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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Do I go to Russia to be with my gf or stay in America..close to my children?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6643 days ago

12 September 2006 (M) - I am 31 years old, married for 8 years with 2 children ages 3 and 1. I am in deeply in love with another woman, a brilliant, lovely, sweet woman from Russia living in America named "Elena". I have confessed all to her. She still wants to be with me. And I want to be with ... (262 words)

This guy and I have had past issues... so should I allow him in my life as more than a friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6642 days ago

12 September 2006 (F) - Ok so my best friend gave this guy my phone number and I've been talking to this guy on the phone since mid-April. I'm 17 and he's 19. He asked me out a month later after meeting me for the first time (I live a hour away from him). I said yes, but for some reason he told me to ... (260 words)

A question about age-gap relationships, in general. Opinions wanted.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6163 days ago

12 September 2006 (F) - Hi! I don't want to be annoying so I promise this is the last question I'll post about age gaps. I've noticed a common thread among responses on here when the younger person in the relationship is very young (late teens, like me). People say things like, "Just be careful... (302 words)

Should I be nosey about his past marriage or I should just leave it? I'm very curious though!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6642 days ago

12 September 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for a year. I'm 23 and he is 25. He has a history which I want to know but don't know if it's appropriate to ask. He had a kid when he was 18. He end up marrying the girl after the child was borned. I wanted to ask details about what ... (137 words)

How do I get rid of ingrown hair?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6643 days ago

12 September 2006 (F) - I was so worried about my body hair,i shaved.Now i have an ingrowing hair,well a hair that looks like its growing in a spot?is this an ingrowing hair?If so how do i get rid of it??Please help!... (37 words)

I feel guilty...Should I take her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6644 days ago

12 September 2006 (M)

- I got dumped a couple of months ago. It was like any end to any relationship not to get into details. I felt pretty crappy about the whole thing, i felt like i lost apart of me, and months after the offical dumping. The girl came up to me and told me she wanted me back. I ... (112 words)

He is unable to be emotionally on the level with me, because he's been hurt before... How can I get him to open up like he did with his ex's!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6643 days ago

12 September 2006 (F) - Hello! Here's my concern- My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 6 months. We temporarily live in separate cities (Philly and NYC) and both just graduated from college. We have an AWESOME relationship. However, my problem is that his other 2 girlfriends comp... (362 words)

I text her twice and she didn't reply...I'm nervous I will never see her again...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6643 days ago

12 September 2006 (M)

- This may take a while but I'll try my best to explain my story. The's this girl who I really like and i used to go to school with. she is still there as she's in the year below. She's really friendly and sweet but, she's also really shy. I asked her out but she said she wasn... (179 words)

Should I tell them about eachother???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6644 days ago

12 September 2006 (F) - I split up with this bloke, ian about 2 months ago, he is married but only because of his kid and i know that he has slept on the sofa for 3 years now (he told me this when we were good mates before we got together).Then a couple of weeks later i met steve, and we are together ... (104 words)

Could I be bi and if so my friends won't accept me....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6642 days ago

12 September 2006 (F) - I've been thinking for a while now about the posiblility that i'm bisexual. I know im not gay cos im attracted to guys. But, my mate had a house party a few nights ago and we all got really drunk. We were all laughing and carrying on when my mate stood up and gave me a hug. I ... (94 words)

Seperated and she is partying and its painful to think what she is doing...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6644 days ago

12 September 2006 (M) - My wife and I have been seperated (not legally) for about three months. The problems that caused this are long standing issues or responsibility and emotional distance. I am currently in counseling but she has not started yet. We have not made a decision on our future yet but ... (173 words)

Im 20 shes 14, is it legal to touch her up and kiss her ?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6573 days ago

12 September 2006 (M) - hiya i am 20 year old n me girl is 14 i was just wondering if legal to kiss me girl n touch her up im from the uk n need help to answer these questions i know im not allowed sexual intercourse but wondering if allowed any physical touching or kissing.... (52 words)

He out of the blue asked for a break, he feels tied down, what can I do ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6644 days ago

12 September 2006 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together now for 3 and a half years, im 20 he's 21. I thought everything was fine, then out of the blue he said that he wanted a break. he text me last night asking how i was, and said he feels tied down which is the reason for the break. I love ... (93 words)

