants to live, and she doesnt like living here.. what to do ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6650 days ago

6 September 2006 (M) - I am engaged to be married next April. Her and I moved back to my home 4 months ago, now she wants to move back to her home, but I hate it there and she said she hates it here. What to do?... (43 words)

He has lost interest in sex, and blames me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6649 days ago

6 September 2006 (M) - I have been in an almost 7 year relationship. We have been through a lot this last year from September 2005 to now having moved twice. We met in NYC where neither of us had any real friends since we were both new to that city. Then we moved to a small town in the south and ... (356 words)

Sex in the shower... Any tips ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6650 days ago

6 September 2006 (F) - I've heard making love in the shower is a very romantic thing to do. I've tried it with my boyfriend and I don't know what I'm doing wrong, but I don't find it enjoying. I don't like the idea of water in my eye and we can never get into a position that is comfortable. Is it ... (69 words)

I want to be mates with him like before we went out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6650 days ago

6 September 2006 (F)

- my boyfriend dumped me a while ago , and on msn and when emailing him it seems like were still really good friends but at school he wont talk to me ... it sucks because i would love to be mates with him like we were before we went out . ... (51 words)

Is there really a chance this long distance relationship could pan out ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6649 days ago

6 September 2006 (F) - I'm only 16 and i met this boy around 3 months ago. I'd just started hanging around with these people and one day at this barbecue an extra person was there. He wasn't great in attraction but after he spoke to me for over 5 hours, both us and everyone else knew that we lik... (156 words)

Any ideas for cyber sex!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6154 days ago

6 September 2006 (F)

- der cupid, i have very unusuall problem. i have had a long distance internet realtionship for about 2 months now (we have never met)and i would like some fresh ideas for me and bf to try wiv cyber sex stories, we have done all the basics but they don't get me horny anymore can ... (65 words)

Im hesistant to have sex as hes a big guy, how can I bring up this topic ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6650 days ago

6 September 2006 (F) - I have been seeing this guy for a little over a year now. We have talked about sex and different precautions, but I am still hesitant because I am a virgin and he is not a small guy(6'4" and everything is proportional). How do I bring up the topic that I am more scared then ... (97 words)

Im tired of always being the one to help out, wish someone would help me, whats the best way out ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6650 days ago

6 September 2006 (M) - Hi, I am typically a very positive person but I am tired of helping others:-) Not that I dislike it, but sometimes I also feel that someone should be helping me out. Do I stop helping friends and listening to them. There have been times when I feel I should share with someone ... (70 words)

Do you think my Ex might still love me ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6650 days ago

6 September 2006 (F)

- At school i keep catching my exboyfriend gazing at me , but i only notice him doing it because i daze at him to . do you think he might still love me ? ... (34 words)

I got together with the guy I had the affair with, it seems hes not as comitted.. does he love me ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6649 days ago

6 September 2006 (F) - 5 years ago I fell in love with someone and we had an affair for over 2 years and then left our partners, our partners never found out that we had an an affair. We then dated for about a year and then moved in together. Now he says he doesn't know if he ever wants to marry me ... (91 words)

Struggling with our long distance relationship, I feel hes being unreasonable!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6650 days ago

6 September 2006 (F) - Hello guys... I have just had a huge row with my boyfriend. We have a long distance relationship, and generally see each other every other week. Occasionally we dont, if one of us has a family thing or something which we cant miss and the other cannot come to. On thi... (258 words)

I have a bit of a problem with my penis, Im worried it will cause probs in my relationship...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6643 days ago

6 September 2006 (M) - This is quite embarrassing for me. But i'm getting increasingly worried and anxious about it. I'm 16, I have been going out with my girlfriend for 11months nearly. Our relationship is great, and things are great as they are, but we have yet to engage in any sexual activity, and ... (160 words)

My obsessive bf, dumped me, but he says he just wants me to take a step back!? What should I do ?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6646 days ago

