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writes: Dear Cupid, Im confused about a certain man in my life.I need to know whether Im not confused about the messages he's sending out. He's always staring into my eyes for quite a while without looking away. He shows me sex jokes on his phone. He grabs my arm and tells me we should go somewhere where it's nice. He'll stare at my legs and bottom and i'll see him looking at me. It's like he want's me to see him. Sometimes he'll stare at my front part of the lower half of my body. He talkes quite a bit about sex when Im there. He'll sit in the pool while Im lying with my friends in the sun and be deep in thought, looking at the water and once in a while look at me? Im i right in telling myself he's flirting with me? What can I do to say it's ok to be with me?
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reader, David Lewis  +, writes (12 September 2006):
 To me, it seems like he is more interested in getting you into bed rather than dating you. He seems to be making his intentions clear enough. Just be careful with this one.
Maybe I am wrong, but his actions do not display serious affection, they seem to implicate he wants sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2006): He is definetly flirting with you. To let him know it's ok to be with you, you could either tell him and let him know how you feel or act how he does with you and see what happens
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reader, Ponungalungb  +, writes (12 September 2006):
 With all of the staring and gazing going on does he ever take the time to actually talk to you. LOL.
If you're interested in him, the next time he tells you that you should go "some place where it's nice", ask him what he has in mind. If he says he'd like to spend fifteen minutes with you at the No-Tell Hotel, tell him to pound sand. If he offers an evening of intelligent conversation, fine dining, and a broadway show, you might take him up on it.
Conversation: it's a good thing. . . try it.
Good luck!
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