How can you tell if your boyfriend is really in love???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6636 days ago

12 September 2006 (F) - How can you really tell that your boyfriend is actually "In love" with you, and not just strongly attached?... (19 words)

How can we tell her parents the "right way" that she is pregnant???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6643 days ago

12 September 2006 (M) - Hi.. my gf is now 6 weeks pregnant, her parents didnt even know i exist... we already want to tell them the situation to ease our burden and Im willing to accept the responsibility... Our problem is.... How to tell her parents? I mean the right way?? thank's in advance......... (51 words)

I am a 16 yr old female and I'm falling for my teache and its a female...Help!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6419 days ago

12 September 2006 (F) - Ok, so i have this huge problem, im a 16 yr old female going on to 17 in a month, and recently started college, so far im luvin it, especially 1 subject in particular, english lit!!! itz all down to a sexy teacher in there who i am absolutely fallin for.. but heres the worse ... (130 words)

Do boys like tall and slim or small and curvy girls???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6005 days ago

12 September 2006 (F) - hi im 15 and ALL my mates are really thin and im jelous of them! i am thin too but i also have a lot of curves. my mates dont have many curves and i want my body to be like theres. i'm slim and curvy and quite small :( but they are slim and tall! do boys like curvy small gi... (91 words)

How do I act around him now???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6644 days ago

12 September 2006 (F)

- i haven't been seeing my boyfriend for 9 months now because he cheated on me twice and we felt that when we got back the second time that things were just not working out so we parted and he started going out with this girl he cheated on me with. Well they moved in with eac... (567 words)

I'm 15 and I'm depressed...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6643 days ago

12 September 2006 (F) - hi im a 15 year old girl and sometimes i feel depressed and i duno y i personally think its just my hormones or is it sometinhg else? theres nothing upsetting me!... (32 words)

We want to celebrate or anniversary but he is 4 hours away...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6644 days ago

12 September 2006 (F) - Tomorrow will be the one year anniversary of when my boyfriend and I started dating. Both of us feel it's a day worth celebrating. However, we are in a distant relationship and he usually drives down and see me in the weekends only. We both think it kind of suck to celebrate an ... (119 words)

Is my teacher coming on to me???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6232 days ago

12 September 2006 (F) - This problem has been niggling at me for ages i really need to talk about it. There is this teacher at my school who is REALLY strict he never laughs or smiles and always tells people off except when hes around me. He always smiles (winks alot too), he tells me "i'm not mean ... (119 words)

After 6 months of no contact I called him but I don't want to hurt my new boyfriend...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6644 days ago

12 September 2006 (F) - I've posted questions about this guy before, but now I have yet another dilemma... I became friends with a neighbour who was very keen on me, although I held off for a long time. After 3 months of friendship, I'd grown to love him, and I do believe the feeling was mutu... (632 words)

He ignores me in front of his mates...Should I leave him???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6583 days ago

12 September 2006 (F)

- Hi, me and my boyfriend have only been dating 2 1/2 months i love him but he just ignores me infront of his mates it started not to long ago after he came bacck from malta with his parents i think he might of fallen out of love with me because were both in collegde and in class ... (119 words)

I'm 23 and my parents are chaining me down...Help!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6644 days ago

12 September 2006 (M) - Hi i have a problem and need some advice to feel better. I have 2 older siblings than me, and I'm 23, however I am "at the moment" more finacially stable then they are. I am the youngest, and am the only kid at home and i live at home because my folks dont want to le... (264 words)

I'm in love with a married woman...

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6576 days ago

12 September 2006 (M) - Hi every one, I have read a ton of posts on here looking for advice but I still need help. I am 22 years old and have fallen in love with a married woman. We got to know each other very well as friends for 2 and half years. This past summer we kissed and then things moved fr... (506 words)

He's acting weird what should I do???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6638 days ago

12 September 2006 (F) - there's this guy i really like but he's 3 years older than me. might not seem like much, but i'm only 13 and when we started going out his freinds started taking the piss and we split up. but then we got back together again, and then we split up again and the other day he came ... (138 words)

Why are guys afraid to date virgins???

