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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

After all the torridness and lies, I still Love her!! But why is it affecting me this way ??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6646 days ago

10 September 2006 (M) - Hi, Sorry, but this will be a long one as there is a lot of history here. I recently broke up with a woman I reconnected with in January this year. We had lived together for two years 30 years ago and had not seen each other since. The first time, I was 18 and she was 24. She ... (1542 words)

My man is jealous at the money I earn, how can I make him feel more comfortable ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6646 days ago

10 September 2006 (F) - My boyfriend is extremely jealous of the money that I make at my job. He has directly told me this ,i want to know how I should make him feel comfortable with it,and maybe even make him proud of me. how do I come about doing this? ... (47 words)

How wrong is it to be with your brothers ex wife ?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6641 days ago

10 September 2006 (M) - just how wrong is it for someone to be in a 10 year relationship with their brothers ex-wive,they were devoriced befor the relationship started,and do love each other very much to last 10 years.... (40 words)

He said that he doesnt know if he ever wants to get married.. its making me doubt the relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6287 days ago

10 September 2006 (F) - i have been with my b/f for a year and a half. He is older--i am 23 and is 30. Somehow we started talking about babies just casually and i said 22 is way too young--i dont know how some girls can do it personally at that age...anyway--marriage got brought up and he said he ... (393 words)

Can she really be certain this early on that she is pregnant ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6585 days ago

10 September 2006 (M) - I stupidly had unprotected sex with my neighbour 7 days ago. And again 3 days ago. We are both single and at first I thought she was really nice. After the second time she told me she had missed her pill that morning. She has now been causing trouble with other neighbours and ... (150 words)

Feel like im being held down because of my ex boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6645 days ago

10 September 2006 (F) - Me and my bf have just split cause of an ex bf who i still kinda like. I would like to get bk with my bf cause i do really like him. But my ex still never seems to be out the background he is vile to me at any opportunity given usually calling me fat it has really began to... (143 words)

We are in our 20's but his parents are very controlling!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6646 days ago

10 September 2006 (F) - I am having a lot of problems at the moment. My boyfriend of 2 years is being told what to do all the time by his parents. He rarely stands up against them. Whenever we have time together, he is asked to come home early and not allowed out much. They are inflexible and demand ... (219 words)

My partner gets upset when she hears about her ex husbands partner, im now feeling hurt!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6646 days ago

10 September 2006 (F) - My partner and I met very shortly after her husband left her. It has only been about two years, but she still gets very hurt whenever she hears about his new girlfrind and how much he loves her. Now, I find that I am feeling hurt when she reacts this way. What can I do?... (58 words)

I love another girl aswell as my girlfriend!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6645 days ago

10 September 2006 (M) - i need help im going with out with a girl that i love but i love another girl more and she knows but she is going out with someone too . if i tell my girlfreind it will break her heart what will i do xx ... (46 words)

How can I get my ex to love me ???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6154 days ago

10 September 2006 (F)

- I love and miss my exboyfriend,,,, he loves other people now ... but how can i get him to love me .... dont say its over, because its not . how can i get him to dream about me ? ... (40 words)

My boyfriend is too controlling... what should I do ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6108 days ago

10 September 2006 (F) - OK am going 2 the point i have been dating my boyfriend for bout a month or 2 he is just what i always wanted but he got his bad too which is he controls everything we are together everyday he keeps my cell phone n i only get it when i go to school..he checks my emails and made ... (120 words)

Am worried guys will react badly to my birthmark. How do I tell a guy I have this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6646 days ago

10 September 2006 (F) - I have recently ended a relationship and I am worried how any other guys will react to me when they discover I have a birthmark. I was born with a large port-wine birthmark on my face which I cover with camouflage make-up. How and when do I break it to a guy that I have one? My ... (75 words)

Is she walking all over me? How do I approach this with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6646 days ago

10 September 2006 (M) - i'm so confused about my friend. i've liked her forever. she's in a relationship, but confessed her deep feelings for me recently, saying that she fell in love with me. but she also said that she still wants to stay with her current partner. but ever since then, we've been ... (380 words)

I need advice on anal sex..my bf likes it and I want to do it properly for him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6645 days ago

10 September 2006 (F) - My bf attempted to give me anal for the first time, but i ran into a few troubles. I know it's meant to hurt at first but we actually had to stop because it was so painful. I know this is really gross but I have what I assume is a skin tag in that area and either side of it is ... (165 words)

Hes never affectionate to me when out with friends, hardly see him and he still has feelings for his ex!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6645 days ago

