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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I ended my relationship...why did he leave it 5 days to come back to tell me he loved me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6412 days ago

30 September 2006 (F)

- I ended my relationship with my boyfriend because it was going stale.The problem is,he has been txting me to see him again and iv nearly given in,he says he loves me but what i dont understand is,if he wanted me back that much then why does he leave it for 5 days then contact ... (76 words)

My ex is nice to me one minute nasty the next, but I still love him!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4932 days ago

30 September 2006 (F) - i have an x bf that is nice to me half the time and nasty to me the other but i still love him he says he is not intrested any more and then he starts acting like he wants me again what can i do i really love him and want him back ?... (55 words)

He's a virgin and wants to do more but I don't want to pressure him!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6443 days ago

30 September 2006 (F) - I have been dating this guy for 2 months but we were really close before and i know he is a virgin and i know he is not. He hasnt done more then kissed a girl but he keeps telling me he wants to do more. He will put his hands down my pants and not do anything. I am not sure ... (84 words)

He ended it and has not contacted me and the baby! He never appeciated us, so am I better off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6625 days ago

30 September 2006 (F) - i have been engaged for a while an in the time weve been together he has never bought me flowers,chocolates,even after giving birth he never got me a card let alone anything else.never does he show me how im appreciated and there isnt anything i wouldnt do to show him how much ... (95 words)

He shows me love and affection then he is just my friend..whats going on??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6626 days ago

30 September 2006 (F) - i love a guy who sometimes shows me affection and love while other times we become just friends sometimes he doesn't answer my calls he tells me everything about his life but i don't know if he loves me or not can you help me please for god sake?... (49 words)

I still love my ex but he is getting married soon!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6626 days ago

30 September 2006 (F) - My my frist and only ex-boyfriend is getting married soon and I can't stop thinking about him? We had a perfect relationship when we were going out, I can say that he is like a soulmate to me! I know for sure that if it wasn't because I had to leave to come live back in my ho... (145 words)

My babys father abuses me by text and now seems like in nearly 3 years together I was always a secret!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6624 days ago

30 September 2006 (F) - until recently i was in a relationship with my babys father and he dumped me by txt and then started to abuse me by txt calling me horrible names and a liar.we was together for 2 years 9 months and through out this time never did i meet his best friend or any of his friends ... (167 words)

What does it mean when a guy gives you the once over when talking to you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6626 days ago

30 September 2006 (F) - I am asking a question which might seem obvious to some but need people with more experience to answer. When a guy is talking to you and you really see him give you the once over as he is talking to you does that mean he might be attracted? ... (49 words)

Not sure if I like my boyfriend yet he tells me he loves me!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6626 days ago

30 September 2006 (F) - i've got this boyfriend and am not sure that a like but he told me that he loves me and a don't no wot to do?... (26 words)

She wants to wait before we make something of us...how can I change her mind??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6626 days ago

30 September 2006 (M) - i fancy a girl at my school but she says that she will only have a boyfriend when she has pass her GCSEs but im hanging out with her a lot and i want to change how she feels.... (39 words)

I need some tips as I'm clueless when it comes to boys.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6625 days ago

30 September 2006 (F) - hi i am 15 years old nd in my last year of secondary school. I have never done any thing sexsually(never been kissed), never had a bf and im quite shy. here is where you guys come in, i realli fancy a boy who is in my year but i dont know how to approch him. can you giveme any ... (73 words)

I can't move on from the fact she's slept around...alot!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6624 days ago

30 September 2006 (F) - hi everybody,i need some relationship advice! about 6 months ago i started dating my boss's niece(we've known each other for a while and we slept together once but never took it any futher) shes a beatiful,intelligent woman who is highly respected among her peers and ... (145 words)

I don't have feelings for him anymore, should I break up with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6626 days ago

30 September 2006 (F) - I am dating this guy we dated for a month then broke up and like a month later we started dating again. He went to germany and when he came back i didnt have feelings for him anymore... we started dating the day he left for germany. he got back like 5 days ago. he goes to a ... (123 words)

How can I be sure if we don't work out that we can still be friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6626 days ago

30 September 2006 (F) - One of my really close boy mates have just asked me out but i dont no wat to say.Hes 2 years younger than me and a bit shorter than me. I do like him but how can i be sure if i do go out with him and we break up that we'll still me close mates. Please Help Me!!!... (61 words)

He wants me to get an apartment so his ex can continue to live in our house!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6626 days ago

30 September 2006 (F) - Ok folks...awhile ago I wrote about a problem with an ex-g-friends pawning her child on my boyfriend and interrupting in our relationship and everyone was mad because I didn't want any of it anymore...So, update...As he continued to treat her needs as priority and I got ... (214 words)

How can I get him to speak to me to tell my why he don't call or text me anymore?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6626 days ago

30 September 2006 (F) - it prob sounds stupid, but i havent spoke 2 my ex 4 abpout 3 monthes, ive text him and called him but he doesnt answer me, ive called him before on private he answered and heard it was me and pretended he couldnt hear me which pissed me off, but how can i get him 2 contact me i ... (91 words)

Slept with my gym instructor even though we are both in relationships...I don't know what to do!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6623 days ago

30 September 2006 (F) - i go to gym three times a weak and the aerobics instructor likes me. the next day it became oficially us wen we had sex then he has two kids and a live in partner and i have a 2year boyfreind. what shall i do? i went flirting with him because i felt like my relationship with ... (70 words)