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6644 days ago

12 September 2006 (F) - Why are guys afraid to date virgins? What's your view on this?... (12 words)

She cheated and now wants another child...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6644 days ago

12 September 2006 (M) - I met and dated my wife for 3 years before we married. Everything was wonderful. She had 2 children from a previous marriage who were very young (7 months 2 1/2 years) when I came into the picture and who I adore. We do joint custody with the kid's dad and everything has ... (305 words)

I left out part of my sexual past, now he is angry...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6579 days ago

12 September 2006 (F) - I have been married for almost twenty years to a wonderful man. We have two children. Before we were married we discussed our sexual past, telling each other we were completely honest. Well, I wasn't. I left out one person who I'd slept with twice. I only knew him socially, not ... (199 words)

She takes prozac but I don't want to give up on her...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6642 days ago

12 September 2006 (M) - does anybody have any experience of having a girlfreind who has/is taking prozac. how does this effect the relationship. The reason i am asking is that there is this young lady who i have been trying to get her to be my girlfreind at various times over the past sixteen years ... (102 words)

Why won't he just go away???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6644 days ago

12 September 2006 (F) - what can i do? my ex keeps finding ways to get in touch with me and when he does he makes me feel worthless, that he didn't fancy me for a long time when we were together which is why he went back with other girls, this makes me feel so low although i know he is just a nasty ... (140 words)

She played with my emotions twice and now she's angry when a I put my foot down...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6644 days ago

12 September 2006 (M) - i don't know what on earth to do right now. my "best friend" and i have been friends for a while now. but back a few months ago, she confessed her feelings for me and told me she wanted to be with me and leave her partner. we wound up hooking up, but she later went back to ... (337 words)

What Can I text him to turn him on ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6644 days ago

12 September 2006 (F) - what can i text him to turn him on??? ... (9 words)

How can I prove to her that I wont leave her, shes so jealous and insecure!!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6644 days ago

12 September 2006 (M)

- I have been engaged for a few months now and my fiancee's jealousy is becoming worse. I have never given her any reason to be suspicious of me, although I do speak to female friends on MSN. She knew my password and would sometimes go on my account and start talking to these gi... (419 words)

I cheated a while ago, now she has cheated, but shes always flirtng online, is this doomed ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6644 days ago

12 September 2006 (M) - PLIZ HELP...I've known my girlfriend for 3 years, we once broke up coz I was seeing another girl. But we got back together 1 1/2 years ago coz we still luved each other so much. but it has been a distance relationship. I vowed I would make it up to her and gain her trust again, ... (366 words)

I have dreams he is cheating...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6644 days ago

12 September 2006 (F)

- Hi I know this is going to sound strange but it is really bugging me. I have an amazing boyfriend and we love and trust eachother very much, but I keep having dreams that he cheats on me. I know he isnt as we are always together and I know I am the most important person in his ... (102 words)

I think he shows me love because he doesn't want to hurt me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6572 days ago

12 September 2006 (F) - my bf is always telling me that he love me and he will always love me.he is also showing it to me that he do love me.but i have my feeling doubt about it. i am so scared that sometime he is showing to me so much love and makes me feel that maybe he just doing that just not to ... (146 words)

Can a man be in love with his mistress and wife at the same time???

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6236 days ago

12 September 2006 (F)

- Can a man be in love with his mistress and his wife at the same time? But is torn between the two.... (22 words)

Could he have snogged another while he was away???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6644 days ago

12 September 2006 (F) - Hi there, This is a really silly problem but i cant get it out of my head. My boyfriend has just spent a weekend in New York with his best friend, who is single. I asked him whether his friend scored any women at all and he said yes, he did one night but it was just a ... (142 words)

My husband of 12 years told me he doesnt love me and moved out!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6644 days ago

12 September 2006 (F) - my husband of twelve years has told me out of the blue he no longer loves me like a husband should and he does not know why this is.we have our own buisness which is in trouble finacially which is now affecting home finances he has moved into a friends house so he has time to ... (96 words)

Is he flirting with me, and if so how can I tell him I like him too ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6644 days ago

