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writes: This problem has been niggling at me for ages i really need to talk about it. There is this teacher at my school who is REALLY strict he never laughs or smiles and always tells people off except when hes around me. He always smiles (winks alot too), he tells me "i'm not mean really i'm nice to you" , "you've seen my nice side" and " i know you like me" also he never tells me off for anything and he seems really keen to be alone with me (asking for help with something etc.i make my excuses for not been able to) I just want to know WTF is going on is this guy perving or what?
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reader, angel55  +, writes (29 October 2007):
 Dont report him because if he is just being nice then you will get him in trouble for nothing.
If he starts being full on or try anything thats when you tell someone x good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2007): hi,i know what you are getting at here.my teacher is all too keen to help me after school, however not much help is actually given .he takes me to a computer suite where there is no windows and bottom floor out of the way.he is also quite full on(flirting ,complements etc.)in class he speaks directly to me and demonstrations are always at my work station where he squeezes a chair next to mine in a one person desk(so we are touching)i never thought anything of it until my friend said she was concerned of why he payed so much attention to meso now she waits outside the room or even says she needs to go on a computer so shes in there with me people say tell someone but i know its not as easy as that .if these teachers are misinterpreted as perverts we could ruin their lives .jadexx
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reader, AgonyUncle06 +, writes (12 September 2006):
Hi. I'm sure its just nothing although it does sound a lot like this could be a problem. Everytime he wants to be alone with you just avoid it as best as you can. Ask one of the senior leadership team or even the headteacher to move the classes because you feel uncomftable. Never be alone with him as i said before always be with a friend. And the most important thing, tell your parents if its bothering you that much then you can speak out and get it sorted out. Dont let it bother you. Keep me posted sweetie x
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell +, writes (12 September 2006):
 Hey,
he might be, or he might just recognise you as a good student. I'd be aware of him, help out and stuff but if he comes on to you say no and there's laws about teacher-student stuff aswell. So report him. I'm sure you're a smart clever girl so just be sensible, be cool about it.
Hope this helped you,
Phoebe xxxxx
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reader, Angel_A +, writes (12 September 2006):
 Hi there
It could be a possibility, or perhaps you're a good student that he just likes.
All I'd suggest is that you try not to encourage him to much, just be polite and act normally - perhaps you could tell someone just in case he later over steps the mark. If he does do something that you are really uncomfortable about e.g. asks you out or touches you, then report it straight away. Try not be alone with him where possible if you're really concerned, if you have to nip back into the room after class go back with a friend etc.
Never feel that just because he's a teacher that you have to do something that makes you feel uncomfortable - he would simply be abusing his power and authority.
Take care honey x
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