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writes: Ok, so i have this huge problem, im a 16 yr old female going on to 17 in a month, and recently started college, so far im luvin it, especially 1 subject in particular, english lit!!! itz all down to a sexy teacher in there who i am absolutely fallin for.. but heres the worse thing, its a she!!! i seriously do not know what to do, i keep catchin her glimpsing at me, and we always seem to smirk at each other for no apartant reason, i am finding myself havin a great deal of sexual fantasies about her, i dont know if im becoming obsessive or what, what do i do, i alwayz new i was a lesbian or bi, but this is the real deal, help me!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2007): I no wat your going through
Even tho people say we read to much into things and we shud move on....we dont.
We like this feeling....Love...Thats wat we persume it is anyway
Like i commented on another comment we live on the element of
Unrequited Or Hidden.... Do you understand?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2006): telll her or ur gana wonder and think yes when its nooo. if its noo drop her class
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2006): this is not a good idea come on hun trust me ive been there but with a male teacher at collige we only just maniged to stop before people relised trust me dont do it it can neverwork out and you will have to spend all your time togrther hiding if it dose kk gud luk xxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2006): I think you should step up to the plate and find out if she feels the same way about you.There is nothing wrong with being gay,but I think that you are to young to be trying to talk to an older person but who am I.Just go for what you know.Mybe it will all work out.
P.S Risk Taker
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reader, Toohonesty +, writes (13 September 2006):
I presume this was your first lesbian love. Right im sorry but my name is Toohonest so here it goes.
Teachers after to be positive and happy, i reccomend you talk to a school councillor and ask to change your subject teacher. The school will understand and keep it confidential. The final option is to talk to your english teacher and she will put you at ease but i wud recomend u stop the fantasies sooner. Also at 17 is the age i believe and deciding your sexuality think carefully
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reader, Anarchy67 +, writes (13 September 2006):
Anarchy67 is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni jus cant do it, how do i no if she hasnt got anything for me? she's only 26 herself, 2day i was waitin for in her office to give a late h/w in, i jus scribbled it on the bus, because i couldnt really be bothered with it, so there i am waitin because two other teachers wer inside 2, so they told me to wait in the lounge for her, 2minz later she arrives, so i hand over my h/w, while checkin her out lol, she opens it up, and says watz this, so i said, sorry, i rushed it on the bus, she then pokes me softly in the stomach and says, u told me u did it y'day, so i jus gave a grin, and she replies after a 10 second moment of jus lookin at eachother "u better not lie 2 me" and i think my heart palpitated because i could of swore there was an undlerlyin message there!!! and she smiles, and tickles me! at this point the teachers had left, and we wer in a secluded hall way, i was jus stunned, and she jus repeats, u better not lie to me, and i jus cracked up sayin, would i ever, and i nudged her, and i walked off!!! all i could do nex lesson was think of her, it was crazy!
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reader, wisedispenser +, writes (13 September 2006):
Hey,
you need to seperate the two issues- your sexuality and the crush on the teacher.
For the teacher, you need to forget it. It is likely you are applying meaning to things that really mean nothing. I bet, if you look carefully enough that the teacher is smiling and smirking at lots of students. You are so focussed on her that you are labelling everything in relation to yourself. Your teacher cannot act upon these feelings- she would lose her job if she did and possibly be subject to criminal allegations.
Your Sexuality- many young, and older, people question their sexuality at times. It may just be this one person that you are fixated on or it could be the real deal- but only time, and supportive guidance will tell. There will be helplines and online advice for people in your situation. look for LGBT advice. Good Luck- and forget about the teacher!!!
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reader, Lostandalone  +, writes (12 September 2006):
 The feelings that you have can't be helped but this is a person in a position of authority over you. This is an instructor. You have to supress your feelings because you will only torture yourself if you persue this. I hate to be the bearer of bad news but you have to look at this rationally and without the lustful thoughts. It will only hurt you in the end. I'm sure you will be attracted to someone who isn't in this position. Give it time. There is nothing wrong with having a crush but just be sensible. Good Luck.
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