6 September 2006 (F) - My bf who used to obssess about me dumped me after 10 months, how do I get over him? He was the perfect bf, never cheated, always loyal. And he is so hot, he had to turn down a lot of girls. But when we went to college he suddenly changed, he asked for space because he's hav... (161 words)

Should I just ask him out!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6650 days ago

6 September 2006 (F)

- hey i have already asked this question but i only got one answer and i was wondering if some more ppl cus answer too Well there is a guy that i get on the bus with to college. he talks to me everyday and he gave me his number, i am 17 but i dont know his age i think he is ro... (134 words)

My bf doesnt like feeling excluded, but I really want this weekend with the girls, its going to cause a huge rift.. how do I approach this ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6650 days ago

6 September 2006 (F) - I am in a long term relationship (8+years) with my fiance. We have a sore spot in our relationship - my girlfriends. We don't meet often because of distance and careers (maybe 3-4 times a year for dinner) but he gets very upset he is not included. I explain it's just girl ... (138 words)

We want a FUN evening date!! - any ideas?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6648 days ago

6 September 2006 (F) - Does anyone have any exciting date ideas? Something that will make us both laugh together and be lots of fun? We want to do something exciting Friday night, but i just cant think of anything to do in the evening that fits the bill. I can think of loads of daytime activiti... (114 words)

My husband has been ringing a sex line!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6650 days ago

6 September 2006 (F) - I noticed on my itemised phone bill that there was a premium rate telephone number thathad been been dialed many times. I rang it to discover that it is a sex line. I have no children so it can only be my husband. How do I handle this? My husband is working away at the ... (91 words)

Can someone try and help sort through this mess in my head.. Im scared of making the wrong choice with the wrong guy!! (very long)

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6649 days ago

6 September 2006 (F) - Hi, First of all I am just warning you that this could possibly be the longest letter you have ever received but I wanted to tell you every little thing so you have the perfect picture. I was hoping you could help me make a decision as I can't seem to figure what I re... (1709 words)

My man of 3 months told me to have sex with another guy.. I dont get it why doesnt he want sex with me!?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

6 September 2006 (F) - Hi, I'm a 19-year-old girl and I've been with my boyfriend for 3 months. We haven't had it for a while now - and said to me "have sex with another guy, but not me...." I don't know why he doesn't want it, he refuses to discuss it with me despite my best efforts to discu... (127 words)

Worried about my sons odd diet!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6650 days ago

6 September 2006 (F) - Hi there Apologies if this seems weird or odd, but it's a problem which I can't seem to find much advice for. My 14-year-old son is having an odd diet; he ate spaghetti, ice-cream and mashed potato in one meal washed down with Coca-Cola. Then he ate mint ice-cream, orange a... (83 words)

He hurt me and now what we have is a shadow of what we had before!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6649 days ago

6 September 2006 (F) - I was hurt by my boyfriend, I understand how it happened, he understand why I was hurt. It was unfortunate. He's sorry about it. Problem is I don't feel as much for him as I did. Don't get me wrong I still love him, need him and care about him. It's just like most of the ... (181 words)

How do I make amends with her family??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6650 days ago

6 September 2006 (M) - My Mexican gf of 3+ years recently visited my home country here in Ireland and despite the exquisite trust that her parents had put in here and me, we had sex (once very, very briefly with no protection and then several times with a condom). To those that don't know. Mexicans... (251 words)

How do you compliment guys, looks-wise?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6650 days ago

6 September 2006 (F) - This is going to sound like such a stupid question, oy. How are you supposed to compliment guys, as far as looks go? When a guy says you are beautiful or gorgeous, what do you say back besides "Oh, thanks." ? I always feel stupid saying "Thanks, you're hot." or "You're... (81 words)

Sex and cigarettes...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6649 days ago

6 September 2006 (M)

- Does smoking cigarettes decrease a person's sex drive? Also if a person were to stop smoking would their sex drive improve or would soon after, take time, or have been forever decreased? Thanks.... (33 words)