10 September 2006 (F) - Write me 'n' my boyfriend have been going out 6 months now and were really nice to each other but he will never be affectionate in front of his friends he is never with me and we hardly get to see each other i don't know what to do because he has admited he has feelings still ... (77 words)

The distance between us is killing me, but doesnt seem to affect him, if only I could banish these feelings!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6644 days ago

10 September 2006 (F) - Hi everyone, I've been in a long distance relationship for a year now and as time goes on, I'm getting more and more frustrated with the distance, more and more jealous and craving more time with my boyf who I only see once every month. I love him so much and he's unlike a... (193 words)

I was prepared to up and leave and live in the Middle East with him, but now hes gone cold ??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6646 days ago

10 September 2006 (F) - So confused, ive been seeing my boyfriend for 1 year and 2 months he moved abroad in jan 2006 and ive been out there twice to see him and he has met me once in a country nearby. We have been under pressure as he wanted me to move abroad to be with him, he lives in middle east. ... (380 words)

I Love my best friend and its killing me!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6646 days ago

10 September 2006 (M) - i love my best friend, but i know she doesnt like me like that and its been killing me inside. I dont know what to do anymore... (27 words)

My long distance GF is starting to question us.. thinking of getting to know other woman, not to cheat, but to get another perspective!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6646 days ago

10 September 2006 (M) - this is prob. a stupid question. still would like some opinions. thank you. i am in a situation where my long time girlfreind is living far from me for about another six months. she is starting to question us. i am sure of us, but with her questions. i am starting to thin... (133 words)

He deserted me with no by or leave, but I heard he was in an accident and now I feel no matter how much he hurt me I should call him ??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6646 days ago

10 September 2006 (F) - Hello All, I have a problem about an ex-boyfriend/lover who I totally loved, but who ended up being a total b*stard to me... I have posted a problem about him before (when I was trying to get over him), but now I have a new dilemma, and would appreciate all advice. Apologie... (1072 words)

Im confused and upset by all this outside intervention, first my mum then my boyfriends mum!! What to do!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6646 days ago

10 September 2006 (F) - Hi, I’ve got myself into a bit of a state at the moment and wondered if you could help me! I would usually speak to my mom who I am very close to but at the moment I am finding it very difficult to do so. The problem is I am with a lad who is currently in the RAF and leav... (647 words)

Who to guys act around girls they fancy ??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6646 days ago

10 September 2006 (F)

- Lads! Please help! can you tell me how guys act around girls they fancy? Because i think my male friend fancies me, but im not sure. Please help!! xxx... (29 words)

Im 13 and never been kissed, and Im started to fall for my best friends bf!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6074 days ago

10 September 2006 (F)

- Hey! Im 13 and I have Never kissed anyone, My ex tried to kiss me but i wasn't ready so i pushed him away. Sometime the thought makes me wonder what its like. I'm also begining to get feeling for my best m8s bf. I don't want to tell her as I don't want to ruin our friendship!! ... (85 words)

Is my *model* girlfriend just using me, im so scared of getting burnt!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6646 days ago

10 September 2006 (M) - as brief as i can, me and my gf are 19.we met last november and started a relationship.we fell in love and things were good.we had arguments but we were happy.we started to take each other for granted and the relationship started to feel the strain.she s a very good looking ... (477 words)

Im a recovering drug addict and my relationship failed, trouble is he refuses to be amicable until we split for good!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6646 days ago

10 September 2006 (F) - i am 28 and a mother of two young children. i have been with my partner for 8 years and although i still love him and desperatley want to stay with him i feel that the time has come to go our seperate ways. we have been trying to sort out our differences for the past two years ... (223 words)

Stuck between a rock and hard a place and dont want to be left feeling unattractive...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6645 days ago

10 September 2006 (F)

- my boyfriend is goin through some depression and before this i was having panic attacks things are ok with me now but hes still goin through his depression waiting to get some help etc! basically we have not had sex for months i understand this must be the last thing on his m... (276 words)

My best friend has started being friends with another girl that doesnt like me!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6646 days ago

10 September 2006 (F) - My best friend has traded me in for a girl who she used to hate and always say she wanted to hurt. well now my bestfriend doesnt call me anymore or ask me to hang out should i just ingore her cuz it seems like thats what she did to me. it seems like she just forgot about me and ... (91 words)

Tried sex for the first time and the inner lip of my vagina started to bleed. Am I too small?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6153 days ago