Im confused, does he like, me or was the touching up just because of the moment ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

30 September 2006 (F) - last night me and 3 of my friends went to my house to watch the grudge, and well obiously it is a scary movie so me and my really good guy friend were like hugging, and cuddling really closely. i would move one of my legs like over his legs, and he would grab the back and hold ... (235 words)

I dont know whats wrong with me and Im scared!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6453 days ago

30 September 2006 (F) - I am so lost right now i don't know how to begin i am making such a mess of my life i am unemplyed i am messing things up with my boyfriend,the only man who has ever been loving i cause arguements everyday now he says he is sick of me an he is not sure if he loves me ... (70 words)

Chatted on MSN for ages, I want to meet up, but we are 2 days away from each other!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6620 days ago

30 September 2006 (F)

- For about 6 months I have been chating to a guy I met online. We have talked on line through msn instant messenger as well as through our phones. I am 17 and he is 19. I have also seen him on web cam so I KNOW he isn't some old pedaphile. We have become really close, like rea... (246 words)

The guy I love could be moving to the USA!! What should I do ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6626 days ago

30 September 2006 (F)

- im dating this guy and hes moving...to USA!! we both live in london and his mums company has transferred to new york and the whole family is going im in the middle of my studies doing my A levels and he loves me as he told me 3weeks ago but i dont know how im going to cope or ... (123 words)

I love him, but hes not affectionate to me, others say he slags me off, I dont know what to believe!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6162 days ago

30 September 2006 (F) - I have been going out with this boy for around 2 weeks now.I really love him. Before we were going out, we got on so well. Now, he hardly talks to me, unless I'm on my own. He's only hugged me 3 times and never kissed me. I really don't know what his feelings are. If I talk to ... (98 words)

We are both from different religions we love each other we are in different countries! Whats the solution to be together ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6625 days ago

30 September 2006 (F)

- Dear whoever is reading this. This is hard for me because usually i advice people but i am blind to my own problem. or to the sollution anyway. I know i am in love and i know the person i love loves me too. i mean even when we are asleep if someone of us doesnt feel ok t... (216 words)

I really like my tutor, I know nothing can come of it but its making me depressed!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6626 days ago

30 September 2006 (F) - Hi, im 16 and I have a huge problem thats making me depressed. The problem is my course tutor in college. I really like him! But I know nothing would ever come of it. Recently thouhg I have cuaght him looking over at me when he thinks im not looking, my friend has noticed this... (149 words)

The friend I want to get to know more left a message to say I love you on my phone! Not sure I feel that way!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6626 days ago

30 September 2006 (F) - I have a friend that I liek more then just a friend. We don't know much about eachother and we want to know more about one another. But today he left me a message on my phone and he was saying, "I love you!" Over and over again, I asked him if he was just playin' me and he said ... (151 words)

Other peoples negativity towards my long distance and age gap relationship is driving me insane!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6620 days ago

30 September 2006 (M) - Hi, I think this is more of a personal problem than a relationship one, though it deals with a relationship. Without going into specifics, I'm in an LDR and age gap relationship. The age gap is relatively small (less than 8 years) but since I'm still young--18--the gap is ... (317 words)

Recently got married to a loving man but our loving making is rare, how do I get him in the mood?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6474 days ago

30 September 2006 (F) - My problem is I'm in love with a senative, loving man we've been together for 3yrs and married 3mos. I love this man with all my heart. The problem is that I'm a very senual woman who loves making love to my husband. But our love making is not often at all. It's gotten to ... (136 words)

It is heartbreaking to seem what is happening to her....how do I handle this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6626 days ago

30 September 2006 (F) - Not sure that this is the right type of question for this sight but have read some answers here..a lot of sweet people with good insight respond. My mom has alzheimers and I try to go and see her every second weekend. She is not in this city. I work at a pretty intense career ... (182 words)

It's been 2 years and she has a boyfriend, but I still want to try again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6627 days ago

30 September 2006 (M) - Really miss my ex-girlfriend. Its been 2 years want to give it another shot but she has a bf what should i do cant lose no more sleep from this please help thanks... (33 words)

I love her but I'm scared to be honest with her about how I feel and what I want from us.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6626 days ago

30 September 2006 (M) - i love my girlfriend more than ive ever told her,she is always telling me how happy she is an wants to be my wife,so why am i so scared to be honest with her and avoid answering her marriage question.lately i have been searching her computer looking for any dating sites that ... (72 words)

He can't stop staring at other women, what does this mean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6624 days ago

30 September 2006 (F) - my fiance has a really bad staring problem. even if he just hears a womans voice on tv it gets him checking her out. i'm not ugly. and he's not great looking! can you tell me what it might mean? we are engaged and i'm thinking of calling it off. he was dating someone when I met ... (75 words)

Everything she has accused me of she's been doing herself, is it worth all the trouble?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6625 days ago

30 September 2006 (?) - Me and my girlfriend of 3 years had another tiff and broke up for a week.We are both mature(early 40`s).Her pc was playing tricks and as usual i was trying to mend fix it.I was shocked to find a messenger from a chatroom,in which she was cybersexing,and what`s more,posting ... (109 words)

Been together a month and then-I moved away to college..I'm afraid of losing her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6626 days ago

30 September 2006 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for a month now. But just last week I moved to college 90 miles away so we only get to see each other once a week. I am afraid of losing her.Any suggestions?... (40 words)