12 September 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, Im confused about a certain man in my life.I need to know whether Im not confused about the messages he's sending out. He's always staring into my eyes for quite a while without looking away. He shows me sex jokes on his phone. He grabs my arm and tells me we ... (160 words)

We have been together for 3 years, he gets all the home comforts at his mums, he wont move in together as he says he needs back up money ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6644 days ago

12 September 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 3yrs, I live in my home with my 5yr old son from my previous relationship and he comes and stays with me every night and weekends but has all his stuff and eats at his parents. I am 25yrs and he is 34yrs old. The problem I have is that ... (238 words)

My 16 year old gay sone likes to look at little boys...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6221 days ago

12 September 2006 (F) - my 16 year old gay son likes to look at little boys, he has never had a sexual encounter with a boy or man, however as his parent I am concerned about this and don't know what to do? ... (39 words)

My ex that cheated got back in touch to apologise, I said it doesnt make things right and now hes not talking to me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6644 days ago

12 September 2006 (F) - I dumped my boyfriend of four years over six months ago, because I found out he was cheating. I was devastated at the time because I really loved him. He tried contacting me in the beginning, but I ignored him and got on with my life, he hurt me real bad. Now out of the blue ... (131 words)

Hes worried about the age gap and thats why we are not together!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6644 days ago

12 September 2006 (F) - hi wonderng if anyone will help i'm 17 gonna be 18 soon, and i like this guy i work with. i know he likes me back because his spoken to a friend that works with us. the only problem that is stopping him telling me is the fact hes 21 and is worried about the age gap?! can yo... (64 words)

I really love him but cant tell him im a virgin!! Im size 8 would this be why any form of penetration hurts ?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6644 days ago

12 September 2006 (F)

- My bf and i live together he's 27 and has a daughter aged 8 who doesnt live with us, Im older than him and i have the ordeal of still being a virgin. We love each other very much, however ive not told him im still a virgin, hes slept with 27 girls before 3 of which were serious ... (225 words)

Desperate to get my wife to care about me, and to put us first, I am so miserable and not the man I was!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6644 days ago

12 September 2006 (M) - Hi, I just need help because I feel so let down in this marriage which has become all about my wife and her needs and her requests, etc. I came here before for advice and it has been very helpful. This is just a very brief idea of what is going on. Since we have meet 2 year... (600 words)

His ex wont allow their children anywhere near me, this is heartbreaking for me and my partner!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6644 days ago

12 September 2006 (F) - I have been in a relationship for over 12 months and my boyfriends ex will not let me have anything to do with his two children. I understand that she feels we may have moved too quickly as they had only been separated for no more than 7 months but he had reassured me that she ... (315 words)

My boyfriend doesnt trust me because of his past, how can I make him see im different ??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6644 days ago

12 September 2006 (F) - my boyfriend doesnt trust me, his ex hurt him so badly(cheated on him with his best friend) i dont know how to make him see that ill never hurt him and he can trust me.. ive spoken to him about it, but its always the same... every time i go out i can see the hurt and worry i... (90 words)

How can I best use my Rampant Rabbit ?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4179 days ago

12 September 2006 (F)

- I bought a rampant rabbit vibrator the other day but can't seem to get the hang of it. Could anyone with one offer some advice about how to have an orgasm with this thing?! Thanks... (35 words)

I seem to always get sexual problems, that just dont go away, my bf is now feeling rejected!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6644 days ago

12 September 2006 (F) - Hello there. I am a 22 year old girl, and have been with my man for 3 1/2 years now. I love him very much, and I know that he loves me. We have been so happy all this time but now sex is getting us down. For the first 2 years, our sex life was great! We would have sex alm... (473 words)

It cant maintain an erection and is really upset, we are out of ideas!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6644 days ago

12 September 2006 (F) - help. im nearly 20 and my boyfriend has just turned 28. we've been together for 9 months and still havent had sex yet. we get down to doing it it and he cant get a hard on! this is only a resent thing but he's really upset and i've ran out of ideas! ... (53 words)

I want to let him know that I want to be in his life, but not in his way, how do I let him know ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6644 days ago

