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writes: I've been thinking for a while now about the posiblility that i'm bisexual. I know im not gay cos im attracted to guys. But, my mate had a house party a few nights ago and we all got really drunk. We were all laughing and carrying on when my mate stood up and gave me a hug. I suddenly had an overwhelming urge to kiss her!!! I've heard the saying "the truth comes out when your drunk" Could this mean i am bi? I dont think my friends would accept me if i were.
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reader, Racheal +, writes (14 September 2006):
 Well. i wouldn't entirely say that you were Bisexual. Could you be bi-curious? Have you always had attraction to woman or was it just this woman on that night?
Look a little deeper within yourself and ask yourself soberly how you feel. :)
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (13 September 2006):
 I wouldnt say for sure that it would mean you are bi. Lots of women are attracted to the opposite sex for lots or reasons, it doesnt mean they are gay or Bi, just at that time they thought yeah shes nice ... there is a world of difference to being with a woman in a relationship, and just having a sexual liason with one. It could just be that your hormones are raging, that along with the aclohol and you just felt a little like you fancied her.. see how you go it may have been a one off or you may later down the line be attracted to more women. Having sex with a women does not necessarily equate to being Bi, Bisexual would normally mean on a broader scale a relationship is able to be had with a man as equally as with a woman.
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reader, guardian87  +, writes (12 September 2006):
 once uve taken a swig of beer (or w/e it was), whatever you do could be as simple as acting stupid or as extreme as u making out with the same sex. Bisexual? maybe.
When your thinking about being a bi, you have to know wut u like and dislike. one time being under the influence isnt going to determine that. You can either try it with a female, or just stick with being staright.
As for your friends, you can tell them when your comfortable to. You dont have to tell themn right away, but if you do tell them, be sure theyre friends you know u can trust and would have your back.
Good Luck!
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reader, David Lewis +, writes (12 September 2006):
 It could mean you are bi, yes, but alcohol seems to heighten emotion. It is easy to get carried away at such parties, especially when inhibition is at a low.
You say you have been thinking about the possibility for a while, maybe you are. If it makes you happy and you are curious, give it a try.
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