Holiday fling to long distance friendship to love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6650 days ago

6 September 2006 (F) - Hi, I'm in sort of a sucky situation. I met a guy on vacation two years ago and we hit it off very well. So well in fact that he gave me his e-mail address and we've been chatting ever since. So next summer I'll be seeing him a lot (on vacations) and since I've develo... (200 words)

Is a 7-year age gap too much?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

6 September 2006 (F) - Hi all, I was wondering whether you thought a 7 year age gap is a big deal or not? (If both are of legal age). We were born in the same decade, just 7 years apart. Everyone says that the age gap will cause problems, and so far I haven't encountered any. I was just wond... (83 words)

I missed a few pills and now I'm 11 days late!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6650 days ago

6 September 2006 (F) - Hi i am 18 years old and i am 11 days late for my period but i took a pregnancy test after 8 days and it came up negative. I was on the pill last month but i missed a couple days and i didn't take at the same time every day. So i was wondering if i should take another one or go ... (77 words)

On a break with my current GF and I still love my ex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6649 days ago

6 September 2006 (M) - Hey guys, well i posted 1 before this and i just wanted some other opinions on what ppl in this situation have done. I'm on a break with my g/f of 2 1/2 years, but my ex who i have loved for 4 years wants me. What do i do?... (50 words)

Life is hard at the moment and I think I just ruined the best thing I have, on our 6 month anniversary!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6650 days ago

6 September 2006 (F)

- Dear Agony aunts, today was my 6th month anniversary with a guy i have been seeing. We had been best friends for years and had feelings for each other for just as long but only got together a while ago. I love him but i've been going through alot of hard stuff at home and scho... (181 words)

How do I make him understand I want to help him with his fetish??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6644 days ago

6 September 2006 (F) - I'm not sure if anyone here has experienced this situation but I figured it couldn't hurt to ask... I'm 22, my boyfriend of five years is 23. I found out last year that he has a panty fetish. I found two pairs which triggered a huge "Oh my gawd your cheatin on me!" fight. A... (592 words)

Too much fighting and now he wants to split!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6651 days ago

6 September 2006 (F) - I have had a crush for 8 years and now we are together and living with one another and we both love each other and dont want to leave one another, but we are arguing too much and fighting too much! We are both way to stressed and we need help. What can we do? He wants to split ... (80 words)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6650 days ago

6 September 2006 (F) - I am wondering what I am doing wrong around guys. I have a friend who is about the same level of attractiveness as myself and she has more success with guys. I feel like guys do not really like me and they treat me as if I was invisable. That being said there are a couple of ... (170 words)

How do you deal with gossips? Why do people gossip?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6119 days ago

6 September 2006 (F) - My question is why is it that some people gossip sooo much. I like the place I work but there are a group of people who spend a lot of the working day talking about this person and that person. Half the time the people they are talking about do not even know that they are being ... (137 words)

My best friend confessed her love for me (but wants to carry on in her current relationship)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6650 days ago

6 September 2006 (M) - one of my best friends, who's in a relationship, just admitted to me that she's in love with me. i asked her if she was sure about how she felt, and she said she was absolutely positive. but the catch is, she said she wants to see where her current relationship goes, and that ... (230 words)

Should I still persue her even though she has a boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6072 days ago

6 September 2006 (M) - Some time ago, I asked a girl who i fancied if she would like to go out sometime. She said sure and we swapped numbers. But she didn't call. It turns out that she has a boyfriend - and i'm guessing that she said 'sure' so she didn't hurt my feelings. But recently, I've b... (203 words)

Should I give up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6650 days ago

6 September 2006 (F)

- Im a teen and a boy who i really love ,my ex boyfriend he has said he still liked me and we kissed and i gave him head but he went out with another girl after it :( and while he was going out with her i did it again. And again when he wasn't with her and i asked him that day if ... (156 words)