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writes: i been going out with this guy for four years and very confused.im not inlove with him no more but at the same time i dont think i can live with out him.i feel like his mom i work and go to school while he just goes to school.but i basically suppot him i dont well i can live with out him but he cant live with out me.i recently cheated on him with a guy that i like alot at work twice.we had sex with a condom and didnt use a condom with boyfriend but only had sex with boyfriend one time in 3 weeks .basically had sex with the both in the same week timing and found out that im pregnant......what should i do get obortion which i dont believe in or talk to them i need some advice
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2006): jesus christ....#1.go smack your mom and dad for instilling such poor values in you!#2. Get a grip....have kid a give-up for adoption to sensible loving parents.Don't believe in abortion but f**king 2 dudes "un-protected" in one week...no problem....are u kidding!#3. Become a nun and pray for your soul! What is wrong with people???
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reader, David Lewis  +, writes (12 September 2006):
 If you used a condom with this other guy, then chances are you are pregnant to your boyfriend.
If you are not in love with him and you are cheating on him, then he is obviously not the one for you. I think you should break up with him. It will be hard, but I think it would be the only way you will find happiness, because you are obviously not happy the way things are.
As for the abortion, this will depend on a number of things. You say you are at school, so would you want to have a baby at such a young age?
You need to think what is best for everybody, I don't agree with abortions, but sometimes it is the right thing to do.
My fiancee was raped when she was young and had an abortion at the age of 13. She feels guilty still, but it was the right thing to do.
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reader, donna83 +, writes (12 September 2006):
if u really did have sex with a condom chances are its ure boyfriends so i would not upset everyone around u by confessing u will end up alone, if anything end it with ure boyfriend and grow up u have a baby on the way now if u decide to keep it and try being a wee bit more loyal in the future its not just u to think about now, sorry to be so harsh but thats life time to get on with it.
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