12 September 2006 (F) - Hi, I've met this incredible man, he's sweet, caring, loving and is unlike any other man i have ever seen. We have been meeting whenever he is close because his work means he has to travel alot, and although the time spent together is very brief we make the most of it. ... (315 words)

Im not happy in my marriage, I like this other woman but have remained faithful, I stay because of my son!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6415 days ago

12 September 2006 (M) - i have been married for almost 5 years and have a son who is almost 3. I have not been happy for a little while now but havent said anything. I have now met another woman, who is slightly older than me. We met about a month back and it was like my life has been spun and it ... (199 words)

Im having an affiar, He says he loves me, but why then does he still want sex with his wife ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6513 days ago

12 September 2006 (F) - dear agony aunt, i have been having an affair with a married man, i will call "max". not long ago this man told me that he has fallen in love with me. he often has dedscribed that he loves his wife and children unconditionally, but is "in love with me." i too have fallen i... (261 words)

She has feelings for this other guy, but is somewhat distant now, is she cheating ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6645 days ago

12 September 2006 (M) - Ok here's the deal. This girl ive liked for awhile was dating a guy for almost 3 years. I came home and we started talking as friends. But then she started talking about how unhappy she was and she didnt have feelings for him. Well weve been dating 2 months long distance. I ... (176 words)

My male friend is gay, we had sex, now im pregnant!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6641 days ago

12 September 2006 (F) - I have been in love with a male friend for a long time, but he's gay. I intentionally got him drunk and seduced him. Even though we had really great sex, he said that he still prefers men. I just found out I'm pregnant with his child. Part of me wants to pretend someone else is ... (89 words)

I dont know what career to select.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6644 days ago

12 September 2006 (F) - hi. i am doing my graduation. but i dont know which career i have to select. i am very good interested in dancing because i know that i can dance better.i also won the prices for that. but this career is not like as per my middle class family backgrounds. after completing my ... (121 words)

Had sex with my boyfriend and another guy in the same week, now im pregnant!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6644 days ago

12 September 2006 (F) - i been going out with this guy for four years and very confused.im not inlove with him no more but at the same time i dont think i can live with out him.i feel like his mom i work and go to school while he just goes to school.but i basically suppot him i dont well i can live ... (142 words)

My GF broke up with me today and I just can't get her out of my head...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6644 days ago

12 September 2006 (M)

- My gf broke up with me today, at first i went all hyper and in an almost sarcastic mood, but now ive been drinking lots of gin, and taken about 8 paracetamol, and ive also been crying loads, and everything i look at reminds me of her. I cant even look in the mirror without ... (99 words)

We just aren't like the couple I went away with on a trip with - should I end it with my BF?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6645 days ago

12 September 2006 (F) - I've been going out with a guy for almost 5 months, and we've done so much and been through alot together. The relationship has made me happy, don't get me wrong, but i just got back from a weekend trip where i stayed with 4 of my friends (myself, 2 others, and a couple that ... (462 words)

My crush doesn't flirt with me anymore!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5821 days ago

12 September 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, Lately, it seems like my crush is flirting with everyone but me. He used to flirt with me, like, all the time when I was in seventh grade and he was in eighth (I've posted about him at least a million times...lol), but now, he never does. What happened? Did it... (77 words)

I didn't want to go over ONE time and now he won't call me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6643 days ago

12 September 2006 (F) - What does this mean? I've got 2 guys friends and both of them mean alot to me. Well, one of them has been acting weird weird, its a good weird though. He wants me around whenever we are in school and we live like 5 minutes away from each other. The other day, he was telling ... (217 words)

I want to date him, but my friends make rude remarks because he is seven years older

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6457 days ago

12 September 2006 (F) - Hi guys! I've got a problem, was wondering if you had any advice. (Which I guess is obvious, since I came to this site). Well, I am seventeen. For two years I've been great friends with a guy who is seven years older than I. Nothing has ever happened between us, though... (365 words)

My parents call me a "child molester" for having a girlfriend who's three years younger!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6644 days ago

12 September 2006 (M) - I'm 18 dating a girl who just turned 16. I'm in college and shes a junior in high school. My parents would not a approve of me having anything to do with someone younger than me, there very strict. I will be 19 soon in december ( about a 3 year age difference ) Is i... (121 words)