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writes: the boy i like feels uncomfortable sleeping in the same bed as me and dont understand why he wont talk to me about it and its proper makein me feel depressed please help me
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reader, Lostsoul +, writes (18 September 2006):
 I think you need to talk to him again. You dont say if you are just friends or if you two are an item ? there isnt much to go on here, So I cant really say for sure why he doesnt want to share a bed with you. Is he maybe too shy ?
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reader, stina  +, writes (18 September 2006):
 Hi Anon,
There are a lot of reasons why he might not like sleeping in the same bed. Are you even dating? I can't really tell from your post. These are what I came up with of why he doesn't want to talk about it:
- He might not think he knows you well enough to sleep in the same bed. This guy might only want to sleep in the same bed as someone who he truly loves - this might be one of his values.
- He might be self coucious: Maybe he doesn't want to wake up the next morning looking all unattractive with morning breath and everything; maybe he snores and would be embarassed for you to know; he might get up a lot in the middle of the night to go to the bathroom, etc
- He might have just gotten out of a relationship and isn't ready for anything like this just now
Whatever the answer may be, you don't want to push him because you might not end up sleeping in the same bed at any point in the future, you know? Give him time - either he'll be able to open up to you when he feels more comfortable about discussing it. But there's also the chance that you will never know since he really doesn't have to divulge the reason.
I say just take things more slowly because he is not ready to go further yet. Try not to get so worked up over it. It most likely has nothing to do with you, you know?
Take care.
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