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writes: my bf is always telling me that he love me and he will always love me.he is also showing it to me that he do love me.but i have my feeling doubt about it. i am so scared that sometime he is showing to me so much love and makes me feel that maybe he just doing that just not to hurt me and in the end he will leave me just for one click.my biggest fear now is' i do love him so much now and i am really scared to lose him, i really dont wanna lose him' i dont know how to get out of this feeling.im always scared that he shows he love me and after all he will just leave me.i really dont know what to do after that. pls. help me i really need some advice...M. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2006): I know what you mean. You are so scared of losing him, and couldn't imagine being with anyone else because he's the one for you and you both have this connection..
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A few years down the road he might not love me anymore or won't want to be with me anymore or be bored with me. Maybe he is only with me coz I love him and he knows i'll do anythng for him. Life is too good for him, until he finds something better. But says all the stuff he says to keep me happy. I think he will break my heart someday.
It is very hard.
"Our" relationship has been going for nearly 6 years, and I love him so much and know deep down he loves me. We Do Have Something Special!! The best advice to give you, is too not let these feeling ruin your relationship. Explain to your partner how you feel, and ask him to explain he's feeling towards you. Ask him to let you know if he's unhappy in the furture and not just not say anything because he doesn't want to hurt you. And vice versa. Love is such a mixed feeling, you love em to death, but you get scared of losing it. Keep your chin up.
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reader, Lostandalone  +, writes (12 September 2006):
 I think you are being a bit paranoid for no reason. Has he given you any indication that he will do anything to hurt you? Enjoy the ride and don't worry about the destination. Don't concentrate on what might be and what could happen. Just love being and love and enjoy the person that loves you. A lot of people would kill to be in your shoes. Have fun and enjoy. You're just giving yourself wrinkles worrying. Good Luck.
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reader, CRS698 +, writes (12 September 2006):
 Hi there, It's ok for you to feel scared, we all do when in relationships.
But ask yourself: Is he doing anything that would make you think he'll leave you? If the answer is no, keep telling yourself the answer.Keep reminding yourself that he does want you because he shows it and theres no reason to doubt hit/him.
I hope it works out for you.
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