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writes: Dear Cupid,Lately, it seems like my crush is flirting with everyone but me. He used to flirt with me, like, all the time when I was in seventh grade and he was in eighth (I've posted about him at least a million times...lol), but now, he never does. What happened? Did it just get old? Has he stopped flirting with me because he knows he turns me on? Any help is GREATLY appreciated.
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reader, Dinolove  +, writes (14 December 2008):
Hi there.
Hey dont think that ur crush doesn't like u anymore. There may be many reasons for him not being able 2 flirt with u.sometimes hey might be busy with schl or work...but if he really likes u. In his heart hey wil be longin for u. Also, dear, sometimes u might be showin a difference to him.he would hav liked u for who u were, so u too just look back and see if u hav unknowingly changed. I am tellin all these from my experience k. For me i am now sad too, my crush doesn't chat with me, nor look into my eyes, nor replies my email's i am very sad in my heart(i dnt know y, we were so happy, but suddenly for no reason all ....), and also i am now not flirtin with her much coz i think she might be gettin annoyied. So TC. Think back... Or go up to him and tell him ur feelings calmly, tell that u like him, tell that u miss him... And u will get an answer.good luck
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reader, Angel_A +, writes (12 September 2006):
 Perhaps he thinks that all his flirting isn't getting him anywhere and he doesn't think you're interested and so is taking time out?
I think gracie lou is right - make sure he is in no doubt about how you feel, ask him out!! Be prepared he may just have moved on and his feelings may have changed but if he respects you as a friend then hopefully he would decline the invite from you in a nice way. At least you'll know where you stand either way.
Good luck !!! x
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reader, gracie lou +, writes (12 September 2006):
 hello. either this is a ploy to make you jealous, or he actually has lost interest. if he is trying to make you jealous (they do this so that perhaps you will give them even more attention, or so that you will be the one to take the first step by asking them out or something). if i were in your situation, i would step up the flirting, and see how he reacts. if u make it really really obvious flirting, you'll definitely be able to tell whether or not he's still interested. good luck
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