10 September 2006 (F) - im 15 i havnt had sex yet, when i tried it with my boyfriend it was really painful and the inner lip of my vagina started to bleed slightly...i found this strange because it was as if it had ripped! we left sex and decided to stick to the oral stuff but now when he fingers me ... (78 words)

Im only 15 but want to find the right guy soon! But no guys at my school are suitable!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6646 days ago

10 September 2006 (F) - hi im 15 and i have never had a boyfriend cos im just waiting for the right person... but there is no-one at school that i like, they just aren't for me! i really want to find "the one" soon :( but they just dont seem to be in my school! i'm leaving school soon to go to co... (143 words)

Im confused about the girl at work and shes driving me crazy!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6318 days ago

10 September 2006 (M) - I am bring driven crazy by a girl at work!! We recently took a liking to each other, and have been on a couple of dates. I suggested, that for our next date, we could stay out in the city all night and get a hotel room. I promised to be on my bestest behaviour as I am not that ... (221 words)

Relationship turning sour because he says love cant be measured by sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6646 days ago

10 September 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a little over 3 years. Things used to be great, but just recently things have become torrid and i guess it started with the sex issue. He is of the opinion that we dont need to have sex all the time and that we cant measure our realtionship ... (685 words)

My girlfriend started acting differently, or am I over reacting ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6646 days ago

10 September 2006 (M) - My girlfriend has been acting slightly different lately, im not sure if its just me. However we were going out with a number of other people for a meal, for one of her friends birthdays. She seemed too take it too seriously and talk about what too wear and, seating ... (208 words)

Called my girlfriend my ex's name ..help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6499 days ago

10 September 2006 (M)

- Hi, well recently i had my girlfriend over, we watched some tv and then went up to bed, and i accidentaly called her my ex-gf's name, which i found odd becasue the girl whos name i called her we didnt even have a good relationship with, let alone a sexual one, and i was talking ... (153 words)

How to romance a friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6646 days ago

10 September 2006 (F) - I recently started back at school, to discover that I like (in a romantic way) one of my friends again. I hadn't seen him in the summer and seeing him again brought these feelings back. I've liked him before, but done nothing about it. Now I'm a bit confused as to wether I... (61 words)

He treated me bad but i still love him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6646 days ago

10 September 2006 (F) - "Does he still loves me? Is it over?" I met my ex bf online. We communicate online and by phone for a year and half. When we met I felt like I have known him for so long. I stayed in his house and first night he begged me to performed an oral sex with him. I did. I didn't h... (1320 words)

My wife has a low sex drive and its driving a wedge!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6498 days ago

10 September 2006 (M) - Wife has low sex drive and am thinking about an affair. I have a much higher sex drive than my wife and would like to have sex 2-3 times per week. In her perfect world 1-2 times per month would be better.I am very passionate and like for an encounter to last at least an hour... (164 words)

How do I give a hand job ?

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

10 September 2006 (F) - ok well i have a question to ask guys. i have never givin a hand job before and this guy wants me to give him one. im totaly up to it.....but obiously i dont know how to. so told him i dident know how to, and he said he would help me out (teach me). do guys think its lame... (92 words)

Hes so nice to me ..but do i love him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6646 days ago

10 September 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 months. I have broke up with him 2 times for mixed feelings like sometimes i would feel like i like him and want to be with him and other times i don't. I think about us lasting forever and i don't know if i will ever love him enough ... (508 words)

Long distance Love

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6621 days ago

10 September 2006 (F) - Hi I need some advice. The Guy i love will just be coming back from his University….by the time I am only just LEAVING college to start my University. How can we stay together? Do long-distance relationships work? If so….can they work for FOUR YEARS (or more!!!!!) What is invo... (73 words)

I fancy my boss, kissed another guy, and have a boyfriend already!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6646 days ago

10 September 2006 (F) - I know you say about questions being too long, but for you to understand there's a lot of background. Please help me, I'm desperate and have no one to help me. I have a very confusing problem. I started liking this guy who is far too old for me, but he makes me feel great, ... (449 words)

Lost without her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6646 days ago

10 September 2006 (M) - my girl stopped the relation because of her parents , i feel lost without her , do i have to call her back ? or if she wants will find the way to me ? or if she wants she will wait till i call for her ?... (48 words)

Can my troubled boyfriend change?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6072 days ago

10 September 2006 (F) - I'd just like to know if people think that people really can change.... Hi I'm 18 and I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years, but for the last 6 months he's been in prison. I decided to stick by him. Before he went in he had a very violent temper when drunk (never towards me),... (217 words)